Comedy with deep insights

Rating: 8/10 (27 December 2013)

This movie is only superficially about porn watching. Instead it is about empathy and reason in relationships. Spoilers ahead.
On one hand, you have a girlfriend which suffers from the pretty girl syndrome (the beautiful, wealthy and the powerful never hear the truth). She is used to guys bending over backwards to her wishes and she expects it. She throws tantrums and threatens to break up whenever there is a significant disagreements, which leads the boyfriend to not be honest. Most importantly, she avoids any depth of discussion to understand where the conflict comes from. She holds irrational beliefs which she is not ready to reason or argue about.
On the other hand, a more mature and wise woman, who is not afraid to speak the truth, helps him towards self-knowledge. She asks questions (in a Socratic way), isn't afraid of taboo topics, and does not punish him for being honest. She cares more about the person and the connection, and less about appearances or preconceptions. She helps him understand himself and grow.