about why she embraced reached out for help and their marriage well michelle obama's new book change everything why we're looking back at the best moments of the spotlight before we say goodbye to twenty eight c and h roberts to talk about her new book memoir becoming where she had missed it she and her husband brock had to work on their marriage take a look marriage counseling for us was one of those ways where we learned how to talk out our differences what i learned about myself was that my happiness was up to me and i started working out more i started asking for help not just from him but from other people i stopped feeling guilty i know too many young couples who struggle and think that somehow this is there's something wrong with them and i want them to know that michelle and barack obama who have a phenomenal marriage and who love each other we we work on our marriage and we get help with our marriage when we need it so here's an interesting fact about her new book it has now become the bestselling book of twenty eight and it seems that there are a stigma around marriage counseling for couples so i don't know i know for a because the thing is when it comes to like meeting women you've got to be aware of their headspace their personality that's you know it's most of the time they could be fake and like the dots way it's the story of the extraordinary lengths the doc will go to in order to get back to their family every year millions of dogs and cats end up in shelters and rescue us we found our fella at a shelter in tennessee when you adopt a shelter that you discover there all your life dopped your love and help the shelter find their way home at the shelter pet project dot org sometimes the things we do or say to make others feel hurt excluded or i see everything you say and do creates a new column was supposed to save the whole world you can't think of a food in the world you have to think about saving one person because of you somewhat entire life you don't have to be a superhero to have positive impact friends but then something happened we had to deal with spam click big fake news and data misuse that's going to change now on facebook will do more to keep you safe and protect your privacy so we can all he's not on camera he's not doing anything in particular on camera but you know you know does stuff like that ice cube he's actually a producer for hip hop squares a big although big big basketball but to see a guy like him you know harder about the give sake give for this christmas this year take a look and at the end of the commercial it states that some gifts are more than just a gift so the question is like what is the best gift that you ever received that was more than just a gift or a gift that changed show life that you got that i would never forget i was really the first step to even getting into my career because she had to do that so i definitely appreciate you for that and i learned a lot and it really changed my life in a big way because now i don't really know how to industry works in the modeling industry and the hospital they are most vulnerable i want to be the person that hands out that helping hand right those hands were handed out to me when i was twenty years old i was in a very abusive relationship and i wanted to get out reason why i said that test she followed me because i've always scored high on the tests you know you'll be great for the c n a program at the goodwill office which was the certified nurse assistant program do this because of all those a's i got accepted into the nursing program when i graduated nice i started working at st mary's hospital in long beach and i've been there for the last three years as humans we're here to connect with people and help each other get to where they need to go whether you're in the hospital bed and you need to get well or whether you're in the street and you need to do something better with your life to take care of your family hey welcome back you know we were talking about the gifts here you know this could be a good gift for chris was that you ever see the show the golden girls  the movie and then with the sofa that's what it was called and on i'm just excited you know that the judge saw my hard work and i was able to switch characters and there's a lot you know that is though you know to show people that you can do different things but i appreciate it you know that's his oh for the holidays i'm going to new hampshire which is northern new york resolution i would definitely like to work some more of my poetry have been kind of slacking in that what you do well my holiday tradition has came back from last year that monk i introduced you to and he's he's came back the monkey disaster tips from the objects left behind my home wasn't insured but you can check your insurance policy now to make sure your oh my savings are lost but you can put money aside plan for unexpected disaster costs will last forever but you can scan 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executive order  like danger like why would you want to have children like that child actors weeping and crying on all the other now twenty four seven right now i'm do not fall for it mr pr you know know yeah that's your favorite moment throughout twenty eighteen that johnny from myself yeah ok i did it before but i was a construction worker just a couple months ago and i made the conscious decision to go back to school present stuff like that usually on generously for christmas my family has a big dinner out christmas eve and we paris all my family members my loyal family members all my friends you know who you are be strong yes that's right merry christmas to everyone here watching and to everyone out in this studio audience if you can't get enough of the spotlight we got you all covered to see more clips from today's episode or from previous episodes for you to log on to w w w tiny u r l dot com slash the