bones and one of the thing what god talk to the people of israel was saying in the book of moses and the author of chapter thirty both nineteen you choose wh death and they said after that again and again in another way when they went through a certain thing and this is what happened every single one they been destroy gentleman i included you today to search the word of god jose or chapter four verse six says people are perish because of lack of knowledge and every time we one of the very thing which i learned from the word of god not long ago just twenty something years ago the importance of speaking all words over your children  yourself think about that nobody teach us i was born in a country will very religious and i start serving the lord and i become a born again christian but always i have  the new testament the first book of peter chapter one verse eighteen the word of god says here very clear says for we are i mean those are things we are not hated from our forefathers and many times we don't understand that things what we speak over ourself they actually them to serve the lord and whatever i declare over them that's going to happen and that's why when i see than joshua chapter twenty four verse fifteen s be able to declare it on a daily basis and to say i mean for me in my house i was held or limited and a chapter twenty four verse fifteen says well but as for me and my house we will serve the lord and this is the last part of the verse joshua says very clearly says i don't care what you want to choose to do because i know what it means to serve the living god he knew exactly because he saw god hence over in the wilderness and he saw how god the liver them from the destruction of the enemy and so many times the lord gives them the break through the law by the word of god says whatever we said even jesus said with his own words you will be accountable for every idle words that mean every time we said the word which is against without a word he wants to give us from abundance and today i like to talk to you what is the importance of speaking words of what i was so not too long ago i came back from a to give gifts to the kids praise god for many of you which being part of this ministry and not only that but you pray for us because even when an area which was minus eight of god that power of the gospel change a family change a soul change a generation change even an area where we went for the first time with the gospel  that we can train up our children especially in the days that we're living in some parents let t v train their kids music train their kids some parents let teachers or sunday school teachers or they send them to  christian school and there's nothing wrong with any of those things with being said to christian school or with or with having a great teacher in a child's life because sometimes it can make a big difference but there is the bible is very specific about parents training up their children and in keeping with their individual gifts so you you know we had this discussion we had this discussion a lot because i don't think that it's discussed enough in our community in  bestially in our remaining community that we were how are we nurturing our children what are we speaking over children or children the right our respect we talked about in the last couple programs that are we speaking life or death are we feeding ourselves with life or death in the same thing is with our children are we speaking life over them are we speaking death over them and even though that might sound more bit it might sound like oh man you know you're going from one extreme to the other the bible is very specific it's not us saying this it's the word of god is teaching us that we there are two two different powers in this world there are so evil and then there's good and there's life and death so that's why we want to talk about the importance of how do we train up our as humans to to start talking negatively it's just self negative talk and it's it's like cancer and it affects us and so it's not surprising that we we hear children many times say oh man i feel so stupid i can't believe i did that or why i'm not good i'm just not good i'm just i'm terrible at this and so as parents we have the responsibility it's actually our job it's our god gave us these children with the intention of us nurturing them and nurturing the gift that he's put into our children so we can reinforce those positive words those positive comments i've never spoken over my children anything that and thank god i have this teaching because i you know many of us didn't grow up like that why we didn't a lot of us grew up with our parents saying oh man you know you i can't believe you got a d you know you're you're so stupid you're good for nothing you know your brain is is so small you don't you can't think you're just you're you're dumb and so we want to focus on what the what why is it so import for us to speak a life over children and to speak the word over children and so in our household when we're speaking to our kids or or when they're doing something we say you're blessed you're you are blessed and highly favored you're smart jesus put a gift inside of you you're unique than you more unique than anyone else in this world not because you are the most special person in the world but because god put something unique in new that he didn't put in anybody else you have your own d n a you have your own special gifts and talents and as parents we have to stay focused on that it's really easy to blurt out of our mouth something whatever comes to our mind that's negative but we have to stay focused what does the word tell us about not only about ourselves because the word always calls us bless the word always calls us you know if we go to it in deuteronomy we see all these we are the head and not the tail we will lead but never borrow we are this so the promise started from so long ago and it continues on in the word of god that we as god's chosen people we are to speak life over ourselves and more importantly over our children and then you pitched him when he was was when he was even two or three years older yes even even before that we started speaking over children so so number six twenty four says the lord bless you and watch over and guard you and keep you so this is an amplified and the lord will make his face shine very important because those things become part of my life yes those things take you know those things start building up you know everything starts to build up inside of us whether it's the negative words that we heard speak growing up or whether it's the positive words there it always will build up and it will always come out so there there's it's so important my kids actually don't even go to sleep until we pray this over them either my husband or i find that work or the other way around we always try to is much as we can one thousand percent of the time we speak this over them and we speak the blessing of the lord we you know we lay our hands upon them and we pray over them because we know that that seed that incorruptible seed of the word of god that we plant will never ever return void of word of god will never return void and so when we're planting the seeds and we're planting them things begin to grow when you see a change in kids or kids but you start to see them say i don't know why i did that mommy he said to you i'm i'm such a guy i'm a good kid i don't know why i did that and so you have to reinforce those things again you are but you also you you live in this body you live in this flesh and sometimes you do things that you shouldn't do and so that's how you can you can guide your children into how the proverbs first tells us to but sadly there are a lot of families that don't do that and so we're here to kind of shed some light on this and say you it's never too late to start speaking life over your children instead of coming down on them in condemnation and in and most importantly you have to you have to live you have to come about it in love there is no child responds well when you come at it from a different angle everything else besides love is not taken well with children that's just children are just they're here to be nurtured by us and the only way to do that is through the love of christ somebody with us but he make me so upset ye so in order for us to be able to give to them we have to be we have to have be filled with the word we have to be willing to have the word of right on the tip of our tongue right on our lips and i would say you know if there if there are days where you do get frustrated when you do i would say walk away from the situation cool off what go into the other room ask the holy spirit to show you how to deal with this situation a lot of times i can say for me one hundred percent of the time when i've done this i've come out and i knew how to deal with a instead of reacting in that very moment saying things that you'll regret later saying things that you can't take back we can't take words back words it words that are hurtful words that have no meaning and words that are full of like not filled with life we can't take those back those are out there you know it's hard and it's hurtful for the other person so the best thing to do is to walk away from the situation if you have to say a little prayer and say holy spirit i need you jesus i need you lift up your hands and just say i don't know how to deal with this i'm so angry right now take it to the word of god take that situation and say i'm putting it at the altar and i'm asking for you to reveal to me what i'm supposed to do in a situation and whether you're dealing with teenagers i don't have any i haven't had to deal with any teenagers yet but i know i will in the time will come but i know that there are parents out there that are struggling i know that you guys get phone calls from parents all the time struggling with their teenagers or their young adults and not knowing how to deal with them and maybe it was spoken words that have built up maybe their you didn't go about it in love maybe you didn't speak the word over your child and now you're thinking what am i going to do or they run away from home i mean you you guys deal just to do receive a phone call from a lady which has a daughter  words when you speak blessing over your business or you speak blessing over your house when you speak blessing over your kids when you speak blessing over your finances when you speak blessing over the area where you work you speak a blessing over your household over your family and would be a thousand generations been blessed because of the words you speak over them i want to forgive me for every idle word and everything i said with my own mouth over myself over my family over my children by one of the minor to you when even put it on the screen for you says this give and i was being given to you good measure but i said don shaking together early running with other words if a curse has no cause is no open door let me put it this way costs less curse does not align with you up with the word of god one of the thing what the lord said very clear and very plain livid exists in chapter twenty six from the very beginning he explained that to people and tell them exactly what is the importance of the power of the words the words of god the word of men or the word of god contrary to them and brought them unto the land of their enemies if then their uncircumcised hearts are humble and they they then accept the punishment for their iniquity under the curse because the scene is the one who took over our flesh give god the glory for the ability to be able when as a parents we bring our children to be blessed and to break the curse you bring them where you bring them to the church you bring them to the gathering you bring them to a prayer meeting you bring them and you bless them that's what the bible bless them because the power of the parents of the blessing has a lot of power over the kids and is not only a number chapter six to say the once in a lifetime you think should say it every time is necessary or whatever for the rest of your life you can say it over your kids the blessing of the lord to be upon the kids secularly the kids themselves when they grow up  a part of their lifestyle because the word of god the gospel which the apostle paul is saying very plainly said the the the gospel is the power of god what the word mean cousin and what he did what was the covenant what god did with abraham he took him out one day and show him all the stars see this is who would be or see that means the word of god who is living in abraham faith he has faith in the word of god and the promise of the covenant what god did then the second time god took him and show him all the sand and said this is the way it would which is the word of the living god which brings us to the power of the blood of jesus and when we say lord i ask you forgiveness i was the blood of jesus to please my generation i asked the blood of jesus to cleans this curse hanged on the tree or its crew suffice now means christ purchased our freedom how he purchased our freedom through the power of his sacrifice what he did for us  your life without confessing them the more you would be denied the word of god say is now working for me this thing is now working for this faith this world of faith is or the of the word of god to come inside of your heart am a journalist god visiting they need could be of the father upon the children to the third and the fourth generation of those who hate me but showing mercy and this is in the  testament think about that this is under the law think about when jesus took the law and put it on the cross and he said we are saved through christ and not to the law this was a you sh ah thirty two verse eighteen name god show himself loving kindness that's his recompense and that's his payment torch us that's the way how he pay us in the minute when we acknowledge threw him we can break the speed of poverty the speed of sickness and disease thickness and this is a demon poverty is a demon and every time out the word of god to dictate our future or to allow it our words to dictate our future which one you want to dictate which one you want to do it that's the question that jesus is lord in your heart and believe believe or trust or rely on on the truth on the word of god that god raised him from the dead you coryndon with the word gospel of christ says the good news is the power of the good news the gospel mean the power of the good news which is the which is i go from one paycheck to another i look like i'm not going to make it to the end of the week because i have to borrow some money again how do i do to come out from this curse of poverty number one sickness neustar believing what the doctor says are nothing to not go to the doctor i was saying you start believing what the doctor says and i mean when you hear that bad news is what the doctor said you think that bad news and take it to the word take it to the gospel i just read from romance was sixteen the gospel is the power of john fourteen verse one you know was says with a little hard to be troubled why do you need to do believe in me and believe in the father what that means when jesus said those words that means you have to believe what jesus said because he never said the word from himself you always said things where the father instruct him to do it speaking those words those words become a reality one time only in the bible we found jesus once he asks one thing from himself unless he thought everything what he heard from the father but and then he said not my will by your will is to be done never a thousand years before the lord and many of us we not leave not even a whole day not even a tenth of a day and that's why we have to have patience to  of course i don't do that many some time and i have to repent but every time i repent and i say lord forgive me even the other day i say lord forgive me whatever i said over myself and i want from this day known to speak the word of god over myself i am full of held for the wisdom full of knowledge i have finances from abundant to be able to be a blessing for others and i pray every time of this my heart to be a touch but to be able to see them temporary in this or think about that abraham was the richest man in his time and he didn't believe in the house for himself eleven and  flu season or now miss a time for this epidemic things well peace in the air i read psalm ninety one some time my wife comes to me and says here she come before i even went to