night was this that dream that you would thought you were in a flood and then you woke up and you were in one and no no no not that one or again no this was a dream where i actually had you ever like wake up laughing because something so funny to you in a while yeah yeah with this wasn't that ok but this was funny enough that i said i got to remember this and i had this phrase for you know how the end of the show we always you know have a little yeah little things like you know  brought to you by the way yeah yeah so i had one of those and i want to talk about it and so the phrase is yes tom does the emotional heavy lifting so you don't have to go it's very good yeah and i remember laughing about that and with it came a song idea and and i woke up there several times that night and i make make sure i kept remembering it so that that then if you didn't feel like writing it down you know i never do that yeah if i actually get up enough to write it down i can't go back to sleep i've heard david brenner used to he was a comedian who used to say that he would get these jokes in the middle the night and he would sometimes they'd be so funny and he started keeping a pen and paper because he's a comedian us keep these  so here we are what do we have a that's do you mean that that your emotional heavy lemon emotional have a list to go after yes i like to do that you know i like to lift the heavy emotional stuff and i guess i do i do like that stuff i do like picking stuff up putting it down i got the little in the yellow car with the wheels that i put stuff on and so i love picking up the heavy emotional stuff and putting it on there and i guess i feel like i'm doing a service for the universe you write and write i'm picking this crap up when nobody else wants to you know they're all sitting around texting and watching gilligan or something and there and and i'm doing like the real the real heavy lifting yeah i'm buying into this now do you also like you know go along the you know the highway of life and pick up people's emotional litter and clean it up for them too i used to but now i've just discovered that this in those i was a full litter you know they're not sponsored by anybody's and nobody's going to come around to pick pick that stuff it's like drugs emotional notional highway is sponsored by you know the lions club yeah the lions club and then they would come over and pick up your motional but no nobody's doing it just sits there so tom goes or i had none i w and he feels like he i just don't have enough after bags to pick up that stuff and i feel guilty about it absolutely so that's good yes good at least you feel guilty about other people's emotional baggage oh believe me i'd sure do it because you know ultimately it comes down to the realization make these colors go the way they're supposed to be while i look at people in the same way so i say oh there's a person walking down the street and if i just manipulated them a little bit they would be what the way they're supposed to be and because obviously they're too incompetent to do this so i want to do that so i'm going to go up to this person i'm going to say oh hey i want to figure out how you got to be the way you are and what the mistake was in that what the mistake was next that missed so we can fix that mistake so that you can be the colorful rubik's cube that you were you were a man as you were as you were printed you know when you came out of the factory exactly like that so that's sort of start turning that rubik's cube on these people and they start turning it back because then not only do they not know how to make it right but they don't want to make it right so they will they w actively work against you and that makes it more intriguing you know because then the task not just becomes how do i make this person the way they're supposed to be but the task is how do i make this person want to be the person that they want to be that's the that's even even more difficult yeah we're challenging it's impressive yeah this is obvious just a hobby i do you know some people collect stamps or you know make bicycles and things like that but it's a hobby that i like to do emotional heavy lifting so tom yes this radio show allows you to reach lots of potential rubik's cube people and spin them around for your own amusement my own amusement yeah well so really my amusement i'm well it is my amusement  but the reality of it i think is that you know i feel that i am doing something important by doing that because people aren't really responsible for their own lives yeah and when it comes out i'm not either you know so i feel like well gee if i waste my time working on these projects that don't mean anything because nobody wants these people that these people want these this emotion and you don't have to work on your own stuff either my own is nice so that's good that was that so it's a win win when y so so with this radio show you know you're just doing it writ large is that the idea that you can actually try to spin and manipulate everyone who's listening well the radio and advertising general is of all about manipulation  to right so manipulation is one of the most prized tasks that we have in our culture you know being able to manipulate so many and we call it different things we call it you know love oh yes o somebody's brain and we're trying to activate it to control that person in some way so why do people want that i mean because i really love we all want to experience you know because there's clearly a big market for being manipulated yeah so there must be like something powerful underneath that well this then is also money because money you know people do that for advertising they want to me and you because they want to put a little vacuum cleaner hose down our pockets and suck all the money out of it and it's easier to do that if you can manipulate so you don't have any of that money because we're beyond that we said we sort of feel like only in the chewer people go for the money that's sort of what what what we're sort of based on we sort of feel like we're on a higher plane you know that's sort of how we were not very nice very nice well this is been a really good show i understand the world much better now thank you yeah well you know it's interesting because a couple days ago we were sitting around a table and i was telling people my philosophy about music which is that you know there is no such thing as people being paid for doing music  nice to me yesterday when i saw her again ok so that was nice and well she pities us yeah i mean that's that's that's the other side of well that's better than money being paid it is better than money yeah and we want that to be a lesson for you all because we're doing the i have the lift on this show so you don't have to yeah right come and join us again next week by