hi everybody i am jodi topix your host of we need to me divorce decor warehouse becomes a home we did me helps you rediscover yourself as you literally go from reading me married to single by restoring a sense of permanen emotional wellbeing through the uplifting power and psychological impact of color design and mentoring and also as you already know i like to have other professionals on that can also support and help people feel good emotionally as they go through a transition such as divorce loss of a spouse empty nest syndrome relocation anything like that so without further ado let me please introduce my good friend she is an air are born into our bond our bond i'm going to say it again are gone are beyond independent it's not my fault it's a tongue twister our bond independent consultant and when to let her tell you and explain how important her product is and how it makes you feel good so amy welcome thank you for being here thanks for inviting me it's my pleasure it's my pleasure first of all i should say we should just briefly tell everybody because i love to share and only have people on that i know like and trust how we met con funny it is from my big my first big workshop that you attended it wasn't a big a friend of mine who's a financial planner oh this is really cool she's never done one of these before i'm going to go i'm going to go support her i was the only one there for her right and we were doing it together financial planner and myself exactly and i walked into neighbor my ex neighbor exactly yes so you know why it doesn't matter because you do have this incredible presentation you were just launching and i thought ok i need to have this woman in my life for the rest of my li oh my gosh that's what happen it is that was it so the hope or it is there was a workshop two people showed up and i have a friend and a business associate and great makeup and skincare products all from the workshop exactly only need one you only need one it's only that's the truth and there was all the seats and the food what about the champagne that was there are going to say no to people who are all together because as andrea myself and my friend  yeah that's how you get started ladies and gents when you want to be an entrepreneur you just go for it right speaking of entrepreneurial ship there's a lot of cool things about your product first of all how important is it to make a first good impression we will talk about that earlier as i shoved eggs down my throat before the show it's really important you know you only have a couple you got a few seconds to make a first impression but you know what i hear so many stories of i don't care really low key but you know what if your confidence in yourself with steam and how you feel when you walk into the room you don't need to be covered in head to toe with makeup you just need to have this inner glow about you which i love about this company is because it really gives you that inner self confidence you know our bond is fantastic it's really the perfect marriage of source botanicals and queen science so you know it's really the best to everything and you know you when you walk into a room you know you want to feel good and look good and what's the first thing people see you know i do they look at your i mean i think they've taken the whole thing but i think they see if i think me if i'm wrong i don't think i see your face first they see your face it is a smile it's the demeanor and if you feel good and healthy with your skin and the products are using you can give off the that impression we even set up breakfast that the first impression really is you are the first person i see in the morning right if i feel good i'm going to go out there and make my best effort right absolutely and you you help women feel good look good be healthy and i think it's like a whole domino effect i think if you can take care of your skin and all the senior and you tell people about the really health and skin we're all connected what's our biggest organ is our biggest organ to take care of it absolutely but you know what honestly you know speaking of like you know transitions and for her horse and empowerment first time going for a job they did not enter the year so you know these products truly are amazing but i think our biggest and our best product truly is our business because i love the fact that i can help women and men but you know i'm really all about empowering women to be the best of who they are that's really i've felt like this forever you know that when you're over sixteen that's what you  never underestimate the power of a woman there you go that was my yearbook quote there you go you know god knows how many years later how old are we well first of all let's just say we're using these products everybody and they make us looks i'm ninety seven amy is and how good do you feel when you walk into a small room i feel awesome yeah and you should i feel awesome i would you know i've been working hard you know with how i look at how i feel for a lot of years and you know it's never too late to start know that's true people should know that what if i can i just ask you a question like what if you feel like what if someone's already my age and they've done nothing with their skin is this is that you have a product in that little magical bag of yours absent i would help somebody in their later fifty's and you know what it is never too late it's never too late it's never too late to have a healthy lifestyle it's never too late to use good products because we have the here now this is all we have exactly exactly and you know what honestly i could i can show you beautiful products that can really help you you know and you know and it's amazing that when you put something on your face or in your body but serves you the inner self confidence is really what walks into the room yeah it does it walks in first and it isn't anything that you have to force or think about it happens organically it happens naturally because you do feel that inner glow right and you know whether you're wearing a great outfit whether your weight all of it like you know