Makes you think about relationships and sex life

Rating: 8/10 (17 April 2016)

I feel reviews of this movie have been too unfair. I feel it is a flock , sheep, heard effect. Yes there are a few things that aren't great about the film but the feeling is what is most important to me.
That being said, I will start by a few annoyances I found as I watched the movie. I think Dakota is an excellent actress when it comes to displaying emotions. She works really well with her eyes and you can see her energy coming out of her entire body when she is living that part. Her acting is a 9 out of 10. Apart from the forced awkward constant biting of the lip - which you could tell she has been ordered so many times by the director to do it and there was poor directing decisions as to how long one should have the frame on her lip, I mean, I feel it was not even her fault . i feel poor directing in this specific instance. Other than this, this is something that gets men excited.
I really enjoyed her interpretation, it kept me on the edge of my seat. She was very convincing as a young girl, hot for this successful confident guy, and this man is someone who finally turns her on enough to drive her crazy but not too crazy because she is quite lucid about the whole thing because now speaking of the character... she is a smart girl who thinks with her own mind and doesn't allow him to boss her around.
From what I can see people who rate this so badly are either people who want the same old love story and don't understand psychological nuances and just expect the same kind of movie. People need to start opening up to different kinds of plots.
For me, having been married for 8 years, this was about reconnecting to my sexuality that has been somewhat lost. I don't mean the props are needed but there is something everyone can get out of this.
The actor does portray this kind of man well. yes he seems cold but has inner turmoils going on inside him. Just because his demeanor is cold doesn't mean he is incapable of feeling. And so many people are like that.
It seems like a lot of people are narrow minded and have no idea of the diversity and a lot of people will feel ashamed to say they got thrills from this movie. I did. It is nothing to be ashamed of. Certain parts turned me on and I am not sade or masochist but there were parts that were very hot indeed. There was one moment in the very end that was a little more aggressive and this was just her decision to go beyond her boundaries.
A very valid movie. I was engaged the whole time and it explores many depths of the human psyche.
there was a lot of chemistry between the two actors. just feel the directing and the cuts editing timings could have been better. poor directing and editing can ruin an actors work.
I didn't watch the movie immediately when it came out because I didn't read the book and I wasn't eager to watch a whole lot of sex scenes. But it came up on TV one day and I gave it a chance despite all the negative reviews. I am glad I did because it shifted things around in me. Maybe not enough to make me want to pursue that kind of sexual life or relationship model but enough to make me spice up my own sexual life.
This actress is very sexy as a woman I can see that and she did a great part. She was perfect for the part and so was he. She is that kind of not striking gorgeous obvious beauty but has so much intensity in her eyes you can actually see the burn inside her, the desire is burning her up inside and he who is always in control almost looses control and actually looses control. I felt they were actually hot for each other for real.
Well done to these two actors.