Values influence Son ' s Self Eflicacy ? Indigenous Psychological Study

cannot ignore that there is a touch from mother to their children. Family in hand parenting over to mother, so values transferred from mother must be by her son's. This paper explore the influence of mother-son's values on of undergraduate students in Semarang, Central Java. A total of 476 male an open-ended questionnaire developed by Kim (2010), that ask how influence your values and describe the values that you learnedfrom your was analyzed using indigenous psychological approach of analyzing the the responses, one-way anova. The types of values can be learned from norm and ethics, hardworking, religiousity, and many valuable the values that given by mother is self development. value, s elf-ffi cacy, mo thers on rel at ions hip. science through crossilies offers a variety . Parenting is one of always interesting to relationship of two individuals but the relationship itself is a unique relationship of a form of closeness. Nevertheless, the meaning of almost all parenting behaviors depends on the history of the relationship relationship is ild relationship between parent-child relationship and wittr the intimate 95 the context that surrounding both (Collins & Madsen, 20O3; Maccoby,1992 in Lemer & Steinberg, 2004). Two-way relationship of parent-adolescent children in particular are very diverse in context and form of interaction for example in how to distribute positive or negative changes, quality or level of responsibility shown respectively, cognitive and emotional responses in interaction of both. Furthermore, both parents and the teenagers who said they were very close are showing almost everything about their thoughts and feelings in a positive way (Collins & Russell, l99l; Laursen & Williams, 1997 in Lemer & Steinberg, 2004). The emphasis here is that the impact of parent-child relationship will be felt by both parties, both parents and the child (Collins, Gleason, & Sesma,1997 in Lerner & Steinber g, 2004). In the parent-child relationship, parents have an " obligation" to establish their children, it's instinctive and divine. Parents are responsible to provide ethics and morals to the children so that later it could saved his/her life, in order to the children being decent and respectable as human beings (Endraswara, 2010). Parent-child relation also influences the well being of children and adolescents (Wenk, et. al. 1994), moral development (White & Matawie,2004) and, behavioral deviances leee). As mentioned previously that influenced by the history and also happens in Indonesia Almost all and cultures in lndonesia that parenting is a task of althouglr that parenting from one culture to another. the mother is impact on further personality. The to study then is how the values thev has will personality especially men when they As with most cultures, in Indonesia asserts that to be more robust and ways. To be able "qualified" it takes one in the capabilities of and execute given to deal with prospec'ti knows as self effrcacv Self Efficacy Self-efficacy predictor of According toSocial 95 Bandura, 1997), a t lbeliefs are cognitions that ;elwhether health behavior change initiated, how much effort will be how long it will be sustained of obstacles and failures. Selfthe effort one puts forth behavior and the persistence striving despite barriers and may undermine motivation. is directly related to health it also affects health behaviors its impact on goals. Selfthe challenges that on as well as how high they set Individuals with strong selfmore challenging goals DeVellis, 2000). They focus on not on obstacles (e.g., "At my is a smoking ban, anyway," are still a lot ofashtravs at