good evening and welcome to alameda county is giving back program it's so wonderful to have you this evening tonight we are interviewing a profound woman a woman that has a statue that's just  ified by her strength and her ability to talk to young women and to talk to anyone really miss trudy brian williams and i also want to tell you that we have our assistant would like for you to tell us girls talk to tell us about your program and first of all though we want to talk about you all about you people out there you need to know this profound woman she is really ago and we lived on this after the wonderful farm there were seven children and i mean there was a lot a lot of love there i remember my my father how he always took care of us and he always had this huge barbecue he would stay up all night long and he would barbecue and invite all of the people that helped him the one that season everybody came and they aided him but and play games and we were just all over the place in and out of the house kids adults everybody and it was a great time so my beginnings were great and it taught me about community and it taught me about family and how to respect enough self and others and so that's was kind of were where i began you know with my that and my mom and all of those i have four brothers and i have two sisters and  caused the wonderful thing that i would like for you to talk about is your ability to communicate with young women and the morals and the things that you talk to them about and in what setting and where is your organize after a period of time i reconnected with my sex the person that i was trying to be and i remember my dad and i remember the love and i remember this commitment and i remember how special he always made all of us feel and then i had to remember who i was and what i remembered then i began to make some changes in my life and what happened with that is and i look at women and then i see them and it just seems like some of them a small loft and it kind of frightens me because i think that a lot of them don't have what i had to absolutely wonderful parents who were loving me and to give them strength and me to grow and to be the best that i could be and for that moment in time when my husband had gotten to the place that he made me believe that i wasn't national more not than and that he was the only one that love me which is definitely not factual because somebody you love you don't treat like that and if and that you believe in then nobody else one you know and so what i would be it was i had to regroup you know sort of pull from didn't strength and and as i dared that i began to move forward and just become this person that i should be but but but as i'm looking at a lot of these women and young women especially i'm seeing how they are being mistreated and have a are being misled and how they believe that the way that they are going way is the right way because someone has already lied to them like i was glad to and i saw the ad and i was like you know it's really time for me to look at doing something different i want i want i want young people to hear that they're better than that yeah so i decided that it's time for me to take some of busy hearing what other people think of us that we get lost so we can't talk to anybody because someone is already talk to us and feel the hearts in our minds with  what you say about me does not matter because i love my step b b young on who you are what you say so this is about me this is about my group and that's kind of what we're bringing it back to now what we do is  we don't have we are looking for a place we don't have a physical place but we do is if you have a need and you have a group we come and we join you we are allowing you to talk about anything and everything we have a different materials about forgiven say about love and self about how to make it yes that we try something that they haven't been able to get for whatever we surely is there a number or is there you know email that the women and men also out there in the audience that could you know at least assist you because there are men that also can a participant and have something to say about offering women a self esteem and helping them know that they are special when you hear a man say that they're wow there is a man that is out there wanting to be a good person and wanting to not control my destiny but allow me to control my own destiny and there are those i mean there would be so interesting is like i  and it is interesting after what is talking about it he looked at me and he says i am so sorry that you and and i thought that was interesting because you know i've heard talked to me and said i want to be a part of it i want to talk to young ladies and that's exciting to me because because you got to be careful yeah yeah but see also what we do is we do backgrounds we don't have i mean ok so we're trying to make a difference and we want them to feel good and comfortable and right and so they want to look for background checks so those of you out there who are interested in helping trudy do this those of you women who need the services to there can you please give them your number of your e mail whatever they can do to get you we are girls talk  and that's why we're here we're here to be of the community and it starts not and we just had an i pad gone when i said replace i don't mean just new out the pitcher but when you get i'll pass the baton so they can do something positive is right and bring somebody out but let me ask you this do you want when we say support do you want clothing or something for some of these women have you gotten that far well i haven't gotten you know we need a place to house all the stuff that we are so we are looking and we are needing support because we want our women to be the best they can be better be the best of it can be if everybody is happy and supporting  forgive yourself first just that what you do i like i put a shout out to ana challenge to all the sororities out there