now you might ask yourself what does that mean well for women it means wearing red dressing seven in and very flirty obviously a little bit of sexiness on valentine's day is always fun but it's also about embracing the feeling of love for your children and your family and your friends not just your significant other that's right it's all about love and family and friendship and we're ready to bring it to you today how to get yourself all fashionably amazingly stylishly ready for valentine's day i love it ok so let's bring up our first picture ok so a lot of women say i don't want to wear a full red outfit i don't care if it's valentine's day i don't look good in red dresses i feel like i stand out too much so you don't have to dress in red from head to toe you can access your eyes in red so like we're wearing today we're wearing basic black jumpsuits that we feel very comfortable in and we got these great very inexpensive red necklaces so here are we have a red clutch it's so easy so simple and it'll make you feel like you're really celebrating the holiday that's right because you want to celebrate and you want to feel like you're kind of you know going along with the vibe in the theme and the idea of you know the whole love in the hearts and just the warm great feeling on valentine's day and if you can embrace red even though we think you should embrace red in a dress up in a sweater but if you just feel like you can bag is the way to go this one is by l k bennett and we love that store princess kate always wears bennett it's kind of affordable and they have amazing sales and especially with the bags it's really the way to with basic black it could add just any kind of your great outfit for the day and we really think this should be something that you guys embrace this year and it's not too much of a novelty that you can wear all year that already agree with red gallons if you're going to a formal affair are the little white that's true it looks good it really stops and looks great with gentlemen looks great with everything so it's really important i think we all get so caught up in our daily lives and i think it's really important to embrace holidays celebrate with your loved ones like you were talking about so red is the way to go if you don't want to go head to toe do it with an accessory so i think celebrating money that's an easy way to do know we celebrate with your kids years ago it was great when i was first dating my heart then we had so much fun you know picking out just for each other but you know as time passes you have families and you celebrate together you can celebrate sr and you know it's  about just being happy and celebrating and expressing that and you know it's so cute they sell really cute you know i guess gifts for dogs and i mean the pets it's not just about like your boyfriend or your girlfriend there really is about just showing i expressing that wonderful feeling that a lot of people don't have a significant other in their life and that's ok with depression but if you if you look at valentine's day in a different way it could be amazing for everybody exactly so let's move on to more styles for valentine's day ok this one i love i mean we love a great red shoe this is by sam edelman it's very affordable you know and has a high heels idea that you know sexiness for the day but this is easy to w i think like many said before this can go with just a simple black outfit like we're wearing today and it just gets you in the mood it just like it's almost like your own little secret you know because it's like everyone's staring at your feet but you kind of know i feel  duck and i love the idea of a blazer it could be a black blazer a white blazer a simple tank jeans and red shoes well we've always talked about this and we've helped clients with this for the first date outfit ok now especially if your first date is valentine's day it can get tricky that is very very much or you want to be sexy and you want to show that you're comfortable in your own skin and you know kind of showing your body off a little but you definitely don't want to go too far not so i think like you said a blazer you know our skin tone and our hair color you know we always come back to the fact that there are so many different shades of grier and i would never say i can't wear red or for and any color for that matter because everyone c every color it's just finding the right shade right so definitely embrace it this valentine's day and throughout the year let's bring up our next picture because i think we have something really great ok so this is really easy guys you don't have to dress from head to toe like we were talking about a little swipe of lipstick and you are celebrating obviously you know getting back to the idea that the bag is kind of the easy way to go because it's not really on you i think lipstick is a little scary i do it on your face everyone's so you know particular about their face and critical of the flaws on their face i think they think you know certain colors might  sent to a those flaws but here you thing that can make you feel so much easier about it you can take it off at any point during the night that's true you know it's not like you wear it and maybe not kiss it off  ecause nothing sexier than like a rare lipstick care but this is a great color it's called scarlet it's by beauty counter and it's a great company they make products they do a skincare caroline and makeup and it's all you think of heart even of love but it doesn't only have to be red i mean we see pink or you know now with roses i mean you think of you know i mean when someone says roses you think of red but there are pink roses and yellow roses and white roses so it's really about i guess finding what makes you feel sexy funny what makes you feel hot find out later you think of love it don't know have to be yeah you're right if someone feels red hot in purple then that's the way to go right so the main staple of the focal point here is like where to draw some velvet dress now velvet is a big trend this season it's very luxurious you feel awesome in velvet es valentine's i don't feel very valentine's day ish well because i think it's you know it is sexy and it is rich and it's just you know it's soft to me to feel good at talking about there's some kind of going to go off the subject here re you come up with that like red velvet cake interesting well that interesting right i was thinking about that when i was thinking about the dresses like you know what about red velve t i read a velvet but regardless we love red velvet we love the red dress i love the cold shoulder as we always talk about another great friend you know if you're not feeling so secure to show say cleavage or too much of any other body part shoulders are always a great way to go i think we all kind of like our shoulders and you know make sure maybe to put on a little bronzer right now  great because they have a lot of brands that aren't that expensive they're kind of i guess you could call it like a junior the pair may have hurried kind of department yeah it's you know it's great for teenagers and you know young twenty somethings but we have actually found a lot of things there that we can wear too and again it's not that expensive and sometimes it's good to embrace trends that way don't spend that much time exaggerating to say that if you're going to try something new try it you know something that's when