دوستان عزیز مراحل رشد کودک رو بخونید و هر کجا که بچه ضعف داشت رو اون کار کنید: Child development stages Toddlers (12–24 months)[edit] Physical Weight is now approximately 3 times the child's birth weight. Respiration rate varies with emotional state and activity. Rate of growth slows. Head size increases slowly; grows approximately 1.3 cm every six months; anterior fontanelle is nearly closed at eighteen months as bones of the skull thicken. Anterior fontanelle closing or fully closed, usually at the middle of this year. Chest circumference is larger than head circumference. Legs may still appear bowed. Toddler will begin to lose the "Baby Fat" once he/she begins walking. Body shape changes; takes on more adult-like appearance; still appears top-heavy; abdomen protrudes, back is swayed. Motor development Crawls skillfully and quickly. Stands alone with feet spread apart, legs stiffened, and arms extended for support. Gets to feet unaided. Most children walk unassisted near the end of this period; falls often; not always able to maneuver around obstacles, such as furniture or toys. Uses furniture to lower self to floor; collapses backwards into a sitting position or falls forward on hands and then sits. Enjoys pushing or pulling toys while walking. Repeatedly picks up objects and throws them; direction becomes more deliberate. Attempts to run; has difficulty stopping and usually just drops to the floor. Crawls up stairs on all fours; goes down stairs in same position. Sits in a small chair. Carries toys from place to place. Enjoys crayons and markers for scribbling; uses whole-arm movement. Helps feed self; enjoys holding spoon (often upside down) and drinking from a glass or cup; not always accurate in getting utensils into mouth; frequent spills should be expected. Helps turn pages in book. Stacks two to six objects per day. Cognitive development Enjoys object-hiding activities. Early in this period, the child always searches in the same location for a hidden object (if the child has watched the hiding of an object). Later, the child will search in several locations. Passes toy to other hand when offered a second object (referred to as "crossing the midline" – an important neurological development). Manages three to four objects by setting an object aside (on lap or floor) when presented with a new toy. Puts toys in mouth less often. Enjoys looking at picture books. Demonstrates understanding of functional relationships (objects that belong together): Puts spoon in bowl and then uses spoon as if eating; places teacup on saucer and sips from cup; tries to make doll stand up. Shows or offers toy to another person to look at. Names many everyday objects. Shows increasing understanding of spatial and form discrimination: puts all pegs in a pegboard; places three geometric shapes in large formboard or puzzle. Places several small items (blocks, clothespins, cereal pieces) in a container or bottle and then dumps them out. Tries to make mechanical objects work after watching someone else do so. Responds with some facial movement, but cannot truly imitate facial expression. Most children with autism are diagnosed at this age. English Language Produces considerable "jargon": puts words and sounds together into speech-like (inflected) patterns. Holophrastic speech: uses one word to convey an entire thought; meaning depends on the inflection ("me" may be used to request more cookies or a desire to feed self). Later; produces two-word phrases to express a complete thought (telegraphic speech): "More cookie," "Daddy bye-bye." Follows simple directions, "Give Daddy the cup." When asked, will point to familiar persons, animals, and toys. Identifies three body parts if someone names them: "Show me your nose (toe, ear)." Indicates a few desired objects and activities by name: "Bye-bye," "cookie"; verbal request is often accompanied by an insistent gesture. Responds to simple questions with "yes" or "no" and appropriate head movement. Speech is 25 to 50 percent intelligible during this period. Locates familiar objects on request (if child knows location of objects). Acquires and uses five to fifty words; typically these are words that refer to animals, food, and toys. Uses gestures, such as pointing or pulling, to direct adult attention. Enjoys rhymes and songs; tries to join in. Seems aware of reciprocal (back and forth) aspects of conversational exchanges; some turn-taking in other kinds of vocal exchanges, such as making and imitating sounds. Social [11] Less wary of strangers. Helps pick up and put away toys. Plays alone. Enjoys being held and read to. Often imitates adult actions in play. Enjoys adult attention; likes to know that an adult is near; gives hugs and kisses. Recognizes self in mirror. Enjoys the companionship of other children, but does not play cooperatively. Begins to assert independence; often refuses to cooperate with daily routines that once were enjoyable; resists getting dressed, putting on shoes, eating, taking a bath; wants to try doing things without help. May have a tantrum when things go wrong or if overly tired or frustrated. Exceedingly curious about people and surroundings; needs to be watched carefully to prevent them from getting into unsafe situations.