by kelnos | 2025-08-31 20:54:06+00:00
> I still don't understand why this is so terrible.

While I don't really have a scary threat model, I don't love the idea that my ISP could have been watching my traffic. Maybe there's a world where my government has ordered ISPs to log specifics about traffic in order to trap dissidents doing things they don't like. But sure, I live in the US, which isn't (yet) an authoritarian nightmare (yet!). But maybe I live in Texas, and I'm searching for information about getting an abortion (illegal to have one there in most cases). Maybe I'm a schoolteacher in Florida, and I'm searching information on critical race theory (a topic banned from instruction in Florida schools). I want that traffic to be private.

> Even with HTTPS, the companies behind my OS and web browser can still see everything I do, so in exchange for all this work we've removed maybe 1 out of 3 parties from the equation

I mean, that's on you for using a proprietary OS owned by a for-profit corporation. I get that desktop Linux or a de-Googled Android phone isn't for everyone, but those are options you have, if you're really worried.

And there are quite a few major browsers that are open source, so even if you can't inspect their traffic at runtime, if you really are truly serious about this, you can audit their source code and do your own builds. Yes, I would consider that unnecessarily paranoid, but the option is there for you, and you can even run these browsers on proprietary OSes. And honestly, I assume you use Chrome anyway; if that's the case then you clearly are not serious about this if you're using a web browser made by an advertising company. (If you're using something else: awesome, and apologies for the bad assumption.)

> Unfortunate, TLS also took away my ability to inspect my own traffic! This makes it more difficult for me to monitor what my OS and browser vendor are doing

You can still do this, but it does require more work setting up your own CA and installing it as trusted in your own devices, and them MitM'ing your traffic at the router in order to present a cert from your CA before forwarding the connection on to the real site.

Yes, this is out of reach for the average home internet user, but if you are the kind of person who is thinking about doing traffic monitoring on your home network, then you have the skills to do this. Meanwhile, the other 99% of us get better privacy online; I think that's a perfectly fine trade off.

> and as I've said previously, I trust [my OS and browser vendor] comparatively less than my ISP.

My ISP is Comcast; even if my OS and browser vendor was Microsoft or Apple, I think I'd probably still trust Comcast less. Fortunately my OS and browser vendors are not Microsoft or Apple, so I don't have to worry about that, but still.

> Sure, but it's also trivial to just throw up a website on Github Pages, or forgo the website completely and use Instagram. TLS is "trivial" if you rely the infrastructure of a specific external party.

Running a website, even from your home internet connection, still means relying on the infrastructure of a third party. There's no way to get away from that.

And you still can run one without TLS. Browsers will still display unencrypted pages, though I'll admit that I'd be unsurprised if some future versions of major browsers stopped allowing that, or made it look scary to your average user.

> Please help me understand what I'm missing because I find this really frustrating!

I think what you are missing is that people actually do value connection encryption, for real reasons, not paranoid, tin-foil-hat reasons. And while you do present some valid downsides, we believe those downsides are overblown, or at the very least worth it in the trade off. It's fine for you to not agree with that trade off, which is a shame, but... that's life.