on mon NUMBER sep NUMBER russell turpin wrote here s the better idea invite her for an afternoon cruise under the golden gate bridge in your stonehorse day sailor good way heres one that worked for me work on a database project with that person after a while hand her the keyboard to go get some lunch if when you come back she is talking to the person in the next cube about survivor all the time you were gone go for the one night boom boom plan if when you return she has read thru the help screen to try to figure out what your working on go fro the week long dine and do with options for more if she finishes the help docs and does some code if when you come back she has done some work on the db s infrastructure cleaned up your code and made a few additions to make it work better and figures that since you have done enough work for the day asks that you bring lunch and your lap top to the big screen projection room to watch your new dvd of startship troopers marry her 