some incredible guests and we're just going to jump right into who they are what they what they do we are going to talk about this absolutely amazing nonprofit organization that was started by a very dear creator of this whole entire you literally birthed this concept and we also have written a flag or who is the administrator of liberating taymor and i also happen to be the creative director of liberating so as you said i am the founder of an organization called liberating tame our and it's basically a movement that we start i did four years ago it's just it's a movement that was started out of my own story of pain and sexual abuse as a toddler so basically god gave me this this mandate to go to take my story of liberation because he had processed me for decades after the abuse so he instructed me to take that  story of abuse and the process that it took me through to get me to where i am today through the bible and through the ministry of the holy spirit and prayer take that mandate and go wherever he opens doors and minister to others who may or may not have the same type of narrative because deliberating to a more is more about the emotional baggage that stems from trauma than any specific trauma so what do i mean by that i mean that it's not only about sexual abuse per se but it's about any trauma that has caused you to become traumatized abused misunderstood and rejected which is an acronym that god gave me for taymor and that's wonderful and one of the things that i'm i just thought to myself i want to be a part of this and she said it's only more of them volunteer more than she called him and to be her ministry or so i thought that was awesome i said sure i will come in and i don't know much but thank you for teaching me and here i am today i'm a mother i'm a wife and i just thank you for having me here it is and is you know it's my pleasure absolutely someone to go back to usually unseen as you know one of the things that we do  with this show is we talk about the tense or value and i usually ask my guest to pick one or two of those values that really resonate with them so when you think within the context of liberating time are and how it came into being the two values that you chose are faith trust and belief that's the first one and then vision purpose and action so you can you talk a little bit about how those values relate directly to the work that you do in liberating tamer absolutely because it's a story of a so that's the first value so basically it's a story of faith with god a walk with god a process that he has taken me through it took a lot of trusting on my part it took a lot of opening up and transparency towards god and allow him into my dysfunction allow him in my emotional wounds and so it was a process of submission and trust and faith you know as go processed me through and and so faith is something that is that is absolutely paramount and this line of work that we have because we have to also add also in part into the lives of others the same process that god has ha process there through so we have this curriculum that is based on the story and my story or my life story that we are taking people through and we have to empower people as rene said and and help them believe that if god has this process and we are now stable more stable than we used to be he has the ability to do that in their lives as well so faith is absolutely paramount in this line of work yeah and the next one is vision so so vision also is that's that's exactly that's what we do right so god gave me this huge vision and that i submitted to and basically taking that vision and going everywhere that he opens a door for us to go through and he's been doing that throughout the four years that we've been in existence and just kind of telling people what we are about seeking partnerships casting that vision out out there with other organizations so they can partner with us casting that vision to other pastors and other ministers and other organizations so they can come on board and lock arms whether us so we can fulfill this larger mandate that god has called us to do so we have under four that's wonderful so we're now you also chose faith trust and belief but then you also selected managing relationships so looking again at those values within the lens of liberating tame are and how do you see that relationship while managing relationships to me is very important i've been through a lot in my life with dysfunctional relationships and taking classes with a liberating team are taught me a lot about how to interact with different people how to accept who people are you know try not to change them so taking all those taking all of that and taking it back to my family and teaching them how to learn to coexist and not to push yourself and what your beliefs on to other people because other people have a own belief and respect their beliefs and i'm so passionate about that you know to be able to be in a relationship with each other and love each other for you differences and things like that and and and with my marriage i we've taught each other how to respect each other and this into each other so i want to take those things when i see my brothers and my sisters and my in laws and things like that how they manage their relationships and the conflicts and teach them what i've learned so liberating to a more i feel to them to help me you know with that further that in my family that we can you so can just talk a little bit more about the name itself liberating tame are can you share with our audience what the significance is of that name yes so so tame our is is a character is a biblical character in the bible it's she was the daughter of king david and she was raped by her brother amnon so so that's relating it back to my story i was raped when i was three years old up until the age of six  so so god gave me that story and he asked me to take that name i'm going to give you a couple acronyms for that name and then the liberating part is basically breaking free breaking pay more for from whatever dysfunction has stemmed from her sexual abuse and taymor as i stated earlier is not only someone who's gone through sexual abuse but is because in the story of taylor there is a lot there there's a story of abandonment there's a story of rejection there's the story of sexual abuse as a spirit story of domestic violence there's a whole lot in that whole one story of a more so tame are is not only a victim or survivor of sexual abuse taymor is someone who has had trauma in their life and as a result is now traumatized abused misunderstood and rejected so liberating tame are is basically breaking whoever is tame are free right and god gave me a second acronym for tame our which is trusting intrinsically it is to change her perspective on how she sees herself right stemming from that trauma because she can see herself through the lines of victimization bryce so we want to change that perspective and see the change her perspective on how she sees god and how she receives her trauma because even though god does not bring trauma into our lives god uses trauma yes you know it's to get her from tim our to tame our ok so if you think about what we do ye and liberating time are within a larger context when you think about things like to me to movement and there's a lot of instances now where there's a lot more focus and attention on people who are women specifically who have gone through those types of issues so can of the same good thing right the mandate that we have is to take that mandate into the world and and and empower women to own their story write on their story and not be afraid to share their story with others because the liberation process comes through transparency because there is there appear to value in transparency so as you share with others you empower others and you let them know that they are not alone that you also have faced the same thing and that god has brought you out of that situation and he will do the same thing for them so so liberating to more and to me to movement kind of have a similar mandate in that in that perspective and i respect right now