problem do you really the room because we were just obedient like first graders or we just want to start a fight about something i just thought it very odd were asked to leave a green room gets with the green room as well people talk and get to know each other and i welcome the cable access t v i don't have the cable thing i think it's more prin talk about because you don't really bring me because you have nothing to talk about i am talking it's twenty seventeen the new breezing with a beer and two guests couldn't make it there's a banned list now i don't know why they whatever we're going to have what a professional show th every guest cancels who is going to be on the show one bit as did this happen to david letterman one you've been asked not to repeat the same even if you thought it was funny it's tiring say the same thing over again because i know you fear success kurt but you really don't worry about that if you e your brother qatar you're playing the guitar and i watch what you do and i do the opposite anyway we have a guest riah who is also the fashion coordinator director fashion statement trending is on the new i think princeton white board will be talking about that you can do the interview coming fall asleep because i don't really want to help people do things about the wide free monday it's been done and all these other shows want to find your insight into why god even it's a your insult and to mean our medical correspondent psychologist i like actually discuss other things but should get really mad but she's going to discuss her take basically on the protest movement feminism among other things in america  also her psychological profile those in power are going to the round table i hope that she's wearing something sexy do you find her sexy yeah who's more sexy ryo than i could go for a double american newspapers about how he's killing all these people and we think oh well the filipino people must be aghast at this but he has incredibly you overwhelm high ratings i can over there are plagued by you know crime and no not really yet home and from but they really hated jokes there so he's like the beacon of hope and whatever here only the they just love it you know it's kind of like martial law really not yet or he did well it's kind of like the police university so there's a lot of like they versus women and you're going to be approving things since you're on the board you approve while work has to create eight and invent or a program at least once a year during our term to mainly focus on empowering women so we're going to teach them how to there's a lot of events that's going to happen to like conferences and workshop to empower young women to have you know personality development or like how to get a job or how to get  won because he demonstrated over and over again that he did so many things that would normally disqualify per yeah definitely but it didn't work you know with you know about almost half of the people you know and so we want to win grassroots level republicans i happen to think the democrats republicans have consistently done better grassroots organization the grassroots level brock obama one negative he has on this presidency is that governorships were lost state legislatures where last republican stood a good job registering people to vote this time around and they actually voted they did and they actually voted yet and also i think was a you know it was a it was more photo pourquoi know this thrown of a flaming brick through the window that a lot of people did even to didn't really prove trump was just but it's based on i don't the facts aren't as i understand the fact that every gratian is that bad it's really actually pretty good for this country except only jobs it takes away from construction big time real and that without immigration you'd be paying fifty dollars for a head of lettuce and well with all the things going on like this new person you're talking to and now the director yelled at me and i'm feeling sensitive right now i don't know what to do you know my flaws the lose my flow my mojo my comic timing but anyway how is that new person shot the first name  about which i read a copy of the name of the book did name of the book is forensic psychiatry a lawyer sky we have a picture bitly squashed picture and for those who forgot the genesis the reason behind  this book was i wrote this book because all the lawyers who hire psychiatrists and even those who don't hire psychiatrists don't seem to really know why they need psychiatrists in their legal cases so i want to write an so with all going on with lawsuits lawyers schizophrenia it's so funny basic things you saw were being missed by the lawyers and there's no primer for them how to prepare what they want with a should look for in a shrink yes and they're still being asked they're just not reading my book enough right and so you had this book published now and i can get a little personal i was shocked though at the price i read the book and i like the way you wrote it like you were talking it was accessible to even me the layman can speak in excessive ball and also the font is really small i know they screwed up i know they're in england i thought they invented the language but the communication between you two didn't wasn't working they sort it up on things right because this is sort of a specialist book for people in the trade i get the impression that a lot of people publish books with them to say i wrote a book and then the book sits on the shelf right and i really wanted this book to be read by the people who buy it  something very important at social media if you tell me this statement ok so if i can remember what i was going to say oh yeah so what they do is you go to different publishers and you ask them for their submission guidelines and then i looked at different publishers and they said well we're the biggest scientific publisher and you would be so happy if you publish with us so i followed their submission guidelines and it was a pretty big endeavor to readers i had to give them test readers i give them a few people that would consider it and those people were actually paid while to read my submission and say whether or not they thought that this was a good idea for a book so they when the went back and forth a few times because they had formatting problems and you know they just do some things that i didn't like and then when i got the book i was actually kind of appalled like it was small and the font was tiny and then i actually self more like ten thousand home run for them but he said some people are doing i don't know what would work for you a student really reading the book they do a website like you have and they actually do just because you don't want to read specially younger people they do video chapters really so s it's funny that you should say that because the person that i have now that's working on my media i suppose to the person you had before you had to work on the show you know you live and learn