welcome ladies and gentlemen welcome to his glorious production you're in for a wonderful program on this evening i have an exciting guess before you and we just want to start in her name is sarah stiles she worked as a registered nurse for most of her adult life she came up through the ranks as an lpn r and also a nurse's aid and eventually she received her bachelor's degree from rutgers university and also she specializes gerontology how career nursing is  as far as her being a staff nurse and supervisory of nurses and also she was a director working as a director as a long term health care facility so you c she's very knowledgeable in the health care field she is currently working part time as the home care agency in north brunswick new jersey she is a member of the in time harvest temple pentecostal church in new brunswick new jersey under the leadership of reverend and mrs rupert and jane jane lang and please help me welcome miss sarah alfred it's a pleasure to be here oh this is you know was just a pleasure just to meet you and you know what you know is so i'm just excited to have you on your nursing it just of evolved over time it took me a while to find out where my nature really was you know after i graduated and you know what you know up through the ranks because you know i've worked in i started out in the emergency room as a nurse's aid and pediatrics med served a little bit in labor and delivery just like across the board but then as i matured  found that i really loved working with the older clients and i think that niche was there for me that i didn't recognize right away but you know i was very close to my grand parents my grandmother she was like my mother actually and i grew up in the church but my grandfather was the pastor my grandmother was the first lady so i saw elderly people in positions of authority and active than vital and of course the other generations you know debt downward but i didn't realize it but you know i had  a and one of the nursing schools that i went to we had an affiliation at the nursing home and i said oh no this is what i want to do how it happened what of that is you know that is so well i did i did i got to help staff and make sure the health care that was delivered was you know top notch quality you know we strove for excellence we had real good team and  i did enjoy that as well wow you know that is awesome because you know we have such a growing population of i as huge as you know are very aware that that is a growing population of the elderly that is growing and they're getting into long term care facility and family members are really struggling you know because a lot of the work a lot of them work and so they're struggling how are they are they are going to attend to their family member but yet work for full time do you see in the working with the families a little disparity where they despair how they're going to work through this yes there's a lot of stress associated with that tension sometimes turmoil some cases ili depression like you know you love your parent and you want to do the best you can for them but the realities of life finances can impact in a negative way definitely when you know we were talking about you mentioned disparity and you know people go into depression especially the children yes because they are working full time and they love their parents so much but they you know with their struggle so when we when we look at even life is self and how that so many people are in despair and originally when we started the program we wanted people to know that this program is for those who are depressed dead and many who have fallen away but you find people they need assistance and bake in just the basics of life yeah and one of the one of the scriptures that we come to mind is called a song of trust and god's protection his love and his power is caught isaiah twenty six and three because i'm sure you have come across you send people who are in despair and depressed and he said and isaiah twenty six and three he will keep you in perfect peace perfect in christ and peace the one whose mind is steady that is committed and focused on hem and because we trust and take refuge because this is our hope and confident expectation how can you how is that rebel relevant even in your profession how would you apply that to because you see that people are confused people are depressed and do you see that people need to they need to find that peace absolutely people need to know that they're not in a situation alone by themselves they need to know that the person the caregiver the people around them are going to be supportive that they have a come this and sounds like an inner grounding so that they can them with what they have to do and need to do and this is where god comes in to the plane because you know when we talk about he said i'll keep you in perfect m s whose mind is steady and focused and committed and stayed upon the lord so we so when we're dealing with even the issues of life we can take it with the issues of life that so many people they need peace and this program is made for people who are looking for peace because you can i'm sure you could attest in your profession or even in your personal life then the peace of god is very needed yes i do you can you are tested it can it's crucial it's critical it's on poor and to have the peace of god in your life first of all personally to recognize that jesus christ is the son of god that he loves us he wants only the best for us and if we focus on him and read his word and keep our mind focused on him and trust in him he will be there to support us because he's real he's personal he's not just an entity out there ace spirit that you can reach you know his reachable his real yes alive his personal that is so true because with what even in people's personal lives professional life you really need the peace of god yes you know you really need and every second every aspect of our life from the time we get up to the time we lay down that so many people there how can people find this peace you know people can find anyone can find this amazing peace of god first of all through his word reading the bible finding out what god's instructions for us are he made us he knows that he knows what we're going to be going through and his word there's life in his word secondly making the lord jesus christ the lord and savior of your life because as i said before he's personal he's real he's alive so as you you know become more familiar with the lord through his word and as you know we pray and talk to god he becomes real and he helps us i found also personally that music really helps  especially you know christian music but you can all god speaks to it and so many ways yes so you know you can hear a lyric and it will just answer a question that you have or solve a problem or comfort you ye you know interacting with other people there only other believers but nonbelievers as well god speaks through people he he speaks to us like our very existence but even like in nature you know yes i mean just in getting up going outside this guy