Probably good movie message to the girls to avoid this type of guy if she would meet in reality

Rating: 6/10 (15 February 2015)

Actually I was first warn by one friend do not watch the movie because it is glorifying woman abuse and rape. But I alway want first to see and then have opinion about it. I think every movie gives you some kind of message to learn or some are just for a pleasure to relax your mind or have a good laugh. It puzzled me out why this movie was on Valentines day? I thought maybe it is to let you understand how BDSM can become as sexual excitement to person who is new to it, because I do not really get it myself. But I could not sense it from Ana's play only that she liked the guy and wanted to get to know him better and decided to please him because it was the only way that he allowed to get to know him better. His way of trying to show that he is interested in her, but then pulling away, controlling and just buying her with expensive gifts to submit to his cruel emotional and then physical abuse... Well it is actually good message to young and unexperienced girls that if you meet the creep like this just run away as fast as you can, don't give up your pride, self respect, woman are not a doll for sexual pleasure and especially not for any kind of physical abuse let alone mental abuse with control and emotional distance. I give it 6 star because it is a good message to understand and recognize that there can be psychopaths like that and avoid to get involved in real life, movie is well maid and actors play it very well, I was watching it with desire to see what will be next, it keeps you engaged, only would not recommend to watch this movie on Valentines day if you want to see something romantic that ends happily. I didn't read the book maybe there was different kind of idea the author wanted to pass to the readers. But it is never good idea to compare book with movie, book uses words and plays on your imagination and we all have different ideas and and the way we understand things. Actors and movie director have their own way to show it, so it is always going to be different. I would definitely recommend to watch it.