one lie after another she sabotaged marriage for that i was not going to feel sorry for her all women who thought or had said she's wrong for sleeping with another woman's husband need to get a real  each in atlanta so it's kind of exciting in that way but this is a personal choice personal choice evelyn so because they did three hundred film projects in atlanta last year alone so between film and television and you well you know tyler has a studio there but they have this company coming from europe into atlanta who bought up like way more than tyler perry studio and they're putting in the studios so where i'm living at in atlanta my new place is on th maybe discussion if you don't know but tell us about this tell us what this series actually starts with if i can't have you so you know i like songs of again have you anyway so it starts there but i'm s more to the issue is is there one woman feels like really liberated because i told him when i met him that i freelance like i don't like to commit to a relationship because most men don't know what they want and you know marriage is overrated undervalued as is so i freelance i see who i want when i want so i started going out with him i don't like to cook and he likes to take me out to eat so anyway between eating and talking on the phone and you know that adelle intimac is i mean it's ok to be yourself free of judgment and you know the only person that should judge you is you i mean you don't have to live up to anybody else's standards if you don't want to but you should be able to exercise awesome i do because i feel like through my writings in this series too as if i can have you and then a second book is i rather be with you and this is if you don't know me so it's all part of the same series but you get to see the women evolve you get to see your consequences as a result of your actions and you know some people were cheering for certain women in the beginning you know but we all change at some point and i don't care how devious you are as a woman there's communicating with my mother some people believe that and i do you know but i don't believe everybody has the gift but the things that this person told me only my mother could have told her whatever so one my mom said she loved all of her children equally and then too she was like because the book i'm working on right now deals with abuse and she was like your mom wants you to write this story like she's so proud of you because she wants you to tell her story don't try to do verbatim or whatever but through the character you have to talk about abuse and what happens in those types of relationships so i didn't want to make it too dark so it has this funny moment as i can be a real life but i was thankful for that even while she was talking to my mother my father was trying to interject and so we say you dad here i want to talk to you to right now you dad here your dad's here and and she started seeing things that i had never told her she was like oh she said your dad was horrible like he kicked your mother in his stomach when she was pregnant cause he didn't think the child was as it always is so many things that that session brought forward and i believe that because i'm like this person is close as that person was to me they didn't know that side of me so i thought it was interesting so i feel like my mother is always watching i feel like my father is always watching and when i get in a bye i call my guardian angels to me which writing i don't believe parents who put their lives on hold for their children that's me some people go one way to my kid go to college that's fine it's your choice wasn't mine and so as an example he got to see me do things and so believe it or not he just six figures and people like are you seriously going to quit this job to go and write and i said yes i do without all my retirement money because i heard oprah if you sell ten thousand copies of a book you get a book deal i had eleven thousand want to make sure and i did like three months later i really had a book deal with kensington i still write for kensington publishing corporation they're like a family even though they are a big company and i really like that about them but when i decided to leave a job i was very clear in my choice i believe in god and i believe that god takes care of us i have tremendous face had a past on plane asked me to have a day well you write a sex books how can you believe in god i say well you know we're all god's children no matter what we do so you know you're not all the while you have an explosive all this right craft i'm passionate about everything ever you everything that i dare write whether writing books i'm very passionate about it but i do tell people if i weren't making money writing books i find something else to do because the other side of life is that you have to be able to sustain yourself and i would never want to be that person that's a starving artist right i would find something else that's why i felt this was so products of i don't like all my money in one place their passion you have to be serious about it you have to be willing to take chances and take risks and you have to work hard to find some people just the recession and one lady would say oh do you write books for other people to know who they are i have to understand their backstory like why are you this way because as i develop them throughout the book i have to be able to convey that to the reader in the story so these people become real to me the stories become real i'm dealing with mona right now with all these people ye that say for example a holiday just pat and i was like ok i have to do this and i have to do that now that my son is getting married oh ok and he broke a skirt i have another family where they're like oh you must come right so i was like ok so i did both because you know i'll get a chance to repeat those moments in life in even though there's always a book to be written there's always words for me to put on paper i still have to take time off for family and i make time for myself i work hard and i play you know how do you handle this is the thing how do you keep grounded we talk about if i will go ahead i will go out of town with you because i believe that you know people hate actually they're not satisfied with their lives there's something missing within their life that allows them to actually be jealous india's or hate someone else for doing what they love in life so i don't worry about them but like i said i don't take it you know and passively either something if you email me i'll email you back if you just like were or unifying with those books well the books that i'm working on right now the fiction novel will be a trilogy i try not to write outside of a trilogy anymore so it's easy to keep that thing going it started out being a book about single mom and so my editor was like i don't really like like the title single mom because guys might not buy it you know they're always thinking money and that's the way they should think you know i'm thinking writing and so i'm like ok well we won't call it that so then it just ended up in this whole other arena even though these moms in the book are still single it's a little bit different that's not the focus because i had to like real where i was going with that particular series but in the back of the book they just came out if you don't know me is a section called dat a woman's guide to choosing the right wine and so i probably can't say on air would dad stands for i would just say do  it was the state of what i'm finding if you catch them earlier in life illegal ok so you guys earlier in life you're kind of like they're open they want to learn something new and that's why like thirty somethings they like open they want to learn something new is well i think that people are exploring more nowadays and is still sharing i think geographically like the south is still the south and so even though they're doing things of what you just mentioned sharing they don't always want to talk about it openly because i'm finding like coming from california i'm very open to say you know i have for thirty somethings the thirty somethings aren't even always comfortable with that element as of what i'm doing but i feel like the young people are really exploring themselves so you have to kind of question where marriage is going and what the family structure is going to look like maybe like ten or fifteen years from now the most important thing is honesty and be honest with yourself and where you are and women should always know what they want sexually professionally you should always know what you want because if you open your legs before you know what you want you got to get screwed because that's just the truth because the young guy in college came out before the draft a lot of people thought that he shouldn't have and you know for those of us who are open with sexuality we applaud those people for actually coming out there are a lot of people in the closet because think they provide are going to go on your website and yet all your books and pick a couple yeah they're listed in order on my website too in terms of theory this number because people ask me all the time which book is very second third final word is that i think people should just be true to themselves know what they want know what you want in life and just go for it is the only life you know and we'll be looking on a program near you on