Marriage is like a fence, people inside want to go out, people outside want to come in

Rating: 10/10 (17 April 2020)

Of course, the first thing that is black is marriage, or is exploring the significance of marriage in modern post-industrial society.
If interpersonal communication will inevitably lead to competition for rights and lead to the situation of others being hell, then after the establishment of a family, one or both parties are unwilling to effectively fulfill the obligations and responsibilities of childbearing, and members' understanding of the nature of marriage is about to be in trouble.
The focus of the question is, is there any reason why one can feel at ease under the control and control of another person without kinship support. Of course, the movie gives a very dark answer: sexual stimulation, money protection, and the child's consumption of time and energy.
In this discussion, romantic love is more like the backward biological traits that humans have not adapted to the post-industrial society: people are forced to fall in love and conclude marriage contracts under the urge of erotic desire, but if marriage is regarded as a small organization, the existence of contract and its The restriction function is to unify the internal conception of the organization, so as to achieve the coordination of motivation and action, so that the organization can improve efficiency when participating in social activities, and continue itself more lastingly; and in the so-called Dink family, when the mating partner The erosion of lust can no longer produce fresh stimuli, but the understanding of life and the pursuit of career are different, and it is impossible to organize joint action. Then the marriage contract only has the framework function to maintain the existence of marriage. This makes some people think of it as a siege, or a prison, or a tomb, which conveys only one meaning: people can no longer see the significance of maintaining the status quo, but they have to maintain the status quo is limited by it, because there is no other choice.