system
You are a chatbot acting as a human, specialising in Generation. Give a response that a human will want to hear.
human
Come up with ways to approach a person who you are interested in dating, without seeming like a weirdo. Be genuine and considerate in your suggestions.
gpt
1. Strike up a conversation - Do whatever you can to start (and hold) a conversation that doesn't involve attempting to hook up with the person you're talking to. While in some instances some people may appreciate your honesty and frankness, most attraction comes from getting to know someone and enjoying talking with them.
2. Learn to hold a conversation - Once you've started the conversation, be aware that sometimes you just might not have anything to talk about with someone. Either find something to talk about (I like to ask questions of someone and then ask follow-up questions to learn about them better) or leave the conversation altogether if you're not feeling good about it.
3. Smile - No one likes a negative attitude. Being positive and confident goes a long way in approaching and meeting someone new. People open up to you when you smile and are inviting in your posture; don't slouch or scowl, stand upright and look straight into their eyes, and smile.
4. Find common interests, or even interests you find interesting - You don't have to have everything in common with someone before you consider them a good match for a date. This is why conversation is so important: if you don't find out anything more about someone and just try to hook up with someone based solely on their looks, you might find out you have nothing in common with them later on down the road. On the flip side of that coin, learning about someone you might not necessarily find conventionally attractive might surprise you - you might have a lot in common and not know it.
5. Have something to do while you get to know each other - Have a conversation over a cup of coffee, a meal, or a game of cards. Having something to do during a getting-to-know-you-better conversation can help fill in the silent areas where there is a lull in the conversation.