today i am so excited because we have a very special show for you you're going to have the opportunity to meet dorothy welsh the bucks county medium she's at least a fourth generation medium and she has helped me through so many challenges in my life i just knew that you would love to meet her as well you're also going to meet my friend heidi roan who's another mom of a child with autism her son is eleven and she had to make one of the toughest decisions a mother has to make which is to send her son to a school in another state she lives in new jersey her son is now in boston so she's going to share a little bit about that with us but i just knew she would love to meet dorothy and ask dorothy some questions but what's even more special is we are live streaming live on facebook through princeton t v and so you don't have to wait until the show airs in december you got to see it now and for those of you who can't stick around for the whole thirty minutes don't worry it will be posted on the princeton t v facebook page to come back and check it out because it's going to be a lot of fun there's so much that we're going to talk about today but first i want to tell you why i even wanted to invite dorothy and heidi here and i wanted to do that by giving you an example of my own personal experience i've always been a little open minded believing that there was something bigger for me that i had a purpose here on this earth and even that my son william with his autism was for a reason but i didn't think much about it until i started seeing some signs and then i started to explore it more so my best example to share with you is as many of you experience if you're a parent of a child with autism my son did not sleep right we've had many of those nights so for many years he did not sleep and i slept on his floor and this is away before the era of smartphones so i didn't have an alarm in his room i didn't want to wake him anyway so i set my alarm in my bedroom so my husband could hear it and wake me up to get ready for work but you know what happened is i never had to use the alarm because five minutes before that along was to go off i woke up but i didn't just wake up i realized someone was shaking me and when i realized that it was a little disconcerting but i wasn't scared i knew or i felt that someone was helping me and so i started to explore about angels and spirit guides and loved ones helping us and through that journey of actually spoken to several mediums and several psychics what's really cool about it is that each one told me a specific piece of information about myself that i had not told them and that for me validated that the information they were giving me was true what was even better is that when i spoke with them they gave me information that helped me make decisions i was trying to make as well as help me understand things that were going on in my life basically they helped me connect the dots so that i could get more strength and clarity and even hope to continue doing what i was doing for myself and for my son and when i met dorothy i knew that that is one of the things that she prize herself in doing she helps people and me a parent of a child with autism get that information so that we can make decisions and we can use it in a beneficial way so i am so excited to introduce you first to dorothy welsh the bucks county medium low thank you for having me but i am really have to be here but i'm so glad that you decided to join us and to share your craft with us and i can only imagine what it must have been like growing up with these with this this talent this skill that you have a lot had special parents because i am for millennia and so forth generational my mother's side and she's pretty much she would always say on this isn't chance and my birthday is have made that special for me by always having something where we were colby's connecting to the dead all the time so any kind of gift that i had growing up were really encouraged they weren't sort of pushed away so i was kind of lucky that way  that's a very lucky because it's not something that could be something scary and the parents don't understand they might have tried to to kind of hide and i want you mary as a child it was it was scary for me but my mother made it so much better as you know because this is what we did and it was normal she didn't make me feel that i was you know out of sync with the world that i was this was supposed to happen when i felt a little odd was when i got a little bit older and went to school and started talking to kids and i kind of the real quick that i really have not odd so i didn't and i had to wait till i got older to start sharing my gift again and i'm really happy that the world now is accepting a lot of psychics are coming out that weren't able to before so it's a good time it's wonderful and i'm so glad that you are using your gift of i met you because it's something that i didn't just jump in too easily i was a little bit nervous about it but you're so easy to connect with and i feel like your friend and i and that he welcomed that's why i wanted to also to come on the show so people could see that it's a really comfortable thing and it's ok to explore those questions and explore who's out there i do want to help people and it's a yearning for me that when i see someone in need all i can say is like i connect to my angels and your angels and your guides and your loved ones and please give me the messages that they need like help me help me to help them and they just tell me i have to do is show up and we'll do the rest so that's what i do know i love it really not many i'm just remaining open and they are the ones coming through for for you not for my well that makes me think of a question or think i know there's a something called a psychic and a medium and sometimes your psychic medium so would you mind explaining for everybody what that difference i for and that's a really good question and a lot of people do ask it i am a psychic and a medium a psychic medium there are some people who are just psychics and some who are just mediums a psychic is someone who does more of a life rating is more of a peer in your past your present and your possible future your possible future because i say that because you are the one who creates your future each and every day with everything you say everything you do every action that you do and you perform creates your future so what i may see as a present thing or as a possible future thing you can decide to change at any point in time so you're never stuck in stone and that's what i get as a psychic during a