martin i'm cindy grayson and this is paranormal insights where we bring you the latest and the best from the metaphysical world here we give you a real tool to types to your questions as we bring you answers from beyond has been up or down more times in the elevator at the empire state building what you have shown i've only known you for about six years and you showed me some very old pictures and i'm gone no that's not you so seriously you have lost very serious weight but you went through a metaphysical change when you did it yes i did you know when i used to weigh three hundred thirty five pounds that was my highest weight ever i did have gastric bypass surgery however just so you know it does not cure you at all you can gain would after dastard bypass surgery but what it does do it allows you to really be able to lose weight when your diet for the like the first time i have are now the just last year i got to tell  you i've been working really hard and i've had to have in the comfort food it's been given me energy and kind of belly my emotions that extra food which is allowed me to work really hard and get a lot of things done but now i'm realizing you know it's time for me to get back on track because i would like my clothes to fit the way they used to i know i did that since about february of this year i've been working on that and and it's hard to give that what i consider comfort food for me but my body reacts to and it's actually it's inflammatory so i've given up on that and you and i also both know that this is working with our second shakara which is our relationship with our our own stress our own financial situation and with others around us absolutely and so when you have that stress going on what do we do is we build some insulation so we don't think it should be noted that there are many reasons for a person to be overweight you might have a special medical condition that boosts your b m i or your body mass index to a high level some genetic researchers say that a group of genes bay play a huge part in the set point or your stable weight number making it hard to change the number that actually appears on your bathroom scale this is why some people always hover around a certain way the genetic makeup of your individual body may trick your brain very much like a disease into thinking it is always starving to death thus creating the feeling that you have to eat more in the metaphysical world it is generally accepted that the meaning of being overweight is for self protection the actual of layer of additional fat around the body acts as an insulator between the person and the world sometimes that can be a reaction to trauma and for a time so one may put on additional weight until that trauma has passed it has been reported by people that when they have become aware of their psychic abilities that a weight gain starts suit after so what are we protect ourselves from for most psychic people this means they may choose to protect themselves so that they are not overwhelmed by other people's energies or emotions whether these energies are positive or negative many psychic people that connect with the divine there can be a feeling of needing to be protected protection can take the form of a shield a grounding cord an oric bubble or any number of different techniques protection may feel necessary so that the person does not become overwhelmed by other people's thoughts feelings and emotions according to louise l hay the author of heal your body and you can heal your life which is also a movie being overweight or fat can mean that you are protecting yourself from fear also that fear may be a cover for repressed anger and a resistance to forgive you may also be running away from your feelings and indicate insecurities that can lead to self rejection louise hay has stated that she knows the disease can be reversed by changing your mental patterns you can also use special stones to help with weight loss for example a large turquoise stone can be rubbed with jasmine and apple oil choose a very smooth stone and keep this with you at all times and of course we must also do things in the body sense we're actually in a physical cambogia because of the recent studies showing how this herb affects belly fat by reducing it in a positive way and researchers at u c berkeley have discovered that certain people may have a gene that inhibits the burning of fat called a d l p a when this and side was removed and tested on mice they ate and ate and ate and ate but never gained weight this treatment for humans is many years away there is a lot in this world to protect ourselves from just looking at the headlines and watching the news tells us that it is the way in which we decide to process the information of our daily lives that is important your body is your most important asset and as a psychic person be vigilant in taking balanced care of your body and process the negative energies in the environment taking real steps in your physical body is what will help you most you may find that once we give up the need for protection or weight stabilizes at a healthy number for all of us it's true and you know for psychic people especially you know we're so sensitive and we feel things so deeply after they get so powerful in in our experience that a lot of psychic people will use overweight as a way to survive being so hyper sensitive and if it isn't overweight then it's actually abusive relationships where they have a spouse who is filled with drama and pain or or it's actually drugs or alcohol i was going to say alcohol unfortunately is common and for some people who don't know yet how to turn off their abilities the alcohol flips a switch for them which is unfortunate because quote it is saying if someone wishes for good health one must first ask oneself if he's ready to do away with the reasons for his illness only then is it possible to help him that statement holds so much information if you watch the show regularly you know that we focus on the law of attraction and personal vibration health issues like being overweight are also a direct result of thoughts and vibrations ironically the more you think i'm fat the more your subconscious thinks that you're asking for more fap the law of attraction what you think you create that's it in