Entertaining and not too far from reality

Rating: 9/10 (1 February 2008)

I want to comment on two things. First about the film and then about what it makes me think.
OK,this film is fun. It makes me laugh and smile. The performances of the lead actor and actress are enjoyable to watch. I think they cast just the right people, especially the guy who plays Ben. I think overall he really looks like bum but his eyes reflect kindness, just perfect for the role. The film may have been flawed and irritating a few times, but overall this is something of a good work. The story may sound a bit unbelievable, but if you're a little positive on people and believe that among those whose life are crap like Ben can be someone who has a heart, love his own child, and want to learn to be a better person, then it works. Anothing that makes me feel this movie is not too far from reality is that they never present Ben and Alison as easy relationship. They have a lot to work on and probably a lot more ahead after their baby was born. This is true for all couples.
This film makes me think. At first when Alison realized she was pregnant and she decided to call Ben, I was thinking to myself that if I was her, I wouldn't even think about that. How can you expect someone who looks like a total failure,jobless, pervert,and doesn't seem to take any responsibility in his life to be a father of your child? But then as the story moves on, I came to think, what if he's not all that bad. What if deep down inside that someone you think it's a total flop, there lies a boy who wants to grow up and be a better person. It's maybe worth the risk to give him a chance. At least your baby can be with the real father. Another thing I learn was, maybe guys really have to be told what to do. Maybe there're things that we women can't expect them to just know it and do it without asking.
Well, but I'm not sure if I'm being too positive about guys or not, hehe! Anyway, this film is a delight. I wasn't disappointed at all.