OK story, damaged by reverse sexism

Rating: 4/10 (28 June 2015)

Not a bad story.
Unfortunately I was thrown off by the portrayal of all the male characters in the film.
Let me say I am a male.
I understand that the heroine was a female but the portrayal, beginning with the Father, as essentially an emotionally non-understanding and solely sports interested bozo was off- putting.
The mother says as much mentally/emotionally when we go inside her consciousness/emotions and she instead only dreams of a Brazilian helicopter pilot whom she passed up.
Then you have anger and fear; both males and both of whom do not know what to do any time a problem arises.
The imaginary boyfriend also simply "would die for Riley" and Joy uses him (multiple versions) as a human ladder.
Not one time does a male have a positive idea or problem solving strategy.
Joy of course knows as the protagonist. Then sadness and disgust know how to solve the problems when they arise.
Lastly, the boy Riley meets at the rink before her last game is completely awestruck and speechless simply by running into her.
I challenge the women who have watched this film to imagine if the hero was a man and all the females knew nothing and did not know how to problem solve. Additionally if the Father only fantasized about a Brazilian girl instead of his wife.
What message does this send our children, regardless of sex?
Sexism, reverse or not, is an outdated ideology.
Poor writing/script and damaging to males.