a nutshell when you're thinking negative thoughts you're operating at a low vibration at that moment and at that moment you are attracting other negative vibrations and thoughts just like a magnet let me give you an example unfortunately i know too many women who were sexually abused as children many of those women gave a great deal of thought to not having anyone look at them that way again predictably most of them put on a great deal of weight with these women the weight was a physical result of the emotional desire for protection most of them did not wish to be fat but they desperately wanted to avoid being abused again and putting on weight is a symbolic way of insulating and protecting the body so what other thoughts are low vibrational thoughts that can contribute to weight and other unhealthy bodies fear doubt guilt anger self judgment judging others gossiping shame avoidance and all sorts of additional emotional pain actually at every moment of every day you are helping to grow what you are thinking about did you know that most women and many men engage in what is called fat talk think about that how many times a day do you think a negative or critical thought about your body image i know i'm guilty of that instead of thinking negative thoughts about your body allow yourself to think healthy thoughts for example i knew there wasn't something right with my digestive system recently even though i knew better i did i spent way too much time thinking about what was wrong with my body which made those parts and systems worse i finally decided that i had to walk my top so i focused on eating healthy food and taking a positive proactive approach to what didn't feel right i intentionally changed my thoughts to healthy image thoughts i also talk to myself as if i had already returned to a healthy body and it's working are you ready to change your thoughts so that you can change your mind i have recently there have been reports in the news about fast food meat patties now they are all beef that's true but they're not ground beef they're not all ground beef what they are is between two and fourteen percent ground beef and the rest is like cartilage veins skin organs it's like a hot dog it just looks like a hamburger patty i can't do fast food anymore ok so what was wrong with that  just kidding i can't do fast food period because i have gone gluten free you know because of an inflammation but because of that it has forced me to learn how to and as you know i'm in hotel rooms all the time learn how to eat healthy in a hotel room when i don't have the time i mean i have figured out how to take chopped up kale push it into a coffee cup poor little water over it put some paper towels or tissues over it stick in a microwave for one minute guess what that becomes breakfast instead of going out and eating the foods i cannot eat so if it's important you can make the changes the first you also have to get rid of the image in your mind of i'm fat and all the fat talk you know i joke a lot because i'm a tell you and i believe so and so you know i could be very dramatic a very intense without protocol but they should had for for me personally i know that letting go of one's anger is a big thing because food really is like a tranquilizer and when you are feeling all these emotions you know the food will actually bring you into the place where you're like feel calmer but it's not really call it's really more of no i really think so you've got to get numbed out rather then being able to effectively handle it but you know what happens of course you know i'm out so you never deal with it and then what happens next is you get it again because you never dealt with it what you get if you can't plus you have the weight from you know eating all the bad food and the alcohol comes in because actually hold a lot of anger in our liver and somehow our liver kind of craves that numbing as well and so yeah you have additional problems if you give in to that so before you get into the situation ask yourself what are some healthy alternatives and make sure that you have those foods eat right for your blood type and recently there's been this like study that shows that there's actually like twenty two human blood type variations but there still are basically four main categories and you know this this book is not for everybody about eighty five percent of the people it helps fifteen percent of the people are genetically different it does not help them but if you're in the eighty five percent you might want to look at and try out to see if it works for you eat right for your blood type it releases that inflammation it gives you a really healthy food set and you might be surprised  a friend of mine over a two year period most of her allergies disappeared because of eating for your blood type that's right and recently i have just looked at it because i've been going through this process casts what my blood type is it's all the foods that i'm now because my daughter and granddaughter back them up and i wanted to come up with a product that would be helpful for them so good so include all the coconut oil goat's milk and certified organic fact that some are going in the morning in house that wonderful smell and then also i started making a lemon grass root mary and that is actually some of the men are more attracted to the lemon grass so it's a wonderful blend also in addition to that i do a lavender cedar wood and lavender it's more of a relax you call me end of the day when you want to just let down it's a wonderful are different blends of essential oils that will go right into your system and help you with emotional issues with physical issues the lavender is anti viral anti smelling salts right into their nose and right into the brain and so works very quickly within a matter of seconds yes the molecules are small so they can go right in and it's so powerful you've taught me that it has to be in a carrier oil so you know she lives for the hard truth to find a goddess that represents justice she works a lot with non energy and it's just the perfect representation for herself she inspires me she did and you do such a great job and i can tell you from stop that you know and then the whole bathroom yells wonderful yeah and it's so good because what people don't