hi it's jane lynn from navigate autism and i am so excited to be showing up today on my first television show called the good autism with jane lynch many of you know me from my facebook live that i do every tuesday at twelve thirty and i've been telling you about this amazing opportunity that i have now to come to you for a longer period of time and to bring gas and to share more resources and more information with you that can help you as a family as well as your children and i'm really excited to be doing that today for those of you who don't know me i want to take a minute just to let you hear about my story i am a career h r leader trainer and coach i spent almost twenty years in human resources and the majority of that time i was at dow jones the reason i was in human resources is because i believe in everybody's potential and in fact i believe that everyone has the ability to reach their potential and about ten years ago i quit my job that i loved because my son with autism wasn't reaching his potential we had gone to all the best doctors and therapists and schools and using all the best therapies and techniques but he kept regressing and that wasn't an option for me so i quit my job and i homeschooled him for eight years because again i believed in his potential and that we could tap into it and help him grow and thrive and so we followed the sunrise program and learned many other things along the way and from that experience i transformed my family transformed and most importantly my son came out of his own world and into ours in a very social active integrated way and now he's back in school arriving and i was so excited that we were able to help him reach so much of his potential and we're continuing that process we still have some challenges but the great thing is that i now know a lot of what i can do to help support him and that wasn't the case when we started that when he went back to school i decided to go back to work but instead of going back into human resources i really wanted to share so much of what i learned with my son with other people and the reason i feel like there's a lot that i can share as i actually spent over eighteen thousand hours working with him one on one in a player's room heating him inspiring him to grow and to meet his goals and i trained a risk thirty people in this process who came in to work with him and interesting lee what i found many of these people were teachers or parents and not only did these techniques work for them and helping my son and but they would tell me how it helped them with their students or their own children and so i decided what i really wanted to do is use my passion for training and coaching and to share these techniques with other parents of children with autism so that they can decide if this is something they would like to do to help their own children and that's why i created navigate autism with jane lynn and w coming to you for so long on facebook live and why i decided to create this t v show and what i'm going to be doing is every week coming to you with some coaching tips that i'm going to share with you from my own experience with my son and from my experience in teaching and training these other people to work with him and i'm going to introduce you to many of the local people in this community around princeton new jersey that i've met along the way who actually support us as families and support our children and they're going to be sharing with you their knowledge and their skills and one of the things i want to ask them to do is also tell you one thing that you can do today to help your child with autism so that you can take that away and start to make some change as quickly as you can and then at the end of my show i'm going to share you some sort of interactive technique or game because during those eight years and over a two thousand hours with my son i have created him played thousands of games with him so wanted to share some of them with you so that you could again take something away and try it and use these techniques of how to inspire i contact how to inspire more communication or more turn taking and even how to create a best friend which is something many of us want for our children with autism and so that's what i plan to bring to you every week and i'm really excited to show up today with my  first guess who is here going to be talking about some natural healing techniques through a central oils and some other products from her company that she works for which is there tara and the reason i found this to be really invigorating and exciting is through our journey with my son we learned that he's allergic to so many things and that includes medicine it includes many of the chemical products that we were using and so the the go to things that we would use were no longer an option for us so we started turning to healthy foods and options and essential oils and this woman eileen reman is a pro she knows them inside and out in mixes them in so many different formulas but i wanted her to join me today and share some of that information with you if you're interested in some natural healing techniques for yourself and your child they tuned because she's going to share that with you eileen i thank you so much for joining me today thank you i'm really glad to be here this is my passion i love the essential aisles and the changes they brought to my home to many to mention in one sit i know we have we only have a limited time today but i know that whatever you're going to share is going to be very impactful and so why don't we start by ice you brought so many wonderful things and i just have to say it already smells so good and that it's been really calming just sitting here in the presence of this wonderful aroma but as you know because we've known each other for about a year and you know my son has autism and sometimes has problems with sleeping or being healthy or thing called so i want to ask you what would you recommend for parents of children with autism or even their children this what is the first thing that you think of that you've had experience helping our our children with for mice for myself personally i have seen bad caring for the caregiver is first and foremost because we have a heck of a journey ahead of us we take care of everything and everyone so for myself i have found that my balance while it's amazing and essential oil is