your face is your great out you know the skin care products or the great outfit for your face right absolutely and it's spells and you know what's really interesting you know we talk about self confidence but you know it's not something that i made up you know there was this famous psychologist yes there's a famous psychologist you know in this in the sixty's i remember i wrote because i know you needs and you and they're five about you know their five motivational needs and number four or five is self esteem yeah that's pretty high yeah you know so we can't do much without self esteem and that leaks through when you're not feeling good about yourself and after a divorce or any type of transition or loss of a spouse or even even a retirement people don't their self esteem is jarred and sometimes it gets buried under the rubble of what is going on in their life at the time and it's really important that's why i like to have other professionals on like yourself come onto my show because i'm just one component for taking care of your environment and that makes you feel good in the color and having your your space look beautiful is wonderful that's one on one cog on the wheel but then to have your skin look wonderful and then to have to have your cool come nicely you're just i mean all of those things then the food that goes into your mouth then the jewelry we wear which we'll talk later with mark next guest mr brando who becoming on all of these things are like one product in there that you what so what what so i cannot live without this product to make a prim getting just kidding i'm just kidding i'm a lawyer by training so you really should be saying i know the things i say i just say i say it's because i didn't hear a word you heard nothing i heard so you've got like so that so when people do you have divorce doesn't matter but say somebody has been at home and had the huge job and still has a huge job of being a mom and now they're divorced and they don't they don't know how to get back into the work world would you explain to people that or this is also something that you can do from home or make it totally full time it's not just about hey everybody which i will give you a muse information calling you up and hey i want this package and i also like i would like a career how can i do this and i can start a small or as big as i want right amy absolutely the best thing about our bond truly is our business you know i just said that so explain what that my case so what we understand so what we do is really i teach people to build a virtual franchise ok you know it's a turnkey yeah you know it's a you know what i do is i show people that you know i've left people said you what do you do in life you know and i kind of laugh and say i'm on a mission to change the world one glowing face at a time source you know and it's you know it's the kind of thing that you put into the nooks and crannies of your day you figure out for yourself what your priorities are a lot of us yeah family children parents look you know we're  downward generation that goes on your calendar yeah it's important and then want to change your conversations you know and that's really what the beautiful thing about this you know you do you really can build a full time income part time yandell it's really super important to for people to understand that you know it's like it's multi tiered because i've used the products too and they've been they're really really nice and the idea that if you feel like turning it into a business you can you know you don't you don't it's not like there's any pressure right it's just really about options and people need options when they're transitioning absolutely and as they're transitioning their options are going to consistently and continuously change just like they're skiing right exactly right i was very very you know dedicated loyal product user for a very long time before you started to go and use it as a oh you were yes i was like you know i don't i was literally i was a hard stop yeah i will never do this business don't ask me were like i love the product but i'm not doing this yes but what was interesting is i shared with all my friends so you were doing it anyway exactly exactly exactly so by like the fifth or sixth time i was asked two years later yeah i said you know what i am ready to talk to you because there were some transitions going into my life modestly i saw the writing on the wall it turns out that i would happen to be laid off the following week but i was but you know what it's really for the best because i was feel like people you know you make an effort in everything your business you are your personal life your children your diet your skin care how you pull yourself together just by pulling yourself together is going to give the byproduct of that isn't pressing other people in a way in a good way in a way that they want to what's it's like they want some more of that i want to be around like you know when we met i want you to be my friend i want writing in my life it's like i want more of this i want to be dogs it's all relative it's all good you know you want a fair serenity when you walk into your home expression if you're going through a transition you do you know and that's what honestly like the first time i walked into your old apartment i thought oh my god i'm staying here i'm going to go yes a new place is fabulous thank you oh my god it is so fabulous little you come in you put your feet up and you're like i'm never leaving oh wait you have an appointment i might i'll go all right let's s ok can i go back but that's the whole point and you know the funny part is it's like skin care for your house you like that right skin care for your how i like that it's skin essential for your house right the right color the right color in your space makes you feel good look at us this morning before we came on set before we came on set we're like with the lipstick where she looks good you're putting the face if i didn't put the right color lipstick i would have felt good you would have felt good same thing with your skin care same thing with