Pass on this film. No love here, and not even gay

Rating: 2/10 (26 December 2005)

Aside from the film being extremely slow, the film is shot beautifully, and well acted, so if you are into the technique of film making..perhaps it is worth your wild.
For the rest of us who are into the story and message of films, that is something completely different.
THIS IS NO LOVE STORY OF ANY FORM. Just two spoiled, self centered men, who do not have the emotional strength or character to be honest with themselves and accept the consequences of their choices. The end result is they "use" others, in this case the women, for there own narrow needs and pretend that love and desire are limited to a physical relationship with out responsibility. Thus I challenge the content of being nothing more than a weak and sad justification for the abusive treatment of others, under the guides of "them" feeling bad. Straight, bi, trans or gay, that is just wrong. As such, I would not recommend a film that glorifies poor human behavior and hides behind actions as being some orientation or acceptance issue.
Specifically:
First off, who says these men are "gay"? They are NOT. Both men in the story were with and are attracted to women. This make them at the very least bisexual. Either way, choose one person and BE with them. Anything else is simply not right regardless of the orientation.
Second, love is more than sex, which is all this film shows..two men getting drunk, lots of lust and getting relief. In fact NO love was shown at all. True love is a hell of a lot more complicated. The day to day life of caring and being there for some one. The daily grind of life, the commitment, the listening to each other, the support, the loyalty. All we see here is 2 guys lusting for some perceived "no burdened" sex.
Third, the one man sleeps with third man for money...OK, real "true love" being demonstrated here. The theoretical "love of his life" he cheats on and he endangers the one other person who is standing by him...his wife. Real champ.
I find it sad that they destroy their own lives and the lives of others because of this lack of character. Again, not a film to inspire your life by. Do what is right.
This movie just shows what is wrong with many gay-men's relationships (INCLUDING some straight men) and why a majority of this country can not accept the lifestyle. the inappropriate behavior. The lack of self-responsibility, loyalty and the emotional maturity to put sex in the same pot as devotion and dedication. Many Many Gay men seem to remain in this prepuberty state of me me me me and never connecting true love with every day deeds of trust, loyalty and faith into a physical relationship. This movie demonstrates this characteristic flaw perfectly.
This film is not worth supporting through you admittance ticket. It belittles and categorizes the many wonderful gay/lesbian people to being irresponsible about love and sex, a VERY "straight" perception.
Perhaps some day, when someone creates a film of loyalty between truly in love partners who treat others with care and repect, the process and true struggles of coming to terms with a different sexual reference or even the burden of every day life in a world that does not understand. NOW that would be a film worth all this attention. This film is fair from it.
The only reason it gets any score is that the directors work is excellent and the actors do a great job, but the story and it's message suck.