Fifty shades to all of us

Rating: 9/10 (13 February 2015)

i watched it and i am a guy, i did not read the books but i was intrigued by the story of what i was told by my female friends when the books first came out...i know i should have read the books but i wanted to see the movie without having too many preconceived notions...and i truly enjoyed the story for what it was...i am a hopeless romantic myself like the character of Anastacia and yes i can understand how she feels when she meets Christian...he is from a completely different world and this would be exciting to most people...plus from the beginning Christian wants her and he is into her, IE devoted to her only...what person does not want that...most of the time people like to play mind games and you never know whether this person is into you or not, yet Christian is honest with her from the beginning about what he wants from their "relationship"...unfortunately we cant always help who we develop feelings of love for...and in this case its a story about how two people fall in love and also try to resist the urge because of their own fears and doubts...we all have different shades/layers to our personalities...we aren't just one dimensional and love and relationships are complex, because loving someone is about accepting all of them, the good and the bad...i highly recommend this movie...because it speaks about so much more...if people are only willing to dig deeper...so don't judge something that you can't show real understanding/compassion for...it never seizes to amaze me how its so easy for people to hate something that they don't understand and have no room in their hearts to show kindness or compassion...to all the people who are so negative about this story...why don't you try and see then if you can write a better story or make a better movie...i would like to know how YOU will feel, when people judge and attack YOU then with their negativity...peace...