you talked about one of the courses that you had taken under liberating so can you share a little bit more about the course itself and what that experience was like their experience with her and her husband i believe with his awesome oh so with the both of awesome in liberating taymor for me taymor voice was taken from her she had no voice she was told not to speak you know so the me too movement for me is tamer getting her voice back and that's what that's what i get from that and been in existence so the first thing that i remember is the very first event that we had so that was pretty much the launch of liberating tamer that we had we called it a vendor extravaganza that was four years ago  the way the event went it was powerful my husband was there so he shared a few words on how tame our should see herself when she's called ugly so he gave a beautiful acronym for ugly and that really minister to the women oh you are really i am here you have ultimately god loves you yeah so that was powerful and that's where i kind of shared about the mandate and opened up about my story and really minister to people i remember in that event there was this young lady who came and now she's a part of the organization she came and she stood up in the middle of the of the event and she started crying and she said i have been sexually molested i've been abused teach me how to forgive so so that was that was amazing that really made the whole entire event for me because that kind of served as confirmation that this was of god and that the holy spirit was moving and that he was going to set people free who those org ization so that is the most memorable of the whole four years but this year i mean the second the third and and this year we've we've done a lot of great things as well and one of the things that we try to do periodically throughout the year is partner with organizations who who do ministry in the community so we have partnered with the salvation army in the fact the past couple of years where we've had our our christmas event and basically we have them bring ladies from the community ladies of all kinds of background ladies who have gone through the mystic abuse and and all kinds of violation and trauma and they bring them together in this one place and we come out and we just share the love of god we preach from the word of god we share our stories we minister and we bless them with gifts and for the christmas season we also do repeat that on mother's day as well so that has been really really impactful and we've seen a lot of a lot of breakthrough in some of the women that we've minister to and also we have a bible study going on a monthly bible study that we have going on at the salvation army every if second wednesday of the month and that is really tremendous and and  god spoke about a curriculum that god gave me earlier so basically the curriculum is called liberating tame our it's a book and a workbook package that god has has caused me to to create out of my story which is basically the process of liberation and that's another that's another acronym and that the process of liberation is basically truth because the bible says and john eight thirty two that you shall know the truth and the true shopping set you free and it's  assimilation because you have to take the truth in right and order to be broken free then you have to your mentality it has to be a mentality shift your paradigm has to shift as a relates to your narrative and as relates to god as a relates to last letter is our which is west you have to rest and trust that he that has we're going to go to work in you shall complete into the day of jesus christ so that's another acronym for tame our which is the process of liberation pretty much so we take that curriculum and we teach that at the salvation army on every second wednesday of the month that's wonderful that's wonderful summer night in all of this what is it that made you decide i want to be a part of this amazing i've seen in church a few times came to my daughter's baby shower and things like that you see the two of us you know we love my kids and i thought it went to the event and then when she actually me it was just like yes and i've been sansa yes plain and simple yes yes yes yes yes because i know i have a mission we all have a mission and liberating to a mars mission i believe in live up with what i believe i should be doing going out i wanted to community you know helping hurting people what i have went through teaching of what and this is a simple event everything that i went through in my life have been preparing me for this very moment for the go out and give back and show people and teach people hurting people how they don't have to hurt you question we've been talking a lot about women and trauma among women and whether it's domestic violence or rape all of those so can you share a little bit about how liberating taymor relates to men who have those same types of experiences because i think in today's society we're starting to see that occurrence as can be more across the board rather than you know just exclusively to one group versus another absolutely absolutely so that's powerful question so tame are as i said earlier is not only about the trauma of sexual abuse and it's not you know and it's not only about women right because everyone who's ever been traumatized abused misses misunderstood and rejected as tim are in my view so we don't have many men as part of the organization per se but the vision is to progressively integrate men within vision my husband is a part of the the organization but he's the only male right now but i'm believe in god many of them will come and not be intimidated by the fact that it's called liberating taim are they have to see beyond the alarming rates also are victims of domestic violence victims of sexual abuse and rape but we don't really when we think about these things these type of trauma we only think about women but in reality a lot of men have the same type of narrative as well so that's the broader mandate incorporating the men and witching out more and more to these people and kind of sensitizing that to the fact that they don't have to live broken and they don't have to live broken and wounded and stuck either there is something that can really help them within this organization but they have to be sensitized because i know that men kind of are not there yet a lot of them or not there so just very quickly children yes because there was an incident if you will remember so how do you think there would come a day where you might have a program or a curriculum that you dear towards young the children especially given the fact that your experience came when you were very young absolutely and we got to say this real quick because we're having a really and i absolutely it's funny that you ask that question because actually my next book is going to be liberating taymor youth edition that is that's what got me for the next curriculum so this is something that god has already put on my heart and based like he said based on my narrative there is a lot that we can we can help young children with and really process them through that through the liberation process so i'm really excited about this next this next initiative or this so any final words that you would like to share with our audience about liberating k mart the work that we do all of the absolutely with the one thing i want to say is support this organization god has a lot in store for us to do in the future so you can follow us on our website on our and all those things and minister ring to people from a ministry perspective enlarging our borders so basically follow us so you can support this organization and if you want to volunteer you want to be a part of our team it's a great team we are great great job and we have a lot of fun in ministry so please go to our website visit it and contact us and we'll be glad to have a conversation with you and don't they don't know may have been donated so to our audience i want to thank you so much for joining us for this segment of the place to soar and i guess i'll see you next time b