Motive of Gatsby's love to Daisy

Rating: 6/10 (27 May 2020)

A man and woman fall in love, but due to their circumstances they can't be together, due to lack of security that he couldn't give to Daisy, or he didn't feel he deserved her because he couldn't give her the material happiness, security that she needed. Gatsby spends his life making things for her, to make her happy gaining all material needs and comforts so that finally they could be together in peace. This sort of understanding made Gatsby to be someone, to have something in order to receive love. Yes sometimes when you meet love of your life you don't feel like deserving the person and take sometime for each other to develop the trust, test and ability to value each other, or the circumstances might not let them to be together. But in this situation Gatsby has gone to gain material possessions also lot of fame and finally he has it all just to share with daisy but things don't go that way and he finally dies having lived for her and owned so much of possessions. Considering all these, for one to deserve, or accept, or receive love, should one own the possessions and riches to share with the beloved, or is there another motive to self approval or validation needed in order to receive love and accept? Motive would be the reason we would choose to love this person, the reason and the cause of it.