Don't kill in the name of good.

Rating: 8/10 (8 April 2020)

A skydiving millionaire who was paralyzed from the neck down in an accident hired a full-time caregiver for a high salary. People around him don't understand, and his answer is: he always forgets the fact that I'm paralyzed, and that's what I want, no mercy, no special treatment, no discrimination.
Two people from very different backgrounds, masters and servants, get along surprisingly well. In the middle of the night, when he was sick, he pushed him out to share a cigarette in the street. Bet together, trick the police into leading the way for speeding. Hide from all the people to go skydiving in the mountains, enjoy the conquest of looking down from the sky. He helped him break the paralysis of the inferiority complex, successfully hold the beauty back.
The true story was later made into a movie that became the number one film at the French box office. Such a stereotypical story is made interesting, true, natural and touching. I thought that if the story had been set in this country, it might have been so: ill-dressed service, self-sacrifice, patient tolerance of all bad habits and bad temper. Our dictionary of the moving, is often defined in this way, into a kind of beyond human nature, the secular fearless.
In this movie, however, life and death are no longer tears to be used as gimmicks. In the limited time of life, would rather the heart with my move presumptuous, also do not want to always like a dying like to ask for help to others, this is a kind of respect for life and respect. It has nothing to do with being moved, although it makes the viewer feel warmth all the time.
In the second half of the movie, the millionaire doesn't want him to spend the rest of his life with a patient, so he switches to another nurse. The professional carer who was always cautious and always explained to others that he was "sick" when there was a problem made his heart grow old every day and more and more miss the friend who played with him, accompanied him crazy and even joked about the paralytic.
In this story, the glory of human nature does not lie in who made greater sacrifice for whom, but only in that you gave me the peace and dignity I wanted, and I gave you the recognition and support I wanted. Their knowledge, status and status are very different, but there is an unprecedented agreement on this point: don't use what you think of as kindness, to make the other person grateful.
Every adult has a world that strangers can't easily touch, whether it's the healthy or the severely ill. It is only when they meet one another that they release a kindness mixed with joy. This kind of kindness is not kindness in the traditional sense, but to believe in and value each other's energy, to express ourselves honestly, and not to impose what we think is good on each other.
Don't do evil in the name of good. That may be something too many people fail to understand. You think she needs reassurance when all she really wants is to walk through the night alone. You think he should choose the better one, so try to dissuade him, but do not know that some roads can only go on their own, some choices may be wrong but it is the heart.
Our parents, our friends, there is no doubt that they are people who really care about us. But why, really to the difficult place, but to them difficult to say, even want to escape from them. Between people, only because of the good and evil view of the agreement, can be connected. Others think good, often in their own more like a burden. Others think of evil, but you think of freedom in the high.
Why can they transcend the class to become the soul mate, and even after they have their own lives, still often come and go. Because they read the good in each other. More because, they see each other first as a free person with an independent personality, then as a friend. Any with affection as chip, want to control the other side personality freedom, the final outcome is bound to destroy that affection.