really?

Rating: 2/10 (5 February 2018)

OK - for just one second imagine that the younger protagonist was in fact a girl of 17, not a boy of 17. Now imagine the positive reviews for having a 30+ year old "seducing" a 17 year old.
Why is this not an issue for people in this movie???? It's illegal and wrong.
I'm sorry, I found this movie dull, long and unbelievable - not having read the book, i can't speak to the deeper story here - but as a parent i am disturbed that so many people feel this is ok - AND that the father is totally cool with it.
i want to be clear, this is not a rail against sexuality in general - just one with a creepy - old man vibe -
Think Kevin Spacey last year - everyone was up in arms over that - why the difference here?????????????????????????????????????????????