I'm sorry to hear that. In some societies short hair in men is seen as being under society's control in some way, like in the military or in jail.
Long hair in some cultures is associated with being free from societies control.
I am a men and i struggle with my family because i want to have long hair and they dont let me, i have pretty brown hair!
Males having short, cut hair are in many cultures viewed as being under society's control, such as while in the military or prison or as punishment for a crime.