and still maintain a happy marriage how about running two successful wedding and event photography businesses well wedding in the st paul couple glencoe in the money best seem to figure out how to balance marriage business teachers plan migrates america in two thousand and one as a computer consultant for the government in washington d c and its work contract expired he made a career change he grabbed a camera and has been doing photography and videography for weddings ever complimentary like a wife will like to support your husband so in a business that's all that's all you need to do support him and to support each other and respect  they ask us no we don't do it because we just do weddings and so now we have to to have this and then as i go into red hot i like the market like the trend now is a social media social  the work ethics of most filipinos are similar were hardworking we we want to have fun we dance on wedding we party on wordings and it is easier to manage the whole group it's awful it's the  it's what it stands for because it's my pinoy wedding so it's like you're showcasing the talent of filipinos they're nowhere very hard working you know that and everybody knows that and we like we go an extra peano's we want to provide one hundred percent for the kids college you know all those stuff right but if you were real life with the value of money so you need to work hard to get you know you want and i phone work hard for it yeah i take it always as a lesson for us and you know what the good thing for us is the group all full of you know as we say hey we made a mistake and this wedding next time we don't do it again and hey please remind me so we will know that we're making a mistake when we to social media facebook a you know someone someone is applying for this recession began to talk to them and the number one the number one rule looking for a team member is the team no matter how good you are you can't you can't work so all the hours a day on a friday or saturday or sunday even of having fun with what you do you know and i definitely i think hurt felt and see that one in even my wedding when you were in twice a year for regular people and they want to be taking their photos really good so you need to say yes always going the extra mile how do you deal with different cultures different cultural wedding different tradition also right and you try to adapt and why should those culture i'm saying it's a blessing for us to be to have to experience those kind of cultures it's actually a learning experience for time it's a good question when we were starting we're doing everything by ourselves and what we doing now is who we have managers in the philippines who do the editing layout the graphics and all that stuff yes so we have a team us i've been to one client where i never met the bride until the w take pride in it and everything else follows for me it's always as i said before hard work right no one war no one will be successful without the hardship so you need to know the value of money and hard work and that will go a long way for you i don't have children i don't really have but i do like with my spring i am one of my missions is for the younger generation of filipinos who aren't really into filipino food because they