Memory leak when streaming
State: open

### Describe the bug

I try to use a dataset with streaming=True, the issue I have is that the RAM usage becomes higher and higher until it is no longer sustainable.

I understand that huggingface store data in ram during the streaming, and more worker in dataloader there are, more a lot of shard will be stored in ram, but the issue I have is that the ram usage is not constant. So after each new shard loaded, the ram usage will be higher and higher.

### Steps to reproduce the bug

You can run this code and see you ram usage, after each shard of 255 examples, your ram usage will be extended.
```py
from datasets import load_dataset
from torch.utils.data import DataLoader

dataset = load_dataset("WaveGenAI/dataset", streaming=True)

dataloader = DataLoader(dataset["train"], num_workers=3)

for i, data in enumerate(dataloader):
    print(i, end="\r")
```

### Expected behavior

The Ram usage should be always the same (just 3 shards loaded in the ram).

### Environment info

- `datasets` version: 3.0.1
- Platform: Linux-6.10.5-arch1-1-x86_64-with-glibc2.40
- Python version: 3.12.4
- `huggingface_hub` version: 0.26.0
- PyArrow version: 17.0.0
- Pandas version: 2.2.3
- `fsspec` version: 2024.6.1

I seem to have encountered the same problem when loading non streaming datasets. load_from_disk. Causing hundreds of GB of memory, but the dataset actually only has 50GB

FYI when streaming parquet data, only one row group per worker is loaded in memory at a time.

Btw for datasets of embeddings you can surely optimize your RAM by reading the data as torch tensors directly instead of the default python lists

```python
from datasets import load_dataset
from torch.utils.data import DataLoader

dataset = load_dataset("WaveGenAI/dataset", streaming=True).with_format("torch")

dataloader = DataLoader(dataset["train"], num_workers=3)
```

Im also, hitting this issue.....

```python
 # This is what's causing the leak:
  batch_datasets = []
  for file_path in batch_files:
      dataset = load_dataset(..., streaming=True)
      shuffled_dataset = dataset.shuffle(seed=42, buffer_size=1000)  # 1000-item buffer
      batch_datasets.append(shuffled_dataset)  # Buffer persists

  interleaved_dataset = interleave_datasets(batch_datasets, seed=42)  
```

And, nothing helps
```python
      del batch_datasets, interleaved_dataset
      gc.collect()  # This doesn't work for HuggingFace internal memory structures
```
so my guess is that they wrote this in RUST and forgot to clean up!!!

Now, if i remove the interleaving and process files sequentially... like this it still leaks
```python

     # Process files one by one - no batching, no interleaving
     for file_idx, file_path in enumerate(file_paths):
         dataset = load_dataset("parquet", data_files=file_path, split="train", streaming=True)
         shuffled_dataset = dataset.shuffle(seed=42, buffer_size=1000) 
         
         for record in shuffled_dataset:
             # Process record immediately
             pass
         
         del dataset, shuffled_dataset
         gc.collect()
```

  - File 1: 42.4% memory
  - File 2: 42.5% memory
  - File 3: 42.5% memory
  - File 4: 48.4% memory (+6%)
  - File 5: 52.7% memory (+4.3%)
  - File 6: 56.7% memory (+4%)
  - File 7: 59.6% memory (+2.9%)
  - File 8: 62.0% memory (+2.4%)

I had to go back to sequential shuffling (NO Interleaving) and clean up like this
```python
     dataset.cleanup_cache_files()                                                         
         del dataset, shuffled_dataset                                                         
         gc.collect()                                                                          
         pa.default_memory_pool().release_unused()                                             
         libc.malloc_trim(0)  # when available   
```

i have also observed these memory leaks inside the huggingface library when developing bghira/captionflow and had the same outcome of being unable to actually free anything when it occurs. i've worked around it by avoiding some of the more damaging parts of the library, but in doing so i've essentially restricted the compatibility levels of the project.

Could it be a leak from PyArrow which is used to stream the data from the Parquet files ?

i believe it's heavily involved yeah