very simple to just put a drop in your hand if you like to try along the way so you just put it in your hand i just put it in my hand and i just rub my hands together and then inhale it it can be put on the back of your  whole body just settles down it's just amazing how your body responds so my serenity and my balance those and calming oils together this one was the balance that when you mention serenity you know serenity is  blend of oils that also has some lavender and it very very calming so you know when you get nervous or if you need sleep that is my sleep combinations that's actually how i got started with these oils in the first place i was having some  well and just constantly moving and so i normally use some lavender and spray around the house and that really hasn't been working as well so it sounds like the combination of these two yes would a grounding the balance and one is very calming the serenity in together romantically ok so if he's not interested in putting it on him and smelling it that's what a defeat you serous for aromatics really you putting water and oil in that and it just shifts the whole mood in the house everybody will be calmer of the great if try that a few drops in water in the in a different user set the tone in the house you can get everybody awake and moving or you can get everybody calm down putting you know four or five of each you know if you wanted a nice refreshing scent if you wanted a little less than that you can and you know the water and put you know two or three of each and if you want more and more you can adjust it it's like  a personalized science wonderful and if i were to use these on my son you said we could put it in the hand is there another point on the body i'm thinking sometimes feet yes maybe not back of the neck bottoms of the feet are always a great place to go especially if they're not a fan of the scent it's far enough away from the nose and soaks right up into the body and very effective that way always a little children we always use the bottoms of their feet we actually have a really nice that are already pretty deluded meant for children and people with sensitive skin so they actually come here's your lavender right here and it comes pretty deluded with fractionated coconut oil so that you can actually just open it up roll it on the bottoms of their feet and it's very board a ball like you can just put that in your bag and take it with you and if you find that you've got these you know heightened activity you know mood swings or whatever you could just pull out your including smell so we would probably want to start low or was a few drops and build our way to make sure that doesn't overpower them right and and you mentioned before i don't want to get off track of that it's important to take care of the caregiver yes and i know that because when my son doesn't sleep i don't sleep and then i don't feel like i'm able to actually support him so is there anything in addition to the balance and balance in the serenity already are a great they actually have made a the remedy soft gel i didn't bring that with me today but it actually is in a little soft gel that you ingest it's got passion of flour and the serenity and the lavender and it's very very calming and it really supports a good night's sleep it's nontoxic it's non narcotic it's oils and herbs and it's really great with i use it at night i feel like i've had eight hours even if only i only got six you know you a get up and leave your you don't feel like you've taken it over the counter that we cue up groggy you know i just like pop up on awake and i feel well rested so that is also amazingly  not just made for sleep but for anxiety it's great during the day you know the children can even take it you know like if they can swallow a capsule it's a very small little soft shell  escalated anxiety days you know for anybody anybody but that's a good point actually i've been talking to some parents recently and the recurring theme i've heard is anxiety in their children so what if they can't swallow that pill on their mind the bottom edge off everything ok so thank you for clarifying that because anxiety as well is just coming which i guess is really one of the same thing but there's something about this this heightened sense of anxiety that sometimes really groups are children so this really does a lot which is wonderful and the ever mattocks is a great great way you know because some people are not maybe they're sensitive and they don't want things on them but you'll notice i want to point out that your hands on greasy right so you know sense now is that the tactile sensitivity factors are you know an oil goes on your and it's absorbed in your skin which is a point to want to bring up that the oils we're talking about today are specifically about so tara because our oils a put through so many layers of testing they guaranteed to be toxin free and they are tested for purity so not any oil off the shelf is of this quality and i just want to make sure that if i start talking about you know how you put it on and how you use said you know you actually became a label reader this actually has supplemental facts right on the side of the bottle so i make my peppermint brownies with peppermint these are ingestible if it says but the mental facts on the side of the bottle all interesting so you can put it in your food and put it i've actually seen you put some in your water yes when we're together yes the synagogue wild orange in my water i give it gives me a great lift of mood and we bake some big big wild orange muffins and put the wild orange in alright well that's a good point i'm glad you raised that because i've seen you do that and i just thought all essential oils were made that way but what you're saying is we can go to our local nature store or a whole foods market or something and buy essential oils or even buy them online but you have to really be careful what you're getting because they're not all made the same they're not put through the same rigorous testing we do eight layers of third party testing to guarantee there's no pesticides no ham and heavy metals this is only one hundred percent oil and there there's actually two hundred fifty drops of cure or enjoy will from the rind of an orange that's the only thing in the spot all and most of the oils on the counters in over the counter they do not ingest they