by hammyhavoc | 2025-07-10 22:58:27+00:00
I feel you're taking the idea of someone being disallowed to do something too literally. The younger generations say extreme stuff all the time, but you don't take it literally. Context is key. Op's girlfriend is in her mid twenties according to the blog post if she didn't lie about her age on the account she registered. This is what people in their twenties are like these days.

The dev is making money from his prompted output—he can pay for his own education if he chooses to receive an education, but you have boundary issues if you want to force someone to be educated. This is what op realized that you didn't—you usually cannot force someone to learn or take responsibility for their behaviour as a bystander, you can only document it and attempt to get help from someone more able to do so once they've got all the facts. Do I agree with the method completely? No, but what's done is done.

What is necessary here isn't an education, it's personal development and emotional maturity, which comes with experience and thus comes through time, allowing accountability for mistakes. You can't teach that to someone who isn't ready for it who doesn't want to learn it.

I was a young dickhead too once, I know them when I see them. You only have to see their tweets to realize they are a young dickhead.

We go back to likening it to a kid finding their father's gun or stealing condoms from their old man. Sure, they can produce a child when it turns to shit, but the time to have learned is before, not after. After? It's about taking responsibility for your actions. The action has been taken, the consequences must now be dealt with as per law.

What should happen? Apple should take the app down immediately and an internal investigation should be started. The host should follow their policies on ToS breaches and account termination and report it to the relevant authorities to protect their own legal interests. As for the dev? I personally don't care, we are far beyond that moment now. What about the users? Will they be informed? What's the scale? Are their passwords compromised too?

Complete assholes can build things—why should we give them energy to build things that serve their own asshole agenda? It's an unoriginal, derivative slop app. If the dev wants to learn, they can pay for an education, but they'd be better off seeking legal counsel immediately.

Anyone can make software. But not everybody should with the level of personal development they're at in any given moment. It's an ever-moving target. Teen pregnancy or in young adolescence? Disaster. Pregnancy in thirties? Normal and can deal with it. Time changes things. Sometimes. For some people.

Romanticising what happened to you in the '90s helps nobody. It's 2025. There are laws to protect people from things like this, and Apple slipped up big time in approving this in the first place. There also weren't the vast syllabi in place in the '90s, the embarrassment of riches in readily available educational materials beginning at free or cheap either. The dev can pay for an LLM, so he can pay for an education if he wants one.

The dev wanted a shortcut though because he is lazy. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Op is young too, but op is clearly intelligent and well-intentioned. There's no money in him having written the blog post, and even if it misses the mark on several levels for me, I understand what they're trying to do. The dev? Greedy and lazy with zero regard for their users, law, and shirks accountability.

If you want to educate anyone, educate op who wrote the blog post, their heart is at least in the right place, but obviously young too. It happens to all of us.

Despite being an ancient one, you too perhaps have some personal development to work on, despite your greater number of years. You immediately jump down the throat of people you incorrectly perceive to be shit-talking using AI to code, and that's because it clearly touches something you're insecure about as you do this: https://x.com/ProgramWithAI

If you're so sure of yourself and that what happened to you is so great, where is your own confidence? The inability to engage with the topic at hand yet consistently attempting to make it about something else entirely screams insecurity or abusing an LLM to parse everything for you. The loudest people are frequently the least confident.

If you don't see what's wrong with what the dev did or what Apple failed to do then that says it all. If you're using these tools to prompt your way into being a dev and seeing these problems too then perhaps you should feel unconfident. I would be quaking in my boots at seeing someone else go through a "that could have been me with a different roll of the dice" kind of scenario.

Don't mistake vibe coders for developers. They're frequently prompt engineers LARPing as devs. Likewise, musicians are not always composers, and DJs are not always musicians. Totally different disciplines. Loaded digital guns in the hands of young dickheads is not "fantastic"—it's a disaster of unprecedented scale. "Us senior devs" are the father figures and they've gotten access to not just one gun, but the entire global armory with the inevitable lack of judgement capabilities typical of someone their age.

A blog post is going to be the least of the dev's concerns, frankly. The likely legal shitstorm that's probably coming his way is going to make your comments here look bizarre.