reading as a medium i do connect to angela's guides and loved ones and it's i always feel so blessed when that happens and i receive messages from them for the person that i'm reading so the difference is i can connect to somebody on the other side and that is what a medium to us so that's the difference between the psychic enemy that wonderful thank you that was so clear i appreciate that explanation and it makes me think of something out so you can connect with loved ones and angels and is it ask a specific question to a specific person or a specific angel brings well i don't have control over who comes through or what they say  ask and you do ask and usually when you come to see me when anyone comes to see me you are surrounded by angels and guides and loved ones anyway it's just me connecting to them and asking the specific person or the specific enzo or god please help please you know give me some kind of an answer and they usually do come in they usually do respond i love that so can we try and i thought well before we do the reading with heidi which is going to be very personal i would love to know if there is a general message for parents of children with autism we're just a society as we are living with more and more autism in this world and i would you know just for some reason i'm drawn to archangel michael who was a protector and guardian and one of the key  so could we ask what message he may have for us so michael is all about safety security protection he also brings courage and confidence to the parents because this is really about the parents protecting your child and he really wants you guys to start taking care of yourselves as well not just your children because you're sort of out there all the time you're sort of giving of yourself constantly so it's care of the caretaker and actually i brought you both a little jeff today to care for yourselves it's a little color see not to worry about what kind of stem they are and they go from the root shocker all the way that crown chocolate you just simply leg and relax for like five minutes and concentrate on the stones for a little bit and i actually do have a guided meditation that i'll send you both when we're done today so this way to walk you through  that comes sometimes i know what it means and sometimes i really don't know what the message means but that's usually for the person receiving it receiving the masses i am just again the conduit i'm just the messenger beautiful i love that so take care of ourselves and i care of yourself that's important it's really funny because my first show which was a few weeks ago i had a woman who sells to tara essential oils and that was really one of her messages is use things like essential oils or restful practices to help so that we can stay strong and be the best we can be for our kids so that's beautiful i love that thank you and so one more question if i want a salute and put this here so i don't drop them they're so beautiful thank you you  raphael because he is the angel archangel for healing and i know that every person is very different and our our path is very different our healing needs are different but as a parent we're always looking for something we can do to help our child is there any kind of global message that we can do to help our children with autism yes you can if they talk very fast i'm trying to listen and talk at the same frequencies there are so many things that are going on around your child that they are they are more of an empath an empath feels everything they feel everything around them and so they're having not only like radio signals in their way e m f that they have allergies to food and processed sugars and all kinds of things that you have to sort of try to limit everything it's almost like if you can sort of take a child and put them in the country and sort of just relax with them take them to a park and relax a little bit with no cell phone they're probably going to have a much better day by just grounding themselves keep them as grounded as you possibly can and sometimes sometimes crystals can help that as well as brown crystals just like the earth take them outside and be with nature and be with the earth sort of calming and relaxing calming music can also help because there's a lot again stimuli going on with them so it's something to consider constantly is what foods of my putting in his body what is he allergic to you don't really know because there's so many in any kind of food just to read the labels and it's sort of like you have to start thinking of clean eating what is in my product if i'm going to have like spaghetti and meatballs what is that spaghetti made out of what are the meatballs make me out of what is the soft made out of and what's in it if i mean we all don't have the time to make homemade things all the time so that we know all the ingredients but if you start making some of them or go going to more of an organic type food that would be amazing so there's less processed things in there less chemicals because there's a lot of chemical there's a lot of chemicals women ok so hell they're showing me now like metals or semi metals in the brain like right here in the cortex of the brain and they're saying this is sort of a dividing line it sort of divides everything so divides divide left brain right brain where they're trying to can make the connection for us it's a lot easier to make the connection for them it's not so the brain reroutes itself so that's why they act differently than we do because they're trying they're confused and they're trying to get to the point of talking to you and seeing you it's almost like that verbal communication sometimes isn't there we have that straight connection where we know what to do to talk they don't and not all the time not every child is different it's a different level for them so some children may be allergic to one thing where some children might not be an l medication might be good for one child but not good for the other so you can't sort of say that it's one global healing for everyone you have to pick and choose and try it's like a trial and error for every child how how stimulator how much metals are in my son's body i don't know because really there in generation after generation we don't want mercury in our body that we carry forward what you're saying we care forward from generation finally goes to your child how many generations of it is build up and then i mean we could talk about vaccines and i want to talk too much about it but you know there's mercury in all that too so there's a lot of there's a lot of things you have to watch