he would do his recording sessions totally drunk well everybody does that and he's kind of a fearless performer in the sense that he would come out and just it was a little on the recording yeah i've heard of people like that like did you ever hear those recordings of charles manson no i don't ok yeah all right but charles manson is a good segue to the theme for today's show ye masculinity masculinity yes yes oh it's a very interesting word what do you find interesting about it is i mean so many different things to people and they're all wrong i'm right ok ok i'll  buy that so what is a right thinking person think about masculinity well i am a trained person you may not know this but and then one how long have you been a person well a long time ago not that long ago i became a person i was thirteen at the time and of course you know that the word person comes from the greek meaning a mask oh very interesting and so you're not actually to be a real person is to not be a person but to actually be a mask hiding ok real you well as a non person i have a good definition of what that means ok and you may or may not know that i had some training in tantric psychology you know but this you can bow to of course this was one of the many marriage counselors that i visited over the years you even though he's not married i know but that doesn't stop anyone from taking the money directly out of your pocket and it's none of the married you yeah that's right not a single one of them did all right i know i was telling one of the guys on the hockey team you know we've been you know been through like five or six of them eventually they  asking an energy and feminine energy and masculine energy has the ability to manipulate objects in the real world and can actually manifest things move objects around build buildings lift hammers screws things into boards and and do stuff ok to actually make stuff happen round peg into a square hole go right ok whereas feminine energy can't do any of that stuff but has a deep understanding what's the word intuition intuitive yes feminine energy has an intuitive understanding of the universe in a way that nothing else can understand it but has no ability to do anything in the world so in theory the best in balance person is somebody who can work with these two kinds of energies levesque relationships are people who are people can work with the really those energies inside and then so your idea of masculinity is oh so that really doesn't answer your question you know that's what beacon and that is for the culture that needs stuff sold to it and that's what mr masculinity really is it's a way of taking the money out of your pocket and giving it to somebody who wants it more than you yeah that's that doing something and yanking things happen energy you are talking about yeah that's the kind of energy we want now do you think of yourself as a masculine person i can give money with the best of them yeah but i don't think you do it for the same motivation no i don't i don't so yeah i do have trouble with my masculinity in that respect nya and i need a little more testosterone i need a you know there's a lot of discussions about this whole hyper masculin what they call which is this idea is that they have a know what is that dating show the bachelorette or something like that when guys go on there so i don't want to hear about feelings i don't hear about your crappy feelings just date me so that's sort of what masculinity the best part of me ask you as a dot com girl and i you know talk about this from time to time because you know she'll have like i think she wants to learn or do you know and like obviously can't allow that right then she'd have her own ideas yeah and what would be the point of that and she has to be cognizant of your fragile little ego all the time because that's sort of what women are supposed to do  hi everybody we're talking about basque you live it and i've been kind of blathering on about it so i want to hear what your thoughts about masculinity are you know my thoughts are so lengthy that we might need a second show for that kind of tape right really young right and definitely by middle school it seemed to have some importance that i was never all that interested in and so for most of my life i clearly don't give off whatever that masculine vibe is perhaps because i actually care about people's feelings or something i don't know well i don't care about yours yeah right but the dear listeners you know yes i care about each and every one of them yeah absolutely so t well tom the masculine thing to do would be to end this show right now yes throw them in the back of a pickup truck and throw it over the cliff in the ring get down with your that's all we need to do so we're going to do that right now but