are not ingestible and they're not even recommended often for topical use ok good to know that you yes just being clear i want to make sure that nobody runs off to bed bath and beyond and things that they are you know in the same boat this is this is a high quality non taxing lifestyle right yes so all ills are great but they're used they have different purposes and different uses yes and most of the perfume oils the ones that you'll pick up elsewhere perfume oils meant for sending ok all right boil for a natural empowered living you know right on toxic living wonderful yes well one of the things i love to do is something interactive and i know that every time i meet you you're telling me about some new blend that you put together which i love because that is so creative and so i thought maybe we could put together a blend to show how easy it is if a parent want to get everything yes actually one of the biggest most popular things right now for us is our non tax a bug repellent that we make and we just blend a little combination of oils and we put in going to just kind of eyeball that you're going to put ten drops of our terror shield just a note to self sometimes you just have to be patient loyals move like molasses and loyals pour out like like lavender for instance is the oil of communication so i found myself not a big fan of lavender in a long while ago and then i found out that it's that oil of communication so when i have to do a presentation i lavender is ten of those goes in the cedar wood so i always put a little lavender on my throat to relax me and open up my my communication skills so what a great idea yes so it's a great way to go they actually the tower came up with this fabulous little kit of emotional oils as well that helped to support the emotions overall i mean that's a nice blend of moral and wood and down for me what these are so we can show our viewers yeah there are so many yeah but this is good this was yet a nice a combination that we put a lot of research into my this was actually developed by a couple of  that was ten ok so i go and i'm counting ok good so yeah the idea between behind this is that we actually works on the the flies when you're on the beach you know it even repels them because you know how annoying they convey so now if you show them your bottle here this is just a little bit of oil in there i don't know if you can see that on camera but then we had you're right percent organic and that's a very important factor to make sure that you're using organic components right when we're ok so there's the  then we've got some rubbing alcohol in the becomes a third of that as well and then hold it for me you're in and around here we've got some that yes so just to show you to a sense i do like to kind of demonstrate what we do for kids with autism my son loves experiments and science and so i would do something like this but i would always bring the elements items to my face like we are going to do with my favorite look at this cool bottle we're going to build this with something that is really good for your body and it's going to keep the bugs away i'm just so cool and i really try to keep my face inviting and excited and then i will ask him if i have the bottle he has like hand that to me and watch how i put it in now it's your turn that we have a lot of fun going back and forth keeping it interactive it's like a science experiment another thing you can do is at the pharmacy pick up some pipettes those little clear like i droppers a right there disposable and then even if he's it's an ikea hand coordination opportunity where he can we use it hand you know and head count with you yeah it really could be depending on how interactive you want it to be and how much and you know what the the only thing i would suggest is from a safety perspective just if it's on his hands just remind him not to touch his eyes you know you might not want to say don't touch your eyes because it'll make you touch your eyes but as soon as i do you know but that could actually be a really fun thing to do you know right i mean we've we have make and take rollerball  bug repellent classes where people come and learn and we teach them about oils and we make this is how they but they walk away with but we had a wonderful group of people one day at this big kitchen island and we had a sixty five year old woman at one end and a mom with three little triplets making oils together it's a real hands on fun thing to do is yes well i mean we're almost out of time so i would like to ask you if there's one thing that you felt like would be the most helpful thing that a parent could do right now and there's many that we talked about but what if what do you think would be the one that would be the most helpful for a parent today if they wanted t to i would say non toxic living from the inside out we have a really great collection of omegas everything we have if you think of for the entire body applied to the neck and down the spine it's fantastic and it actually does come in a gelcap a little soft gel if you able to rouse wallow them i take them just to help support my aging body but the d d r prime on the back of the neck and down the spine is very supportive to the entire nervous system help calm and support it yes that's important so there's a lot of science has been but that is behind the terra and it's a wonderful company with many amazing products and we will how would people contact you if they wanted to find out more and possibly buy these o actually e mail me as well i could give you my about and you can post that with this that would be great if they make a beautiful gift to somebody that you think is struggling as well but supporting the caregiver for me that's how i came in to this terror in the first place the support my family after a loss and it was it's amazing how do you feel they just fit so naturally into a home these ease of application ease of travel and i have my little my little bag with me somewhere i don't know where it went but i was going to say all these little kits fits so nicely in a little zipper bag i put everything right into my pocketbook and i i take things with me on and we love learning for me the thank you you know well being and thank you for joining us and i look forward to coming to you again very soon and please come back and visit navigate autism with jane lynch and we will be talking about