well if you say so and take it from me when we're my age we will be turning down invitations maybe now tell me why aren't you going i don't  why does it matter for several reasons not maybe i can show you let's imagine the family at dinner with nobody mind man not very pretty yes it's each person busy feeding estate showing no consideration for the other people become irritated i agree no one can enjoy a meal like this no it's meal time is a time for pleasure and relaxation it's the best opportunity the family has to talk together exchange bits of new make play with everybody eat properly so meal goes better and everybody has more fun but it's more when we relax and enjoy wherever you go you want to put your best foot forward here let's try another trick that's a change that to a table in a restaurant you're taking a girl out to dinner to make a good impression you must know what to do  be the girl when you sit down to order your meal of course a girl wants to know these things too in order to show herself or her  there you must know how to eat your meal and the only way to have good table manners when you want them is to practice them regularly at home get in the habit of eating properly so it just comes naturally or you see what i mean about putting your best foot forward table manners are important because people judge many things about you just by the way you eat all right maybe so but it's it's also half located  look there's nobody here let's try it out what do you mean come on the side that's not provided sounds good if we know what to do i think we want to go well look sharp now there there is a place that improper arranged your looks are right but what am i supposed to do there the question well what would you do if you sat down to dinner and found three four and i said i'd probably end up with one left over and wonder what i did wrong not if you remember one simple rule always used to wear from the outside in so starting from the outside use this for you salad this is for your main course and this is why they're one must be for the dessert you see it's easy but there's something funny here dozens of butter knife along here well the book for the their plate and speaking of the book it wouldn't hurt you to use one sometime and check up on any point that you're not sure of here we have some books and cool things will be easier if you'll remember that in eating there are three kinds of food finger food water food and food now opinion dry food bread is one of them are finger full but when you have something  don't put under your for any more than one mouthful of food only yet after you face food on your four if you decide to toss made down until you're ready to eat it looks better and this is the way to park  wrong that's not only the wrong way it's the hard way here try to put the ends of both the handle in the palms of your hands like that all the meat with your fork and cut the meat don't tear it apart say this is there you see good table manners are just common there right yet that's the way most people in america handle their knife and fork we don't have to worry with the european method but now after you've finished eating i have you place your knife and fork this way to show that you have finished but what about full of food oh yeah right how do you manage talked about all know what you already know a great deal and you can learn still more by watching mother dad another people who have good manners but the main thing is the main thing is is to practice at home so the table manners will come naturally and i won't are that's right shout we are going to the party you can't see me any longer but remember i'm the fellow you're going to be alive interested in seeing that you always make a good impression and also remember you're here not to see how much of that you're going to do but you have a good time well our boy is doing all right don't you think so don't you think you can do the same