How the hell is MCU getting better reception with this crap than with The Incredible Hulk? Or...the first Iron Man movie?

Rating: 1/10 (4 November 2013)

This really boggles my mind. How in the hell is Marvel getting better reviews from audiences and critics alike with this than with say...any of the other films they made. This is not normal bad comic book movie. This is Batman And Robin's elevation as a comic book film. I went there, I hated these last two MCU films THAT much (The Avengers and Iron Man 3).
So Tony Stark creates a remote control Iron Man armor to help him stop these explosions that happen everywhere that seem to be caused by a terrorist called The Mandarin. He suffers from panic attacks and insomnia (or some sort of sleeping disorder) and attempts to stop him.
Okay with that plot description, this movie sounds awesome. Why isn't it?
The first thing that started my questioning of the whole matter was when Tony gave his home address to an international terrorist and did nothing. People blame his state of mind but...a retard on ice would at least get a gun out or something. You could make the argument that he didn't know what method he'd use to bomb his house but in the climax (I know I'm getting ahead but you need to hear this) Jarvis activates a "House Party" maneuver which activates all 50 of his Iron Man suits. You'd think THAT would be of some help back then, even if Tony wouldn't be in the right frame of mind, couldn't Jarvis activate it for him like he did in the climax! 50 Iron Man suits against a couple of missiles, that wont work at all!
Then Tony flies away in his sacred #42 Armor (seriously, 50 suits, thats the only one he uses in the entire film) and is trapped there when it runs out of power. He meets up with a boy who is bullied and helps him with information about the terrorist (kind of paints the FBI in a bad light when they're outdone by a mentally unstable billionaire and an 8 year old). This should be the heart warming moments of the character and what does he do? Call him a pussy, gives him a weapon to use against bullies and leaves him on the side of the road when he's done with him. This is the guy we're supposed to sympathize with. This is the guy we are supposed to say "we want you to win" to. Who the hell wrote this script? The Producer's 12 year old? Whats your great way to make us sympathize with him in Iron Man 4? Draw a swastika on a Catholic Church helping out orphans?
I know this could be seen as "nitpicking" but that remote control armor is actually used a lot in this film. Almost to the stage where Tony is 20 feet away from the action, performing the action like it was some sort of video game. Let me ask you this question, if the character is not in any real danger, why should I care what happens?
So Tony then goes to the Mandarin's supposed hideout and he discovers that The Mandarin, Iron Man's greatest arch nemesis in the comics, is a part played by an actor while the villain is actually a business man who uses the terrorist as an excuse for a new super drug called Extremis and apparently, its perfect according to him. No one recognized this actor who was, according to the script, well respected? Not only that but this twist is Godawful. For those who want a comparison for the reasons why, Imagine a Superman film where Lex Luthor turned out to be a 15 year old girl working for her father's evil plan to make the entire population of the world, snowmen of George Takei. I bet people would hate that film while this film would get evermore praise.
To cut a long story short, Tony kills this new villain (who is, if you can possibly believe it, the least threatening of all the villains in the MCU films), blows up his Iron Man suits which is actually my vote for the dumbest thing in this movie because its from radio transmissions and apparently Tony wired in a self destruct mechanism? So the villain could've wirelessly accessed the suits capabilities and set them all to self destruct? That is the dumbest move that anyone could actually make while owning these suits. He gets the shrapnel out of his chest (because a plot point that carried on through 2 and 3 quarters of 2 hour movies can easily be fixed in under a minute) and he throws the arc reactor into the ocean. His house is still blown up, his business is down the drain and he has no more Iron Man suits.
Do you see why I hate this film so much? I mean the acting and visual effects are decent enough but the plot and characters are so weak that I feel MCU has slipped severely in quality. Almost to the stage where making George Lucas in control of it would actually be an improvement. If you like this film, I wont judge but, I'm sorry, I just could not "turn my brain off" for this one.