christmas party started roberts to talk about her new book memoir becoming where she had missed it she and her husband brock had to work on their marriage take a look marriage counseling for us was one of those ways where we learned how to talk out our differences what i learned about myself was that my happiness was up to me and i started working out more i started asking for help not just from him but from other people i stopped feeling guilty i know too many young couples who struggle and think that somehow this is there's something wrong with them and i want them to know that michelle and barack obama who have a phenomenal marriage and who love each other we we work on our marriage and we get help with our marriage when we need it so here's an interesting fact about her new book it has now become the bestselling book of twenty eight and it seems to still that there are a stigma around marriage counseling for couples so i don't know i know for a know because the thing is when it comes to like meeting women you've got to be aware of their headspace their personality that's you know it's most of the time they could be fake and like sure dots way that's the story of the extraordinary lengths a doc will go to in order to get back to their family every year millions of dogs and cats end up in shelters and rescue us we found our fella at a shelter in tennessee when you adopt a shelter that you discover they're all your life dopped your love and help the shelter find their way home at the shelter at project dot org but then something happened we had to deal with spam big fake news and data misuse that's going to change now on facebook will do more to keep you safe and protect your privacy so we can all he's not on camera he's not doing anything in particular on camera but you know you know does stuff like that ice cube he's actually the producer for hip hop squares a big although big big basketball but to see a guy like him you know me as a surprise surprise you know or tell me later because you know speaking of gifts allan john has a wonderful heartwarming new commercial that will make parents and folks around think harder about the gifts take give for this christmas this year take a look and at the end of the commercial it states that some gifts are more than just a gift so the question is like what is the best gift that you ever received that was more than just a gift or a gift that changed show life that you is a gift that i would never forget i was really the first step to even getting into my career because she had to do that so i definitely appreciate you for that and i learned a lot and it really changed my life in a big way because now i don't really know how to industry works in the modeling industry and the hospital they are most vulnerable i want to be the person that hands out that helping hand right those hands were handed out to me when i was twenty years old i was in a very abusive relationship and i wanted to get out reason why i said that test she followed me because i've always scored high on the tests you know you'll be great for the c n a program at the goodwill office which was the certified nurse assistant program do this because of all those a's i got accepted into the nursing program when i graduated nice i started working at st mary's hospital in long beach and i've been there for the last three years as humans we're here to connect with people and help each other get to where they need to go whether you're in the hospital bed and you need to get well or whether you're in the street and you need to do something better with your life to take care of your family hey welcome back you know we were talking about the gifts here you know this could be a good gift for chris was that you ever see the show the golden girls  the movie and then with the sofa that's what it was called and on i'm just excited you know that the judge saw my hard work and i was able to switch characters and there's a lot you know that is though you know to show people that you can do different things but i appreciate it you know that's his oh for the holidays i'm going to new hampshire which is northern new york resolution i would definitely like to work some more of my poetry have been kind of slacking in that what you do well my holiday tradition has came back from last year that monk i introduced you to and he's he's came back the monkey there'd been two hundred twenty two and from a shelter as it turns out very similar personalities and this cat makes me make art because he's always motivating me to take pictures of him to draw pictures of him he just is motivating keep your town a reason to celebrate because every good one item you bring home brings job training and more to your community good will bring good home meant had neighborhood networks youth media center a place where high school and college students can learn about media creation after school or on weekends in our free certificate program then put those video productions and editing skills to use to creating original content for our youth channel social media platforms and other internship bri wanted to take a look at the best moments of twenty eight right here on the spotlight and you know we've had our moments and we've had the usual on and off as well as good times check it out  five hundred times on this show the day by day week after week and we still can't get the answer of what we're looking for a while you know you know when you hear about four hundred years or four hundred years like the choice europe in that you no one else even this is you need to do your own research cern never been to history class that the current guy in the white house played the blame game of the democrats on this immigration battle and then he signed an executive order in berg so to end the separation of family the i stood on the stand you taking away from their parents their families wearing like this is completely unacceptable and you are really her in the shoulder and you are really like you know like them in pain like the woman even like danger like why would you want to have children like that child actors weeping and crying on all the other networks twenty four seven right now do not fall for it mr pr had things that she had to deal with but you know but this is personal so i'm not going to get into it but you got to move it forward yeah but if you're watching just to come to the show it teach us how to do the catwalk we're waiting for that so you know present stuff like that usually on january or christmas my family has a big dinner out christmas eve and we or around the holidays around christmas time everyone including us you know has a tradition here at the spotlight and this is one of the if you can't get enough of the spotlight we got you all covered to see more clips from today's episode or from previous episodes for you to log on to w w w that tiny u r l dot com slash the