newark new jersey siena she has this wonderful company it's called blueberry cafe it is amazing it looks good and everything and it tastes phenomenal so i wanted to bring her on the show because i met her when i did an event for it was a teen woman in business tea party and lisa denise who works there at the n c wanted us to do this wonderful thing for the woman so we would have a conversation and she told me how wonderful big a restaurant was so we ended up going there dan and i were hungry and ham and we said well let's go check it out yeah and so we had this beautiful conversation and i said you know what you are so empowering that i have to bring on a show so people can hear your story because your story is really really powerful but before we start we have some tea here and so the key here that we have is a something she mentioned lip that's one of my blends and just you know check it out  typical child but you know my mom was always like i always feel like i was ahead of the curve you know so i faced any normal challenges like any other teenager when i any of the teenager you know i had some you know my own challenges  became becoming teenage mom yes and the early age of thirteen yeah i've been there three children before eighteen you know in those type of things but just always staying motivated was my you know my heart's desire  know so a lot of i guess restrictions and resistance that maybe a normal teenager in a position would've faced you know i didn't have that in mind so you know i mean so i had these kids but yeah so you know had a lot of going live for dream and so you know it's just it's so much people can learn from your story doesn't want people don't even have kids and they don't pursue their dream right so you know just you know just could you tell me you were my mom she was like a very intricate part in it you know same person as we are now my daughter not so all the young people to you know a lot of them are so ready to get married at the age the first date and then they get married not that it doesn't work as work for some people but i think that people should enjoy life doesn't mean sex is right getting to know someone and you know things like that song so i would you know i always encourage that because you know i was in my late to mid twenty's by the time i was out of that first relationship wow and then from there i like meeting new people i was kind of green  that i didn't go the right way and it just wasn't me so it didn't like penetrate you know my i mean i didn't want to do that you know as the things that seem that were no good i know i didn't want to do those things but for the most part just  is the support i was they helped me that young to get to this great when you have family support yeah i mean i know me it's not as young as you but i had my son right before i turned twenty two and i felt like oh my god so young yes but you know my parents were his parents yet they helped me so much i mean when i decided to go to hear school while i was working a full time job and maybe they would pick him up every day from the babysitter and worry it up a whole year they did that and they took him everywhere like that was  so i understand when people you know you're single person or you sometime if you have a boy from the young it's so great when your parents of yeah or family is there to help you here because that's what it is it takes a village to raise a child yeah thank god that you had  it was just like the same like those periods was it was just like tragic after charging that you know i lost a sister two years before my mom my mom had her four children so my mom has my brothers and sisters work on that you know getting just i know i don't know how to really i guess conveyed in words but there's a there's a energy in yourself and i think that it is intelligent i think is very  they kind of ran who lives all the way down you know and i used to be very like oh it plays on to that getting high is that doing or not doing that and then after a while i was like ok you like it i love it you know i mean so you know how the let a lot of those if i could just express for someone to just you know listen to their owners and their fear know that there's a a much higher party itself than what the stereotypes create which you see on t v or you know what you heard you know you friend w five years ago i just wanted to know like some home i was always just like thinking god was a heard about it you know with the catholic school you know other kids running around horsing around you know doing community you know it is you know the time we supposed to study a week i was really for everyone you know people like you grow up in a religion like i am with seven adventists yes but i think you should still seek on your own and this is where god is god is really in your soul yes so you don't have that connection with him right here things  go crazy but i think it's finding him here taking the time to just talk to god stuff like that the more you talk to because sometimes i like talking to him as much as i should and then i feel like i lost something i have gotten from not talking to him you know so i ages i mean you have kids that are going to school that parents got them in so many different problem where it's like when do they have time to sit down to relax or family time you know a lot of family time there is no family right because the parents always you know taking the just life here and it's just more or less implementing things that were not there you know and in my own lifestyle the things that i there was a void like that so we open this up the first vegan restaurant in newark new jersey y it a certain way right there was no way to eat that well unless sometimes you travel thirty twenty miles and even even if then you get there and it's a lot of you know stuff that may not like leaks away and different things like writing food so you know store right at the top so i was looking for the owner of the health food son and he said try him so i would have only known him a little over a year and longer and so you know we met and we said a few words to each other about diet food and i was like huh  this person is invested into the company exactly that is so smart because i know especially in like the color in their industry my daughter works in the industry so she's always calling me and i don't even know where she works people are changing constantly has she still there five years while the so we do look so music that's my whole family line that men do here everybody does here so you know my brother does here now my sister does here so i kind of downsize the salon and i had one urban center opened in two system you know what makes hair grow nutrients nutrition you know all those things like that so one of my journeys was to find a product or something that will actually work and grow people's hair back and i came a friend of mine a friend of ours and his wife actually developed the product after her daughter lost her here and i know dr no one could not tell her why and she was already in the science