the trees the puppies the kid you know just just everything everything god speaks to us through everything even our ability to like appreciate color and to appreciate love and all of it that various forms and expressions because he is love we wouldn't even know what love it you know that it wasn't for him and you know just so much oh you know i was just thinking when you were talking about even talking about the that the nature is selfish i was thinking about how bed in the morning the birds are yes and when you want to get th hear it just like what you said he speaks through us through so many different ways and so is taken of having a personal relationship and and his just like would you say and have a nice relationship and trust in hell trust and have in it and you know have been at peace because so many people there are not at peace there many are not many are not and so we're here to tell them that they can get that peace we're here to tell them that they can have that relationship with god because he's he's the dad of peace yes he is he's a god of peace  matter what you may go through or we've all been through something yes we've all been through something in our lives so we know that we had to go to him and ordered to get that help so we just want to encourage everyone dead if you don't know their god of peace that he is he is there he is here he is there and how can someone receive that god of peace sarah  going to god talking to god being honest with him you know when you talk to god you don't really have to use the king james english although i love that translation of the bible it's like shakespearean you know there's a lot of depth and wealth and spiritual food in that king james version but you can just talk to god like he would talk to your friend or another person he knows your heart he knows what's inside he knows what you're thinking you know as i thought before they even come to us yes so what are we hiding nothing you know just be honest with him let him know how you're feeling and tell him you need peace and ask him to help you sometimes you could just say god help and that's a prayer yes it is you know if you just despondent this program is for you in the midst of all the rush to ration and the myths of not having that piece god is there he wants you to call and cry out because he wants to have th personal relationship with you absolutely because that's what is a personal just like what that's what his sarah was saying and that is a personal thing is a personal relationship and he was help us through life tedious journey and you could i'm sure you could test in your ass that it is a tedious journey it is life is difficult you know there's a song that i'm sure we've all heard and and it's not true blood is just a bowl of cherries it's not you know there are instances where we have a lot of good things happen to us and that's great and you know we thank god for that but there's a lot of stuff that's not nice and it's not pretty and it's  difficult and it's hard you know sarah you know i just fascinated by your field and you talk about how you even ran into a you know you'd run into families that are not at peace and even not only just families but basic blind if in situations that people need that peace because they are frustrated do you believe there i definitely believe and i've seen life is full of frustrations just you know normally so when you introduce something like taking care of someone that you dearly love who's older even even younger i mean you know just just all across the board can be a husband  wife a child a friend you know your mother your father sister brother anyone that you really care about and you love and that you're responsible for you have to fit all of that in your regular life and that causes changes you know your schedules have to change the whole family around you has to change their schedule and it can be very difficult and it can be stressful but god but guy and this is where we want to take what you have done in your career and how you applied it to the family how you apply it to individuals law and stood because we're in a we're in a world where there's so much frustration so much confusion and people they need the peace of god yet they really do and that's why we're here to let people know you're not going through this on your own on your own right and so we have god there to help us yes you have well you know when i  go to work in my nursing profession i really bring the peace of god with me which means i have to be grounded in the lord in the peace of god myself but i bring perspective to my job so whether i'm working with an individual client the families the staff other coworkers i'm bringing a piece of god with me so that any situation that i encounter and able to cope i'm able to handle it doesn't mean that it's easy and it's not like i'm coming in with a pollyanna attitude that you know i'm not singing and you know some things are really tough and you really have to pray it really takes the grace of god to get you through yet but knowing that he is the and that his word is true and that you yourself are grounded and allows you to meet the needs of other people more affected lee i think the more calmly and then you know you can always get away somewhere and just pray about whatever the situation is you're not going to  i don't want to say browbeat but you know your faith your religion is yours but you bring what you have to the table and it's peace it's joy it's love and i found that people can sense that they may not know what it is but they they asked they look at you differently you know sometimes they might want to curse and then they say oh excuse me say or you know so what is that you know but it's the grace of god yes that's w we want our you know i really appreciate even how you took the piece of got it related to your professional life as well as your personal life and i'm sure we we have both of just so you you know are listening audience would know that they can have the same place can have the same piece no matter what you are going through no matter what you may be experiencing and whether you're taking audience that no matter what you are going through you heard sarah say that all you do is just call around to just say lord help me and even is the time there will live in and call on and just ask them twenty nine eleven for he know the paulson plan as they he has for us here and to give us a future on whole guy has great things in store for you ladies and gentlemen i go no matter what may go on in your situation of what may be going on your life the peace of god is there as sara has you know this has even can testify to and reference to her taking care of elderly people meet in the families this is years and years of experience and so we want to introduce you to this the to this god of pianists and we want you to know that he is there for you that you did i had to be frustrated you did i had to depress the god of peace is there for you and we were like set would you like to lead us into to the salvation prayer ok yes yes there will be a privilege a