Don't know what is BDSM - you wont like this movie

Rating: 9/10 (1 July 2015)

To all of those who doesn't know what BDSM and Dominant/Submissive relationships are: this movie shows domestic violence. I agree but if you want to know why this story/movie is not about domestic violence keep reading (SPOILER ALERT). At first to all normal" people story goes like this. A rich guy basically lures young female into his sex and bondage acts because HE likes it. And then the female agrees, story evolves, and in the end female cries and leaves the relationship because this cruelty isn't her thing. That's about it. Now lets look at the movie from Dom/Sub perspective with the drama that holds the story going. The rich guy was abused when he was young. A slightly older woman seduced him into her webs and made him fall in love with Dom/Sub scene. (Now this is an example that it works the other way too: female as the Dom and male as the Sub. So don't talk about how this movie glorifies acts of violence towards woman.) But then something bad happened, as we can see by the scars on his body. And now he is left to submit strange women not just one that would be his own. And then he finds this young female student. And he sees himself in her. So at this point he wants to make her his own BUT he would treat her right and wouldn't let anything bad happen to her (like those scars on his body-he wanted to make it right for someone). As he, she also is new to the BDSM scene. But of course her soul is not into the scene and that is the reason she leaves. Because in the end, you can't push one into BDSM – this is a thing that grows on you, it is not learned, you simply love it or hate it. And that is also why in the next books she normalizes" the rich guy and not the other way around. And as for me personally this movie was pleasurable because the guy was hot and I'm like a sub to the scene. A nice romantic story which of course is a dreamy one and does not relate to reality.