you know they say one is the loneliest number and to be honest with you when i'm doing the show sometimes i get a little lonely so if you want to be here while i'm doing by invitation go ahead and check out social media and find out how to be a part of my studio audience over here too good no they yell and as i grow older i'm just amazed at how the times change now many people nowadays they get bent out of shape if you give them a little issues you know it started become a thing especially romantic relationships is this bubble in the like you just supposed to be yelled vose pedals and ambrosia all the time you suppose the patting each other's bums and everything you say has to be positive and encouraging in the really love someone you give them the real and if they really love you they will accept it and guys started dialogue and everything's going to work out to be alright you both grow you get closer and you get that lov now before i continue this is not to be weaponized yes the truth can hurt but it's all in how you do it if you're constantly critical if you knock destructive if you're nitpicking if you're intentionally being hurtful you might want to think more about whether this relationship is working for you ok you can't change people as a fact but it doesn't mean a change isn't necessary a person who gives you lines like i never feel good or why should i change i'm sorry broaden run fast and far because that person isn't going to do the one thing that is vital to success both an individual life and in the context of the relationship evolve seasons change nature changes caterpillars become butterflies things change growth is change if you can see that well that's another conversation altogether the difference between this in abuse is that the person leave also is doing the work for themselves right they have a desire to be better than they were yesterday it's not forced it's not threatened and it will also involves effort there is s motivation to be the best person they can be and this is mutually beneficial so case in point you gotta grow you gotta evolve if not you are dead i'm sorry to break it down to you but something that does not grow or change is dead so let me give you a little bit of time but that marinate when we come back we'll have ricky bats right here and i just kept working on myself working you know brandis in my own in my scales and you know when i came home five years ago with use of the races so i'm here right now five years later and on just preparation were overwhelmingly was overwhelming the rewards but at the end of days that's what you call grind and that's what you call that's what you call you know you you learning as you go because mine i came straight from this environment to this environment not know where nothing just known how to be artists which you know is different learning when you went when you were in a environment on to teach yourself and so learn to music industry to hone your craft and to be a better person be a better man sight of the end and you just kept focused on the point the point the point that i can relate to that and i think a lot of people need to understand that like live as life make choices make good choices make better choices but got this you know on my record or whatever and now you're just completely out no you don't you can do you can be here with that is what is your mentality in where you go from that as a fact so you know we we can rap on that supports a little support is a main is a big big big big big big thing is support because support helps the brand helps your musical whatever you're trying to do it helps grow and then support helps you because encourage you knowing that you got the support from others and encourage you to keep rising into make better better decisions in in better music and make better product because it is like just for somebody to watch a kid so you'll be able to make it that support you don't necessarily mean money you know like a mean post or something it could mean you know sharing of selling your friends look his artist or hit is you know or do you like this song what you think or or just support you don't have to mean money of course is mouth your horse's mouth right there money is not everything when you know is not support and sometimes you don't want the money sometimes  support is people want to go because they like rather the bandwagon so you know they want other people to make it's a say is hot before they can say is right right right right so when i'm out you know all school yeah i mean we can chop that up by the way watch young bastar timi from old favorites and new content from this show and all our productions here at young boss media when you wake up in the morning when you wake up in the morning and you don't want to go to work which you do you go down to the kitchen you go into the closet go get you john coffee