out for you'll watch your water watch your food watch everything that's going in and you want to start thinking about detoxing a constant detox and not only clean eating but what can i do to detox my child now one thing that i was opened up to when i found was we were talking about the medical meeting and book well this is funny because you told me to bring this we weren't sure would they have a chance to talk about it but obviously this is the message right so well facebook live if you see this is going to be inverted i apologize but this is a book by anthony williams and i have actually read it and i'm using some of the things from my thought how to detox through things like spirulina or salon try or are blueberries from maine and i'm actually seeing some changes in him isn't it i think so i appreciate that  i would love to talk more about that but in the interest of time we do need to move on but absolutely what i'm hearing really strongly is be aware of everything our children are surrounded with get out in nature as much as possible disconnect from electronics and really be careful what we about our bodies and what we eat and how to get things out that might not be healthy my gosh there's also some crystals that can put in their bedrooms as well that might help one is there salt lamp yeah i think changes the ions in the room and that makes it more common soothing that m help you have to like check and see how your son is reacting to it because again everyone is different but sometimes black crystals help too but not too close to their heads especially cell phones not to close to their heads when they're sleeping keep everything across the room including the crystals i would keep them further away if you're not something close them i would make it like a rose court something softer a love vibration that might help them to rest and sleep a little bit better that's a good point thank you my gosh i would love to talk to you more about this but i do want to have to have a chance to speak with you but first let me say heidi thank you so much for coming i recently met you and you just impressed me with how strong you are as a mom and how dedicated and how you've had to make some really really tough decisions and and and quickly  had aggressive behaviors from the very beginning he was in such distress and is minimally verbal so couldn't even tell us really what was disturbing him so through the years he became more and more more violent  he would have basically fits where he would drop to the ground bang his head lash out hit kick him when he was a little child you can control that more and you keep we were doing behavioral therapy and just trying to get it all under control but as time went on a very little worked and he was getting bigger and stronger he was hurting himself he was hurting others so we reached a point where he was in such distress that to keep himself safe and us safe we needed to consider a residential placement for him and was there a turning point that i understand as you would tell me he was a violent which we don't like to face because we love our kids so much but but but but it's still tough was there anything that kind of said ok i'm making the right decision yes well it had been getting worse and worse my husband was kicked in the head at one point and we have to go to the emergency room and so all of us were living with bruises and scratches and you know it was very very difficult in the house plus i have another side eric who's older and he was very severely impacted very upset by this whole thing and then there was a point at which ethan had a public meltdown and it was he almost cracked his head open and that was when i saw really he would have been killed in that situation and it was by the grace of god that we got him out of there i still don't know how that happened probably an angel popped up too to help get him out and that was when i realized that the decision was made he was in such distress the decision was made great and how long you've been there now it's now been six months and thrilled to tell you that he is thriving i love that bank god good and i mean wit such a difficult decision you know you're like oh my goodness after all this let this be something that helps him it truly is the only thing that has helped him you know we could not name a therapy i did not try and approach a doctor anything that we did not try finally he's in a place where the veil of irritability has lifted it used to be any photo we took of ethan he was scowling and sad and now any photo or video of him he's laughing and smiling and engaging and it's wonderful with the main thing being they help the physical regulation there are many aspects of the program but there's a tremendous amount of exercise so that physical activity helps the body is to your point helps the body regulate when you and he's beginning to calm down and be able to focus and learn and there's so much we can learn from you and your experience and you've actually agreed to come back and we'll do another show where we can learn more about you and your son and then maybe even another update on how he's doing at this point since we're running short on time i know you have questions for dorothy so please go ahead well you know you know like like in the bible you know you can have anything what do you ask for you ask for wisdom is there something i'm not asking what what is the question that spirit ask me this this is what you need to know you know what is the right question or category of question to ask to ask every thing i have to start paying attention to the messages they send they don't stop sending messages they start sending them right away number one they say go with your heart go with your got this is how your angels talk to you in your body language in your heart or your solar plexus if it feels right you do it kind of feel like your son is supposed to be at this place that this was his home that he's he needs to be there in order to start feeling like he can start being successful in anything in his life he needs to start believing in himself where there were so much agitation because when you were talking about i could feel the agitation and it's weird were you in the same house all this time yes because i'm kind of feelings or something about the ground that they house was built  something about that i don't know if you can look up the history of your home to see if it was built on anything specific is there a way line are there too many you know are you too close to a cellphone tower there stuff about the outlying part of where your home is i would take a look