you feel like  and red before we vote because i think it's pretty obvious this dress is not red red so this is an easier shade i think for people to read like i'm afraid of her going to yeah yeah it's really pretty it's a beautiful color and i think for anyone looking for valentine's day off it i think this is the way to go yeah that's a good point paula i think a lot of people feel comfortable in burgundy and we thought a lot this season is you know fall and winter season there we're in so yeah if you don't want to do the whole idea right red or fire engine red go for the burgundy and guys if they're any guys watching this is a great gift for your lady and if you buy it for her she will feel more comfortable wearing the talking about buying it before  thinks so much it's hard for women and probably harder for the men to you know i think feel like they're wearing you know just a regular outfit on that day if it if it's not something they would usually wear so if you're going to embrace the holiday inn where you know let's say for dry fourth and wear red white and blue it is those such colors you never would wear that you start to look at uncomfortable and no really like the holiday you want to get into it so you have to find a way that works for you i think in the coming yes the point is that guys don't embrace holidays as much as girls i mean well you sing in style in their style that said it it's really important for everybody not only ladies to embrace holidays because again it's about having and showing love so if your guy isn't willing why don't you like you said before buy your guy a great sweater before dinner or before you go out give it to you in the morning and just say what you just said that if you don't live with you know your boyfriend or whatever and you could send it in the mail and say looking forward to our day please wear this red hot sweater love it they look great and then you know i mean he had to they say no he may have sexy thoughts he's a being that like i better be wearing this sweater because it would be all that and here's the thing if they wear it they'll get into the holiday too it's true that's the thing that's the thing whether it's a big way or a small way where just saying that they can make you feel have and into the day if you find ways to embrace it whether it's with red whether it's with even just sending a little gift a surprise gift to a secret i don't know somebody that you kind of really whether even if not something you love or have like those kind of thoughts about but just a good friend that makes you feel happy you know just find ways to really make yourself happy about that day i agree maybe even a red tie red ties red nail polish i mean this so many ways to embrace it and you know i think this is obviously the red sweater idea read boxer's right because you're still styling but not everybody seeing it i love it ok so let's bring up our next picture ok let's see what else we have oh ok so bring it back to the candy i mean the traditional gift f valentine's day everyone loves a little sweet something on downtimes day and you know we talk about fashion and style and feeling good in your own skin and it's good to splurge it's good to feel like you can get off your diet on valentine's day it's not going to ruin your physique is not doing your figure is not true at all and hard work if you do it in moderation and you enjoy yourself because i think guys and girls appreciate their significant other indulging because if you know if you're a guy and you're going out to dinner with a girl and she's like ordering everything on the side and doesn't want to share our dishes why fun is that especially on valentine's day you want to be the girl that can dig and share the fried we also think that just loving yourself and being confident yourself gives you good style and makes you look that much better you're right confidence is the most powerful thing in the world way more than a red dress that yeah and that's another thing too even with food sometimes you order the same thing over and over like it's good with fashion to try different colors in different styles it's good to try different foods don't go for the same tr think you know for valentine's day i think you guys probably know what you know entails and what will make you feel good and what will make your significant other feel good you know it's basically just embracing other as gifts or even you know it may be our children or our friends i mean for jobs our good way to go to it is especially this time of year because yes cold out and it's it goes along with that whole like you get hardly out on the air and then you don't have to feel like it's to march or it's not you or fluffy red or pink slippers are good gifts for valentine's day and they're getting really styling and you know i think i'm getting ready for it's only a few weeks away i know i it's it's actually too close because i haven't even thought of something i would like to come up with something fun to get my hubby and my son you know you never want to leave you know the kiddos out well so here's our tip guys before we leave you today our tip is while we're thinking of all these great ideas and ways to be styling for valentine's day right is something that unfortunately we've had to go through an experience yes and realize this is the tip you should talk about what maybe what you're buying your significant other to them or at least are we exchanging gifts this year or you know is this something specific you want this year because i think valentine's day people expect so much right expectations are so high and a lot of fighting occurs my husband and i we've come up with this rule really early on we tell each other ok what are we doing this this year for valentine's day are we doing big are we doing so far a lot of times we come up with a price range and if we know it's been a tough year we want to save some money for certain things will say ok we'll spend fifteen dollars but get creative right you know you have like that and i got the element of surprise it's fun to write don't take that away but only you know it's disappointing i mean if my husband showed up with us you know expensive diamond necklace and i got him the red boxers i think he would be a little disappointing zac yes so you want to make it even exactly so that's our tip today we feel that maybe we should talk about these things with you know your family or friends or maybe even just come up with like like people do that for christmas time holidays and they love that that they do grab bags so like a valentine's day grab bag so no one's feeling left out everybody is involved and you don't spend a ton of money you can even come up with a price like everybody nobody should spend more than twenty bag is the way to go because we all love bags may they come in handy for so many occasions and the other thing to remember is if you do want to go for it don't you don't have to spend a lot of money by that red dress by that jumpsuit but don't spend a fortune and see how you feel when you where you might really really like it exactly and then make up your jewelry and your valentine's day style is raring to go yes i love it i'm so excited know i don't have a mother i love i mean that if that's what they want and i don't get those words indulge and decadence i think that's really why i love valentine's day and hopefully you guys agree so this is a lot of fun