Eternal Sunshine - Point of View

Rating: 9/10 (28 December 2011)

Eternal Sunshine draws confusion from me when I first saw it. Relationship per se is complicated and much more complicated because of two unique individuals involve. For me, Sunshine means happiness with the word eternal make it long lasting, from this, I conclude that having empty slate will makes us happy which contradicts the human nature. Memories, good or bad, can be perceived both as inspiration and learning ground, why do we want to eradicate someone in our life that easy? Isn't that completely dumb? --- Wasting years of learning and appreciating what you had. For the past 20 years of my life, people just come or go, some stayed for a while and some stayed for the longest but each one of them left a mark even not in my heart (which they correlate with love, but I guess it's a cliché too) but in my hippocampus even short term or long term they will always stay under my subconscious. Spotless mind is really being clueless, its subjecting yourself to undergo suppression of the human mind by unconscious forgetting, its controlling the nature of the human. Its not bad that sometimes we wanted to break-free by forgetting the world and be forgotten by world, that makes us entirely human. Let happiness outweigh the bad in the relationship; don't let the relationship breaks in front of you. Let experiences be worth reminiscing for both of you, lingers in every single neuron in your brain. Fights, arguments, pressures, distance, indifferences are part of every single relationship so don't ever think that because you are having troubles every time its not worth fighting for, that sometimes we think that Mr./Ms. Right is out there, we could never find that person unless we learn how to build a solid foundation of memories and experience from both to build the right relationship. Love is not about instinct, it couldn't be learned nor taught, love could never be defined by people that are not involve, and what they saw --- until the end of the day those people wont be experiencing the same thing you'll have and they will never regret the things that you will lose. It takes two to keep the ball rolling, its not a basketball game that we could pass every problems we couldn't handle. People will just you as superficial so never take their advice, because you don't want to suffer because of their senseless senses remember even there is the word "empathy" they could not have your shoe when things turn to crap. Just live life and let life flows.