there are so many out there that are really profound young women and older women who have made a difference in their own lives by being professionals by going to college and becoming involved in the sorority i challenge you to take a hand and reach out there and help this organization that is trying to make a difference in other young women challenge them to make sure that they go to college try to pull them up knowing in loving you i personally got it from my father my father was a who raised me by itself you know and i had a nanny but to make a strong woman also had to come for some women who taught me how to do that if i was young and had a woman like you truly i young woman who could walk tall and maybe be the first lady but no be the president we ask you to please help her give her an opportunity and give her a helping hand for this opportunity to make a difference in young women's lives truly truly your story doesn't just stop with you one thing to help people you've gone above and beyond helping people that's another show but we're going to give them a tease truly tell about your wonderful self and your family please i'd like to go mother a single mother and i like to say i'm married because i have children there's enough and single about me in they keep her busy and the fact that she's a single woman that's working a professional and who is doing the job of raising women young positive wonderful glorious beautiful intelligent women and that is what this organization that is that they're doing and we're asking you again to make sure that you can help trudy please again give us the information that we need to get it's important that everyone out there men and women any morgan is a sion if you have a warehouse that she could use to store the things that she's going to be getting we'd appreciate it very much if you could at least put a hand in trying to get this and you know what else i was thinking about some of the recreation centers this would really be nice to start different yes but it's there because i know they have a need for this your organization somebody can fit somebody can fit to it would have girls could you know what i'm saying funding might not be all it is to be but if you just need a facility to be able to haue the programs and have a place to have a meeting with the women that you are here to support you and we are also trying to be a resources for you because you know and add love want to do this figure out where you need to go like social services social services so we can as we're building these resources oh we can support you and we can all grow together and that's about what we're looking for i'm excited about this bird i had i don't know i don't know if i told you this then there may be a time when you may be able to support model so we are willing workers together to be able to do that and the community starts with you out there out there you are the ones that can make or break sometimes an ability for someone like truly to make it happen your assistance your time your caring and your just maybe just calling or emailing and saying keep up the good work  supporting someone who is making a difference in the community is where we need to be truly everything that you have said about your group an organization is depleted in the manner in which you carry yourself i thank you so much because you are one the most profound women that i know the nominal woman for a nominal woman is phenomenal woman and again could you please give us the email where they can get in contact with you girls talk t yet and so it's like but the challenge was for me to decide that something needed to be that the person that needed to do it was me and so and so i had accepted that then i have started to getting together beings to support a program and and that's forming i would kind of things do you need to buy for the program do you need toiletries do you need food what are some of the items that you desperation my cry of wanting help you're there to help that the community needs to know that we really are out there that talk group is a top group of girls out female a woman a someone who care group please understand that without anyone else you there are so many organizations that cannot function cannot help all of you out there that are listening please understand that it is imperative that we pay attention that we know that there are people like truly who is trying to make a difference by me and i every day at the juvenile hall in sailing and or on a up there we try to make a difference in the young men and women that we function with we're asking you we're asking all of you to please pay attention to know that without you him are correct truly without them helping us and that's all of us up here for sure to help and give a helping hand thank you truly i mean i can only keep saying that to you for putting effort out you know bonnie and i have known you a while so we know the blessings that you are getting and heart so many people but it is important that you out there in the audience please listen every time you step out the door every time that you can make a difference in someone's life make a difference in how you yourself can walk forward and pass it forward trudy has them that truly you've passed for this that your mother and father are blessed with because they blessed us with you we thank you very much bonnie thank you love you love both of you yes you can please do whatever you do whatever you do whenever always remember to love yourself yeah because if you don't love yourself you can love anybody and i desire to be loved to love make sure that you love yourself so that you can hear yourself your family your community because it's all about communities full and that's what we're about yeah that is a motto that i hope that we can always use thank you blessings and make sure that you understand that is you and i'm not just anyone else but you that can make a difference in the community and giving back thank you good evening ladies