grab a cup of coffee whatever you're doing and hang out with us and i'll give you some more information but as you will know we did we divorced the core of the show was not just about decor it's about bringing in other professionals that might help people and give them advice as they've gone through life transitions so we'll talk a little bit about color and design in between the show but we're also going to talk to two very capable and fabulous people dr william song who is a board certified cosmetic laser surgery he teaches all over the world and he is is a renowned doctor in internal medicine and his his sidekick who is a dear friend of mine she is an r n b s and psychology b s it goes on and on certified in vampire procedures there's a lot of stuff here but we're really going to focus today on what's called the oh shut some of you might have heard about it and we i think we're going to start with dr song and have everybody listen in and maybe you can explain a little bit first of all say hi say how meanwhile see this is your camera i should have told us that if you want to talk to my lovely company but i'll tell you more and more people are opening up and talking about literally opening up go right back right exactly i promise that yeah yeah so the ocean is a is a procedure that it's been around for a few years now but what's really interesting about it is it uses your own body's regenerative properties to to heal and regenerate different parts of your body so i do most of my work on the face right but the oh shut is using the she actually does most of the procedures that you know we do down there yes it's ok we're allowed to talk about it that's why you're on the show and i think it's very fascinating but what i wanted to ask you both is it really didn't start well tell us how it started its start i know from doing research and what you guys have told me that started with incontinence and the air go the name of the show to pee or not to let's talk plasma is refers to taking platelets from your blood and we just do it by doing a blood draw just like you would do at your doctor's office and then we put that blood  separate out the platelets now the platelets are like the magic pills because they contain the growth factors that attracts themselves to the area so we use it for healing wounds for healing  joints and things like that and even your veterinarian will probably use it for for your pets dentists use it and recently some innovative doctors and i trained with  realizing that this was he had something there because his volunteers who had the shotgun were were reporting improvement in incontinen the women who were getting these procedures were getting it for the functional improvement but they were getting this one therefore side effect of you can call it that  that it was actually really enhancing their ability to have an orgasm it's fascinating that you could go from really controlling incontinence and i believe me at this age i know what that feels like you know getting up in the middle of the night running to the bathroom you drink water as one drink for me tell you about my aunt as i'm drinking water it's coming out i have to go it's the worst and sometimes you can't make it to the bathroom it's terrible and i know this sounds awful but it's true and for you young ones out there they're listening this is good luck this is what's to come but good news is we can fix it so that's what makes it so important is that we have a cure or i want to say it sure component of your own body and putting it somewhere else to to use your body's own healing potential so so this is a treatment that has a lot of benefits now  but i have women who first of all i'd love to make women feel comfortable when they come in to have this procedure because it can be a little bit uncomfortable to come in to even talk about the endings in fact we actually have a questionnaire that i use for women come in the radio frequency heat to also increase so that helps with the healing process yes only process is really building more college and aston in the area and waking up the cells that are there so the nerve cells so there's your sensitivity building tell let's talk about about the size of her volvo and after even just one treatment it was a big difference for her so she really appreciated it out do you how many treatments do you need or is it is a one time isn't to ny no you have to repeat it eventually ok so within a year like you know i've had several women come back and basically i just tell them when you feel that your symptoms are returning to the stress incontinence sensitivity issues lubrication is a big one especially for post menopausal women when their symptoms start to return i say come back yeah i've had several women come back others haven't so maybe they're still it's still ok they're still ok but i have to say it's an amazing procedure and combining it with the o really enhanced the effects so what we've been doing is the three sessions are of treatments are a month apart as i have the first one psych once a month later ok third one is a month after that so within really the space of two months you've had the treatment and how long does that last is it but i'm sure anybody is different everyone is to everybody but had women come back about a year after just one treatment right now it's like it goes all the way back to the beginning you know you you don't start over stays on for about a half an hour so i numb that area and then if you imagine this is the vagina i have another needle that i put into this area just the tip of it right inside you have a giant yeah so i know that area as well and while that's happening it's pain f zero to ten ten being the worst ever yes you're all being nothing of course and basically typically that even though you think the clearest is a very sensitive area and it is it's basically nerve endings but the needle is so after having children having rational deliveries it can tighten that up but it can also create a little at last a little stretchy disk which i know from one of my clients has really made a difference in her intimacy with her husband well let's get down the stories now that's enough because absolutely they they are there like their heads are exploding what they want to hear are stories they certainly you it you feel better and it looks better that the giant looks better and feels better that's really the what's the bottom line here we're going for is to try to help with the incontinence that's one the bonus even if you don't have incontinence like you said your younger client like younger clients it will help with the orgasm it'll help look better because it can get a little you know hey things we talk about this we're trying to promote you know we're trying to talk about image body image thing so i just have to but you know i think it's important because i'm going to bring that around to two way to me so you