your house same thing with your outfit seething with your food if you don't eat the right thing you don't feel good if you don't wear the right thing you don't feel good right like putting on your arm collar and all of that yes armor in armor in a good way good armor not like you're trying to put on a separate space of face for the world that you don't want to see right but a face that really is a reflection of hue are from like you said earlier from the outside right but sometimes you have to fake it to make it there's no question  why are there only two people here there's only one i got to where you never about is you and as long as you realize that it's not about you then it doesn't really matter and like you said you only have to touch one person i just wanted to touch a whole bunch of people and since then that has happened but the whole point was like you said earlier it was the one connection the one valuable connection and that's what i want everyone out there to know there are so much out there for you if you're going through a transition whether it's it's a business related entrepreneurial ship related and you know i'm an entrepreneur so are you i really recommend you try to find like you said you were a lawyer but it wasn't your love then listen you fell into this and you're so passionate i've been to your meetings i've been to your groups i see how passionate you are and that's what i think people that are listening need to know that try to find a passion for something that makes you feel really good and don't worry about the money right away because the money will follow and you know in the beginning it's kind of scary and i have scary moments too but you know what once you do something like this in your happy and you touch people's lives whether it's two people or it's two hundred life but i don't know what the rest of days are going to be you don't know they could be talking all about you or not even but someone's telling them how great their skin is and they feel so happy about it or they're comfortable in their space or whatever it is and my gosh you touch them and you just don't if you're right you don't know how you don't know it and you don't need to you don't if you do it from from your heart rate from place of love right and that's where counts that's where it always always counts in life when you're faking it all the time people know well somebody yeah you know what is that everybody has energy you walk into a room you either you bring energy good energy with you or bring a good energy when you leave right and you don't want someone sucking the energy you have out of you like sticking a straw in the side of your skull and sucking it out and you know it's one thing to help somebody that's different right people who want to help themselves who want to take care of the skin who want to maybe start a business who want to have an environment that makes them feel grounded and nourished like sanctuary like what what i do when they want to it'll happen if they don't want it it's not going to happen you can't force it right nor should you write it and so you want to be around people who are need i don't want to people to misunderstand i want to help people you want to help people but those are the people that raise their hand say hey i'm going to give amy a call and to give joe do you call whenever i want help i'm ready it's not the people who want to get a client who says oh i have this perfect friend for you also you did such a great job but she's not ready but i want you to go look at us i love you i know i love you here touch let's touch you but it's great this is what this makes me happy this makes me happy to do this for my friends for people in business that i respect and i respect you and i think you know for years you're welcome i've known you for years and i feel very honored to have you as a friend and having said that now i want you to have a couple things to wrap up ok so please tell everybody you can look into the camera and tell anybody how to find your number everything just how to get in touch with you on any level whether they want skin care or want to go into business or whatever i'm not going to give myself our number because that's give whatever they get every year what for them to reach you by on my we any schenkel down independent consultant i will get back to the messenger very quickly they are fantastic products fantastic business opportunity and truly life changing if that's what you want yes it's got to be what wire you do and for everybody out there if for some reason you didn't get in his name because it's long complicated you can call me and i don't care about myself because all of you got it so you can call me and i can get you to amy just as well  so i want to wrap up by saying it's important everything that we do is from the inside out that is really how everything works whether to your space and making your space feel comfortable and having just the right color that makes  or just the right skin care product or just the right makeup that makes your face feel beautiful and makes you feel beautiful whatever it is it has to be from the inside out but a lot of times what we have to do is affect our external to make us feel good on the inside like our space like our face have to now that we've done your space it's time to do your face i like that that's another workshop another time having said that you guys all know how i close so your space needs to be comfortable reflecting your personal style and fitting you well like a favorite pair of shoes and all of you that watch my show know that i dedicate a specific shoe to my gassed and i have a special shoe for you kismet it is yes i did meet her with this fabulous had been in in my big workshop with two people but that's how life happens and happens so good things happen so ms amy thank you so much for being on my show very good writing it yes it's my pleasure and you guys five four three eight six if you want to reach me or if you want to reach me because she doesn't give out her number to just anybody so thank you so much thanks for joining me see you next time by