hello hello and welcome to watch our conversations with lady t when we bring guest or not so to talk about issues and topics that now so today's topic is about curvy women and so these two lovely ladies have a business call her big girl nation and i met online this beautiful lady precious and i saw that she was pushing out a bout curvy girls and it's like wow i talk about social skills and we talk about loving yourself and i have an anthem that covers like diversity and console confidence and it says love who you are so i thought it was so appropriate when i saw that i i love to bring you on the show so i can talk about exactly what your company's doing because i think it's something real positive but before we do it what i want to do today is i'm going to actually repeat my that i go through with the kids  so the anthem is i am beautiful and i love me i am beautiful and i love me love me for who i am no matter where i was born love me for who i am no matter what size i am love me for who i am no matter what texture my hair is or how i choose to wear it love me for who i am no matter how i dress love me for who i am no matter if i have a college degree or ged love me for who i am i am beautiful and i love me w go you know this covers like i said diversity self confidence and what you're talking about i'm a corporate girl and i'm always like worried about how i look you know even as i sit here but always concerned how am i looking you know talk to people and so it's you have to love you are no matter again the size it doesn't matter and people always make fun of people that i have be or like you say we can't find clothing but you know the things that you're girls nation and destined to be the number one plus size women empowerment movement and we are all about having innovative products and services parties trips events group coaching masterminding in really taking care of the total plus as martin not just food in fashion which some people think that's all we do oh well this is what you should wear and this is what you should like what a minute what about what's going on in your career your love life your business your your relationships let's take care of all of it and let's make curvy women the focal point and the star of the show right sixty seven percent of the women in the united states are plus and you know how is it that we don't know because we're so it wasn't until we sat down in the elaborated ideas joined forces that this really came to light and i wanted to just turpin and back and elaborate on something you said one thing that differentiate differentiates us between all the other groups is we're not we're not what's the word promoting obesity what we're doing is because a lot of people have other right we're doing is showing you the way and hoping you love yourself in the shoes you are and you don't have to be a size two to be beautiful because there are plenty of divas in our group every day even our brightest beautiful so again i just wanted to clarify because a lot of people have said well you guys are promoting obesity by going up right now if you can still love the skin you're at right and be healthy and runs what we're doing exactly as it were true we're trying to teach people like you know the one thing i do say is yes health is important yes i know for me i  love who i am i might be concerned about how i look right up things and that's fine because everybody's concerned about what science you are but you have to be healthy you have people that are very things that are not healthy exactly sometimes having a people are healthy and there was a study that showed that and forget it was solved i remember that yes she actually did this documentary and it showed it was a brother and sister and the brother was very thin and the sister was and was happy and she was healthy and she was healthier so it's don't let it fool you a bit because people are big that they're totally not how right and we know the struggle is real because as pressures have mentioned she may not have been places all her life i have struggled with the smiths all of my life my finding clothes you know if my sister was here she can you know confirm what i'm saying when she goes shopping holidays what do you buy plus size what is teen adolescent adult when you can't find clothes that are flattering you know you're going to pay extra for material it's just hard that is so nice nice so what are some of the empowerment events that you're doing well the make up to torino i mean it wasn't so much in harmony but i know that a lot of fine girls that that i've spoken to privately or have pulled me that's what i took from their questions and comments were i didn't know you could make yourself that beautiful being big yes you can i mean it's all about you personally it doesn't matter what you put on the outside if you're not feeling the love i think i think all of our brains are super empowering because you have none of the dynamic duo but you have these women in a role who've never seen anything like this behavior so to some people make up would be a big thing that was requested because no one and photographer just to to document have to have it and to be like this is what we started when we literally started you know people telling us you'll never have people come or you know people are already doing that i said but they  get this this cause like i need to you know we're going to be flying to l a twice we're going to orlando florida to film you know reality shows up so we have a lot of things on the on the horizon and we want to show curvy women they loved it we interviewed them and everything so that's that's just a few more examples of iraq that we do but our group is amazing they know that we appreciate that this is for that right and we're receiving new members who are meeting new member the money november twelfth or having our grand major fundraiser the group raising money for the homeless and the less fortunate so one of things that we did we had our free we do reimages to write everything has to be paid for i did an event in central park time to sit with these you know to sit with the people that were students that were outside and we chatted with them and really felt their struggle yes i mean dirty in all we saw past that i mean obviously the other people out there but ours was a little ourselves way different  saying other people that are just down and out it's basically that you said you've been there so you understand you can relate right and so that it's probably more so your passion right you know a lot of time when you experience things on your own it's just like you become even more passionate than others right and it's  turtle to see because there's you know we were we just happened to be where we started on thirty fourth or we made our way to forty second there's so much money walking past the tree the fact that these people you know we heard comments while they can get a job like it's amazing so we don't do moves we don't do cover ups what we want to do is enhance and showcase the beauty of a curvy woman so here we are we're asking through role but you know microsoft they would allow us to show with a lot of rain right do you know when i tell you we are go getters and hustlers we had to go around the corner and we literally felt like street oh my goodness and you know what bite from us off the street wow  let you know it made me who i am today so when someone if you walk in the room the reason i do that i remember where i was yes you know fifteen years ago and that feeling of i'm less then and what could i look like her i don't want to look like anyone else  am you know that's the most for health reasons certain situations are different maybe for health reasons you need to shed a few pounds such as myself but i'm not doing it because i want to be small right absolutely right it's all about health it's all about health i mean even though and just because you love yourself as a big person i think that's where the perceptions people get confused when you make a statement that i love who i am ok love who you are but you know that yes i still have to lose weight right cause of my h like writing one else that is something that people shouldn't get it's was the right they should understand that yes you still love who you are but you know just like anything else you know you've got to get the hair right you got to be here right you got to get the weight right you got to get weight promoting a healthy dust i'm not i'm not much into that night somebody has to somebody has to be at the forefront of my movement and so we have to take the blows first before everything is exciting and i you know people never say to me oh you're promoting obesity they're just like well