like everything in life has a price but now i have  and i know you did and we're going to we can talk about it later but anyway let's talk about on it i'd rather not talk about it but anyway i'll tell you something else off the air too about the new marketing person too ok but anyway the point is that so what i'm doing now is that we're making like a blog and the clips from this show and other video clips of the people can go to the website and hear me speak and hear information about things so it's not a lot of people because reading the practical psychology and it's like nice three minute videos but they're well put together to good graphics and everything easy to read basic points you need to be a long time i'd love to do that you need to have a lot of time you don't have to well not a lot of money but you have a attention in the beginning that they're serious or whatever they're serious lawyer and they want to know what what's going on and do their business correctly and if your book is i like your book and you said the only time that tells a lawyer how to going to shrink it should be a primer should be thumb you know worn out and used all the right for a course on but you know i would i would love to teach the school exactly i've heard i remember a professor at rutgers i even forget the details wrote a kind of book like yours about anthropology something like that it was dormant for four years he's never a lot of time one person that this book is great is so simple so general in my job if something comes to me and says i need this i need a psychiatric evaluation on this elderly man who was in this situation and this is the problem i do my job i do the evaluation i have i can't do this part i get somebody to do and you communicate with the person i say well you know a lot and i get it done and i find a lot of times when i rely on people to do work for me if they need they need assistance at every step what about this what he had porn on it forget that i don't care about that the point is i take something to get it fixed and i get five hundred phone calls were at this stage i'll keep you updated i'm like i just want to phone call when  and your wife yell at you for that's true but you want somebody that you had that said ok never you want somebody that you have a connection with that you can talk to easily you want somebody who's up to date you want somebody who's articulate and speaks well because they might potentially be able be going to court all of this rules out about he's already ruled out he's not a psychiatrist i like ruling him out ok ok i mean he's been in court before i think you also like cutting me off and not letting me speak yeah you're is board certified in forensic psychiatry they have to be board certified in general psychiatry for sure but being board certified in forensic psychiatry at this point in history they should be ok out of all that what's the number one thing that you autographed it for free that would be a book and also amanda berry when i read the book and i actually didn't put it down easy to read interesting you learn basic psychiatry in it people learn how to manipulate people from reading that book which i like so get this book for i've had a lot of that now when i'm talking mails to show you face a train wreck you think it was funny some people say we jump over each other what is it it's a work in progress yes and it's going to the right track i wasn't the one who came in here and told everyone that we were all talking over each other i wasn't the one who said we should handle your wife a little bit yeah but their exit she had actually made the show look so much better though she was making a point ok but we do watch the show though too it could be subjective i don't i love it without your wife i mean first of all you wouldn't be here you know you're going to she said but you're not into laurie i have like the least thinnest skin of i think anyone i actually know i mean i i'm not even picking on you g i actually agree with you and now you're like amnesia you so traumatized by it i mean who cares anyway i think the show is actually slightly my only i got object i don't remember do you do a show yes and who comes on over nothing i care though i don't care though if it's low it's funny but i can't stand the heat also you bring up a really good subject how rude are people today then that way it's rude no seems not communicating oh i thought i'd talk to you but no you didn't you know i always know when i get a lot of i've just gotten really really really ok so not just me know people call my office and they say oh i called to cancel my appointment and as we say you know you have a no show fee and they're like i would never not cancel my appointment and we say you know what you didn't call to cancel and the every single call going back to the beginning of time is locked and then we can search for it don't you think they're think about that they just don't care they're tons more important and then told that until they get it up for a fee but do they pay their fees you know that they'll call in the but there are a lot of people the let's how they behave somebody that i treat in my practice as a as a courtesy it's somebody that i know out you know out not a patient just somebody that i know texted me in the middle of my busy day and i was actually doing i'm doing an online course so i was during the online course but it's a live online course where you see all the people in their lives and their little faces are there and stuff so she texted me in the middle i need a prescription refill so i left it and then when i was done texted her back and i said ok i'm going to take care of it but next time please call the office like everybody else so that we have a record of them put up your partner please so half an hour later she text me i call the pharmacy it's not there i said well  ok well you know we're still busy there's a lot of things going on it will be there by the end of the day in the stuff so not only am i doing her a favor treating her for free and she's texting me but she wants it yesterday that's what i mean what i expect the general wants like them you know not everyone but a lot of people a lot of people expect you to drop everything and you know and do things for them immediately and then when they feel sort of they don't understand why you don't feel close to them why they feel you know controlled or emasculated they don't understand why why it feels like like you don't have a close loving relationship if they were going to the right social front of me had a lot of stuff and so i was on my phone i wasn't like putting everything up on the belt right away so the person behind me started complaining like crazy that i wasn't putting my stuff on the to be on your  so they were like i was robbing a rattle of a random stranger yeah right so this random stranger is all pissed that i am not rushing to put my stuff up on the belt i could calculate because it was not my first rodeo my first knew