know why when we're going through life transitions like divorce and say women are going back out into the dating world and they maybe they've been married twenty years they want to feel confident all around so the space should be comfortable and you want to feel comfortable with your body and maybe you you haven't been with another man for a really long time and now you're divorced how scary that can be for some women and perhaps they're older and they're suffering with the incontinence so maybe it's a it's they have that issue now like i write in my book to pee or not to pee i say or i must get up six times a night i might need to come see you or you but those are those are those are things that are so very important so what's nice about what you do and i know both of you very personally at this point in your my my oldest and dearest friend we've known each other how many years now oh at least thirty thirty years ok talk about feeling comfortable with someone and dr song is fabulous but how many nice to know for women listening that you can go when maybe you want to take care of this one problem which might be the incontinence or not and then maybe feel a little more if you if you're feeling like you want to change things for maybe you're not feeling when you have had sex maybe you know feeling what you used to feel you can go men and that can be addressed and you know if you go into the dating world with a little more confidence right and you know what the other thing is you'd be able to enjoy sex more yeah and that's something especially women as they get older you know they think that this is something that they're doing for the man you know but you can enjoy it you that's really the only thing that really going to help with the orgasm and that's why it's called the ocean and you know it's just you know i mean we kind of laugh about it can sometimes the patien and then we're going to a little quick break and we're going to see w t f down and dirty design video as you guys know this comes in the middle of the show but you'll learn more about the color pink but basically why i chose the color pink for the show i like to say pink is not just for girls and why do i say that because in many studies pink is popular with men and why is that because subliminally men relate the color pink to the female genitalia isn't that interesting speaking the truth and that's why i want to desensitize the listeners out there to these things because i want people to feel comfortable to come to someone like you and address issues that they may have or that's what i have to say so cutting out will return shortly with some interesting stories right guys yeah see in a few  thing that's a bonus a bonus the cast majority of people are coming in for functional issues incontinence pain things like that and we had a patient who you know came and had the shot on and i did mention to her about the sensitivity and or she and the response vary some people have really you know strong responses almost immediately some people would take then you know i'm going to try to get them for you because she actually recorded for us or allow me to ring more and what she thought of it and it was just all my if we can put it we have time we'll see if we can drop that into the show you guys might want to hear that but i'm assuming she was quite happy she was surprised  well you know these are very interesting facts in how old was she when you say older i think she's sixty some wow good for her yes he is actually actually in a relationship now looking i think she is  inside she feels a lot younger than her age so you know that the births the thing like we just because of your age doesn't mean that you have to resign to what society thinks you're supposed to be doing that look like i'm going to be sixty soon beth where in the same category we don't look are huge and it's all about how we feel and i think you told me if i recall when we did the vampire episode i think you were talking about this woman did you say she had a little have women as women it comes it does it comes good word it comes and goes but with this this is just what a wonderful way to at least be relieved of this symptom of incontinence and then have this bonus side effect now and now beth we still have a cut we have a few minutes left maybe two minutes you said you even had a young women who didn't have the incontinence issue come in right or we've had a couple women come in who are either pretty orgasmic were just having some difficulty and really want to work on the relationship with our partners and they aren't seeing results it can take a little while sometimes more than one zero shot is necessary but you know and also a little bit with the size yeah well i would get a lot of younger men look i am i always concerned about that but one of the things that dr song just mentioned which i think is really important is you mentioned couples therapy and this is really an issue that can be an issue of intimacy so surely a fact a couple's relationship whether they're married not married we had one woman who actually married her high school sweetheart and they've been married thirty eight years and she was one of my first  this is such a touching story to me because i feel like i made a difference in her life because then i feel good that yeah she had the third treatment she came because she was you know experiencing dryness very it can be very embarrassing for them it can be very also putting they want to know the person who's doing this you know with a woman with a thirty five for half an hour and then for the you know after they've been numbing you know right or puppies their kids you know whatever just so that they are distracted and they feel comfortable during the procedure because i want everybody who comes in to obvious that it's feel like it's a place they're welcome that they don't need to feel it is a welcoming place and you are and you're both very warm people and which is nice it's sometimes in the medical field professions can be cold and i've been to your place a few times we had a we had a wonderful event the vampire facial event there and i was lucky very it's wonderful because you get the benefit of all of that having said that we're we're going to be i have to end on time or i get in trouble we are we're doing great with time i want you to tell everybody where to find you guys just look at your camera and tell them about these six very quickly this is the aesthetics dot com our web site and we're in oakland new jersey that's right so if you're interested you can you can go there if you're interested in ordering my book to you and i do talk about to play or not to be and all of that good stuff you can go on amazon and look up seriously as if going through a divorce wasn't bad enough me as the author obviously or you go on my website read to me w e a number two and me and you can order the book from my site and