Confronting & Personal, a story extremely well performed and presented

Rating: 10/10 (28 August 2006)

I waited a whole year to get to see this film. It was worth the wait. The story is one that was very "taboo" back when it is set, 1963 & onward, and in a region that would probably still find the subject matter "taboo'. I found the movie very confronting, moving, and quite personal. The story is exceptionally well framed. The movie is admirably directed and beautifully filmed. The lead roles, particularly Heath Ledger & Jake Gyllenhaal are superbly acted. Well done all involved!!! I grew up in the period when the movie begins, a teenager of the sixties, knowing I was "different", that I felt differently to my mates and family and trying to come to terms with those differences and rationalise them with a reasonably religious upbringing was a long and difficult road to follow. Falling madly and permanently in love with a 'best mate', knowing that could never go anywhere was a bitter, confusing and frustrating emotional time. As you get older it is put into a clearer perspective, no less painful, but clearer. You still love, but life must move on. I thank all concerned in the writing and making of this story for telling a tale of true love, against the odds. I'm sure that it touched a personal and private place in many hearts. A special thanks to Heath & Jake for showing their bravery portraying the main characters in such a genuine and deeply moving manner. Thanks again. In the words of Rod McKuen "It matters not who you love, or how you love - but, that you love".