oldboy : the movie with a very confusing ending

Rating: 10/10 (9 September 2007)

I just saw the movie yesterday. The most disturbing movie I have ever seen. Its a masterpiece but very confusing.
Those who cares for the movie will find this movie a brilliant piece of work. I have seen Mr. Park's "cut" part of the movie "Three...Extreme", but I dint know that oldboy is one his work. Its a sad movie after all, destroying a man part by part, a sick game of the character "wo jin" who played the villain here. A sick story of vengeance.
After all i nthe end, what daeso want to forget? that he ever met mido? or that he knows mido is his daughter? director ends the movie for viewers open interpretation . When they hug each other at the end daeso act so strange, so here are my questions for all who have seen it, 1. does he wanted to forget mido is his daughter or 2. he wanted to erase every memory about mido? It cant be supported to erase only the secret that she is his daughter, cause even after that they will lead a sick life which cant be acceptable by me. so the decision about the forgetting was so important to me.
I cant see it again, it wont get out of head in a month I think. So re-watching the movie for finding answer is not a good idea to me. It will make you sad more.