realize is the commercial soaps that you watch the grocery store the glycerin product is taken out of those soap and the glass windows will soften for your a relative taco michel and this is a this is there a recipe that my grandmother used to make the old the old fashioned way and so that's why i like it it's wonderful and i have to is wonderful and you know we're together all the time i never get enough of the soaps or the smell i never get tired of them and i get tired of most them so if people want to get in touch with you yes because i know that you it was really exciting to be able to share judy's products with the world and as was stated she is my sister in law she is the sister the she puts so much into pension into making her soaps and her other products that it be healing for every person who uses it is just what can i say and you know when i looked at the products too it was really great because you know because where there were filming where we can touch and feel and smell the products  i just love aroma so much i had to hers soaps actually had the most beautiful combination of fragrances oh and she listens to her guides and comes up with combinations that are fabulous you know my favorite is the rosemary peppermint and let me tell you i go nowhere without it i've gone to italy with it i've gone to china with it i go nowhere without that so it just feels good it is so good for the skin so if you want to pamper yourself god is supposed to care natural so i think that's the way to go it is this is a wonderful question and providing for our families being there for our families very important and i've asked my guides to come in and i've asked your guys to come in and let's see what they have to say to you to be helpful for you on this new quest for your life and helping and supporting your family now the first thing i want to say is you're in a cycle of victory through direct afeard so i mean you've got have to do something you're going to have to work you're going to have to really put an effort forward now crossing it was courage so this is going to be something that requires your courage to do you're going to be stepping out of your comfort zone just a little bit in order to make new and wonderful things happen now you have science in your base trunk of the tree position so this is going to say also that education is going to be an important part of how you're going to be going forward education of the self not you already been a great strong woman you've already really made things happen you've already really been a pillar of energy and support for all the people you love and that love you now i feel you're going to have resistance to doing this so you're going to see this as more of a closed door you have to push open rather than a new opportunity or a new segment of your life now i would say take some sort of like crazy class your guides would say instead you want to take a very traditional approach to education and going forward in your future now this is going to bring up issues for you it's going to bring up issues for you am i not or do i need to be more am i good enough to i am at this moment so let me just make that really clear you are absolutely perfect at this moment and you're just going to be polishing the diamond and making yourself shiny or smarter and better as you go forward into your future now you do have things being hidden from you so not all answers are roadways are going to be easily shown to you going forward you are going to have to make these decisions from your own power and passion it's going to be you that opens these doors and steps forward from the shadow into the mill into the light through knowledge and information now you're outcome card is one of my favorite cards in the whole toronto and that's the multi verse card and what that means is that anything is possible for you in your future that means that no matter what you choose to study no matter what you choose to do it's going to open up multiple realities for you to choose from and multiple directions that are going to make your ability to have a great life not only for you but in a helpful for your family part of your future in a beautiful way but because the card is reversed it says you are going to have to really use your courage and effort at this time to make this happen now this year that you're seeing the show that was taped this year right now is the year for all this to be taking place so i hope you've already actually kind of started on this journey and if you haven't know that two thousand and fourteen is still open for you in a really wonderful and amazing way betsy the kindness of love in your heart is what makes this question so special i wish you all the lock and joy in the world in your future you know i really loved betty's question because it is so great to see someone who had so much love and care in their hearts but they really want to be of service to other people and and so helpful yes absolutely but one thing i thought was interesting is i think she already had the answers of where she's supposed to go and what she's supposed to do or she really needs somebody to give a really good shout to get going in that direction she knew that she just needed somebody else to weigh in on it and you know i didn't get to meet betsy personally at all however i can tell you that my guys are in my head they can't say this gal is so smart she is such a smart person and so i really i really feel like what you were getting for her and what my guys are good for her was really a great match yeah i thought it was great because clearly a nurturer and you know they don't always tell us what to answer your questions and address your topic if you have questions you'd like answered or topics you like us to look into where easy to find you can find me at quest row dot com or e mail me at joseph at quest to roam dot com and you can  me at the great hypnosis dot com or e mail me at the grayson hypnosis dot com right now in the sacramento area on comcast channel seventeen and in san francisco bay area you can find a show on comcast channels twenty three twenty eight twenty nine and thirty three and throughout the state of california you can find it on eighteen nineteen you 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