Late to the game.

Rating: 10/10 (8 February 2019)

I prefaced this post by saying I'm a romantic at heart, but that I've live, learned and loved enough to see that, Joesph Gordon-Levitt was right describing "Tom" as selfish in his approach to relationships. I would like to add that it was necessary for Tom to go through the "pain" of the relationship, other wise he wouldn't mature in his understanding of love and allowing the "other" of the relationship to be that which makes them special in the first place.
I have seen "The Graduate" more then 20 times, it is a classic for me , and it is the PERFECT metaphor to the main theme in the movie.
ALSO... The writhing and directing was FANTASTIC! whether you like this "type" of movie or not, the scenes of the Zoe & J.G-L where magical! the dialog was engaging and felt entirely real. It WORKED for me. Plus i think i learned something which makes this movie now in my top 20.