just using over who should drive to try to cause certainly spoils f lay it isn't any fun and besides it's dangerous someone is likely to be hurt and just think all this time they could be having fun on the yes it's better to settle our disagreements quickly and fairly and so at the office to help settle this one but each wants to we call this way of settling a dispute a compromise that's when neither has his own way entirely they both given a little and share the bike and here's another way to compromise take turns driving the bike often as we play all work together we have to compromise to settle some of our just deal but did you know that there are different kinds of disputes and different ways to settle them let's watch for them as we go along to school on the school grounds and jerry rushed off to play ball and alice goes to play jump rope with the others she doesn't try to break up the game she shares and wait her places with jerry in the field so bill wants to use jerry's new glove but generally won't let  him settle this dispute well the glove belongs to jerry so he can share as or not as he like since jerry's glove is just new we can't blame gerry now later when the glove is of there are rules about common property we share such as the ball and bat and rules about personal property such as jerry's glove there are rules for playing games and many other kinds of rules if we know and obey the rules many just can be settled quickly i'm fairly rules will help prevent disputes and when it's time to go into school rules about which doors to use and which way to go inside rules are planned to help us prevent problems and dispute that's another kind of dispute but can be settled in another way like this desk and harold has a new notebook just like these facts are all that are needed to settle the dispute so let's remember to find the facts sometimes we have to hunt for the fact where do you think you could we could look it up in the dictionary gerry and betty don't need to argue they can easily find out who is right and you can settle the dispute help decide what kinds of equipment to buy and what six euros to make for the playground now we move to someone to represent our class on that committee i think because he can play should we choose our representatives how should we think how can that dispute be settled well we know some different ways of settling disputes but one of them help here  compromise help settle some dispute with each person gives in a little bit and then both going to have part of what they wanted but how would a compromise help choose between eddie and gerry they can't both be on the committee and can take turns you know that won't help obey the rules well some disputes can be settled this way but the only rule to follow when choosing a representative is to choose the best person for the job who is best hope and we decide what about finding the facts by often a good way to settle this field but we need more than the facts here idea that a vote count the votes in the election to find the opinion of the class often we need to find opinions to settle our dispute sometimes you'll want the opinion of some expert or a judge sometimes you'll want to take a vote to get the opinion of the whole group finding opinions is the way we settle many important questions that's the way we'll settle this question now let's see fifteen votes do you win so he's elected to be on the playground committee and look this dispute was settled fairly and so jerry and eddie are still good friends just as they always were it's worthwhile to know many ways to set this