Why Merida Will Never Be Mulan

Rating: 7/10 (4 July 2013)

If I say anything here that seems like a spoiler for this movie, or for another movie...I'm sorry. I'm warning you right now....
This movie isn't bad. It just isn't outstanding, either. I think most of the adult audience is unhappy with this flick, because we now have to adjust our expectations, and accept this fact. When it comes to folklore, folk tales, fairy tales, and especially princesses--- both PIXAR and Disney have lost their "magical" touch. (Hint: it sort of ended around the time of Tangled/ Rapunzel).
I have nothing against Brenda Chapman. She tried to create a heroine that would top Mulan. That was a tall order, and Chapman missed. What she created was a girl with some decent traits (outdoorsy, spirited, resourceful, loves her family unit)--- but who has NO SELF-CONTROL AT ALL. I have watched Merida multiple times on screen, now, and the thing that always arises in my mind is simply... Merida, why can't you contain yourself enough to act equitably? Yes, your mother has done you a disservice, by not allowing you to be privy to "this life-altering decision," but why can't you be fair to her? Why couldn't you take the high road?
Mulan took the high road. After she stood up at the dinner table and petulantly made her disagreement known--- she also did something very special. Mulan grabbed her self-control, and decided to think about how she could possibly improve the situation for both her and her parents. Mulan sacrificed her life and her identity... for her father's. Where do you do that, Merida? You, Merida, do not have much of a sacrificial spirit at all, even at the close of your story. You are simply wracked with guilt for having chosen poorly.
I actually like you, Merida. I do. (I've even crocheted you into a doll, now, that's how passing fond I am). You have some strong qualities, and you are resourceful. But until you not only ask for forgiveness, but also master SELF-CONTROL in your life--- you are NOT much of a role model for any young girl. Being BRAVE does not mean you act UNJUSTLY, and cease to respect others. Being BRAVE means you think about your actions, their potential consequences, and how to sacrifice yourself for your fellow man or woman. Mulan was able to do this---so she was a lot BRAVER than you are.