how long it was going to take for it to be my turn so i rushed i put my stuff up for her and then i get to laugh because then it was my i had my case of seltzer and the went home threw some things into my backpack and drove to rhode island and it was horrible was rainy and it was dark among all their family and i am in new jersey where we have such considerate lovely people we have the opposite of you're wearing the wrong to the show but you know it's a normal were put there with the words and friends were going back and forth making knocks interrupting and then you know it's kind of like a show and kind of acting we exaggerated and then over and wouldn't take it that seriously maybe have a bad day today i don't know i thought it was a joke to i feel really bad because he's part of the team i don't know but i feel bad though what am i supposed to do you know with the shows that i know with a show like that that i did i'm not that we all get knocked that's a premise of the show and they say oh he can yeah like i wish journey think that i will say that a lot of times people will say that that people just stop things inside and don't say it and then it all comes out it wants and you don't usually see that but when you talk to people people will go after i did something which kind of it backfired on me i brought an old captain the old co host on because i wanted to cause you know stoking some fires here and the captain turned out really weird he really was bad it was before the show and kurt really wanted to punch him that lave i don't need this shit or maybe you don't need to do the if i remember though when i first started here the atmosphere here was very chaotic there always a lot of eat a lot of extra people around us that had no particular role here and there the green room was just full of people in an hour running around there is so much that they are you know people brought their dogs like i don't have they were just like a lot of action and recently like i would say you know for the past year probably well y people take things a little i noticed people take things more seriously when they talk talk to them and this is you know this like we're doing something that means something and we want to get it done right and they kind of up their game to yeah so you know you know that was my fault it was actually my fault though to ca o so and so on too long and i like the chaos i thought maybe it added to the show but it was too much it was it was way too much and i was wrong i mean i mean he you know you live and learn and i'm the perfect person to set of you to go leave you know it's going to be one of the things i like story not a parable but like one of those stories that you know fables or something you know that says that everything happens everything's happens because supposed to happen that way i felt like a little not very d every location somebody has a saying was a saying this is what happened grandma had wheels she would be a trolley car you say if this if this if this did this happen before no only but it was my fault when i brought that the old code once it wasn't even on examples of something going right and one example of something going wrong and they base highlight that every i think i should for the future i'm not the one thing go on the basis that this is a little red flag to really on this show interesting that for me it's also we're just we're all different people but i think that this brings up a really good point about what we're going to be his or her about what we were talking about before and when people are like they'll have a thousand examples of things going one way and  to you i don't want to and i can't guarantee that for you i'm saying now you want me to change i'm just asking if it would be just as fun i'll listen to it i might add i'll listen to it and if it but i might not agree that we're going to start by him but does that mean it is but some people  the expectation then that they were down that has to some substance i'm just like you know most likely no but i'm pretty open minded something hit me like my god yeah yeah just like when i realized that we should have more control we should have over where to wrap it up so there's been a fascinating swing of twenty seventeen you know but staying motivated this year is kind of like a top priority but it's also like getting like it's so hard that sometimes people are getting burned out they're ready and it's only the start of the year so i have this first item it's called the happiness planner it helps you cope day by day so it has your typical planner pages but also has sections where you can set goals take moments for self reflection and cut out all the stuff that's holding you back plus it helps you start each day with an inspiring farm so make your twenty seventeen your year with his happiness planner he know those nights where you cannot sleep because you worry a lot right i am with you there because i worry so much as well so my next item is we call it the worry box so it comes with a pack of forty blank cards with little of the have you write your warry so you can put your worries in the box and then walleyes like a therapeutic thing that you're putting your worries away and setting it aside and then maybe like in few years or a few months you can like open the box and like look up all those little things that you worry about so it's another cool thing about this box is that after a while you can reread them reopen the box and you will see all those things that you should have avoided when you were stressing out my sister ari and sent me this list sally as a gift so i am completely in love with this item so i keep applying it as an excuse even though i don't really need it so this goes here is flavored balm dot com comes in a bunch of different shades i use cherry and can be used on your lips or in your hands cuticles under the eyes etc and instead of coming in a a few hours in the light or like put little water like in a month you can use them as a phone charm necklace as a key chain and then after eight to twelve months while ah you can put them in a flower part and haven't a regular plant there are a bunch of plants options include hedge spike and bubbles so they're on sale right now so if i were you grab this plant hoshi miniature greenhouses and for our last it what's trending for february i am featuring princeton university's media studies three return of the analog so it's presented by the louis center of the arts program in this show arts in princeton university so they have an a publishing consumer media and my favorite the d i y culture there will be an opening reception on february eighth for thirty six pm and it's going to be located at lucas gallery and the exhibition is also open every weekday and admissions it's free so that's has been our what's trending for this month make sure you check me out at snap chat instagram and twitter all handle that right there and we'll be right back for more on our march edition of the show