give 9, just not to degrade the rating

Rating: 9/10 (29 October 2008)

perfect harmony with the rhythm of the song and movie itself, but other is not impressed me much. has anyone observed this but there is quite extreme behaviors acted by ben, beloved elaine, her and ben's family. just like good-bad, ugly-beauty, movie has been lived on the top of the extreme spots. to make it more clear, elanie's mother and her attitude are unquestionably strange. in the beginning, we "movie lovers, write and comment with the intention of showing off the real good" first consider she would be a threat, manipulating him as a blunt instrument and used him against his family or what is her intention beyond all this? just a night off? and why this young graduate that hasn't been mature yet? to answer this meaningless attitude, the most reasonably response should be is to keep him stay away from her daughter. but why would a person sacrifice herself just for the possibility of this fact might come true? or the other side, she really attracted to him of being nerd? then in the end, she opposes him to marry with her child and declaring her affair to everyone. quite strange ha? second one, elaine personally are you crazy to accept what he did to your family? and how can u fell in love to him in one night? and being married with someone u don't like,and beyond this what is the reason of being it all haste? they've yet known each other for a while and god's sake they are so young. how all this possible? with all due respect, what would be the ben's family reaction after they heard the truth, affair? we still don't know, just guess by the words of ben "i could not go home after all this" during conversation with elaine. wouldn't it be the disaster between families and impairing the business relationship. they at least should be in the wedding not just because of their business relations, but also they are good friends. OK i buy all this but why she wouldn't want ben to be with her sister? i mean whats wrong? or whats inappropriate? this vague concern begins with the start of the movie just before they haven't met with each other and keeps still in the end with the result of escaping them of the wedding. as i said, characters in the movie show off the utmost point of their attitude unreasonably. but all this, film is good in general besides i like old and cliché movies. just because i appreciate the effort driven by cast i would give 9 points to film, also keeping the Oscar in mind. it is worth watching for it!