at the ground and what's under the ground i'm not sure i don't know much about the lay lines or where they are but that does create a specific energy field and if he's sensitive to am after energy field that's something you want to look at is maybe he's not going be able to come back and feel comfortable there maybe it would be better somewhere else so it is something to take a look at all that's for him because he did try everything yes yes definitely the other question is broader than where he lives or what  his purpose in life his mission how can we as parents help their children find their own purpose here's a kid who's middle minimally verbal and still is resisting communication devices and yet has expressed through supported typing some very profound thinking other than throwing a thousand things in front of him and he may or may not go to or indicate that yes that is what pulls me that is my gift my strength how can we help identify what his own gift and purposes letterman experience everything he possibly can and encourage him to do whatever he likes he'll be pulled to something he may be too young at this point to really respond to that or say that ok i'd like the computer i'd like to start typing something i feel like every one of these children are savant's and it is our job to figure out what it is that they're best at and if we can find that they will succeed i feel like they are here to teach us i almost feel like there's i keep seeing this mathematical thing going by in my in my brain in my head for the center for all to for all of them sort of for everyone it's almost like a matrix almost like we don't see it but they do it and there's something that they see so much more than we do in this world and what we can do to help ourselves to help society to help other people and all they need to do is find their find their gift find it and if we can just whatever it is that you need to be doing for your son and i know it's really hard sending him somewhere else but i feel like he will thrive there even more than he has now and i feel like there will be another school even beyond this one that he will go to so this one is first for a while while he's young they'll be another one that he will go to but i keep hearing the word university university that he will be at some university helping out someone with something i don't know what it is i'm not really sure and this is really what i'm seeing start so i don't know whether he's going to be like an astronomer and that's going to be his gift and he can see i'm not really sure about that but i almost feel like they do have this higher knowledge than we do and i don't know whether it's a different planetary information that we're gathering here i'm not really sure but i feel like we just have to sit back and watch them and just and learn from them we have to learn how to interact with them and if it's not a verbal thing then we have to stop talking and we have to pay attention to our other senses what other sense can you use to connect with him even if it is a hug even if it is just being close to him and allowing him to do whatever it is sometimes they don't want hugs sometimes they just want closeness which could be i'm just sitting next to you and that's simply all they need so you have to sort of read that was him all the time and that's not easy because they're not exactly telling you what i need with they need so it's sort of a guessing game it's a trial and error but you can have the most patients in the world to me they saying well it's just seriously amazing which is why seriously you have to take care of yourself because sometimes the patien level gets to i don't know if i can do this anymore having help really is an amazing thing having someone else help you i keep feeling a man around you that's super important to him really really important so i'm guessing it's his father i'm guessing that's where it is now i'm also getting there's someone on the other side possibly a grandmother i keep getting that is a woman on the other side i know if it's your mother or your husband's mother but there's a mother watching him staying with him right now watching over him and she keeps saying don't worry don't worry and she's showing me a lot of angel wings which means there's a lot more angels  there with him than you can imagine so it's sort of asking them and sometimes when i don't know what to call upon i say legion of angels legions of angels please come and help my child i always an archangel michael to children to help them to protect them to help them thrive to bring them courage and confidence and definitely should bring them healing would be the archangel raphael but it doesn't have to be those specific angels i wonder if we in fact picked up on that you know eat the from the very beginning had no language even as it is and there was no babbling there were just moans and groans and sounds and laughter you know just primal sounds and in the middle of the night we would hear over the monitor he would be laughing and i was saying here you know what's so funny these are all hearty  continue for a few minutes with the facebook live and i would be rounded up so thank you dorothy for coming thank you for having me i'm i feel so honored to be here i hope and i hope and i hope the message is that the angels want to can throw oh i think there are so many i can't wait to go back and transcribe it and really see and really the presence of what you see so i appreciate you joining us and sharing your kid and your heart with us and the messages thank you for having him and heidi thank you for being here to mike and for your vulnerability and allowing this to come out on live t v so i really appreciate that as well and i look for just seeing you next time because you're going to talk more about now you're serving and you want to help other moms get that strength and clarity and that's through your business which is mom spectrum oasis and we'll talk more about how to reach you but you have a website yes which is which is and s o n j dot com now forgot to mention your website dorothy my moon  start airing december thirteenth and i want to thank you for joining i think this was a really fun and exciting and informative show and i'm glad that we're able to have the special guest here today next time i'm excited to tell you we're changing the format a little bit you're going to come home with me and we're going to do at home with jane lynn in jeff through our journey with autism we've done lost to different diets and lots of different cooking my husband is a gourmet chef now and he's going to share some of