talk to you and why don't we wind up them warning with the other half of nikki and amy on the front page of the post should be you know looking very much in love and smiling and in her signature if it works just keep doing with it i mean today's a hot day and this week could change indiana history right now and you guys are fighting it right there are people not i don't know how much people that want to share their story and we're just one of time so we're doing what we can you know locally given that you know we're just like any other family with young children you know trying to make it so you know calling you guys contacting news papers that's what we're doing on our end to see if there's any way we can influence people and let them get to know us as a couple and see we're no different and we had a caller saying that the common denominator among societies or empires that fall is that gays are accepted yeah i don't know if you say that other than i don't know where you're getting that information from because nick you talked about the seventeen states that have passed marriage equality like not there's no difference if anything i am magine that there's more you know even though i don't believe that this should be the main argument and people are making that part of the argument and you know i understand and agree that it's very important for business because i know that we live in a capitalist country but i imagine honestly that those days that have you know by default probably are bringing in more money because more people are getting ridiculous amounts of money on weddings and it's for people that are getting married and all of those kinds of things so i imagine if anything it ends bringing in more business just from that perspective alone but i just don't understand the argument i mean mickey and i it seems like we're like the only think sex couple in northwest indiana because we're the only one to call and i wish more people would call  n because we have you know friends and family all over all over the country that are in states where marriage equality has passed and they have fought for and they've been on the front lines and you know make better especially when they start to see that nothing if anything will become a little more open and a little more accepting and that's what we need and you know i know i'm just calling about kumbaya but you know from my experience it's really true to i guess take out the second sentence of this amendment which some read as being prohibiting any benefits being extended but the other as a way that he's looking at it as he says i'm just consider simply letting h r three die under its own lumbering bron a saurus like wait and he says the decision comes down to whether any house republicans are brave enough to offer their own changes in public really crossed house speaker brian bottom of course bob and pence both want this done and done quickly what do you what do you hope happens today and tomorrow amy people stand up i know that you know i mean i've been marred years and years ago when i was afraid to come out because i was afraid that you know my parents might lose friends or my parents you know had those same fear what would that what would other people think you know and for a while you know i listen to them because i respected my response and i love my fans i imagine there's some kind of fun like that down there as well where people are you know where there are lions out there you know i think sometimes you know if you think about your own families or third alliance will never want to break up this family alliances and usually it's something happens in a family and you know whether it's a divorce or an illness or you know an issue like you know me coming out in my own family and finally i stood my ground and here we are you know ten years later fifteen years later from when i first saw her with my parents making i were together and we are stronger than ever you know and there was a bumpy road and i think that you know i mean there's a lot of sayings like you know that sometimes you need to overcome obstacles to you know to become stronger and i really truly believe that and you know like you know i would invite them in our home i mean for naps that wouldn't even do justice but you know i think about my daughter who the other day fell and we were thinking freezing frigid icy conditions are saying don't get on the road and we were thinking where we can take her to the hospital should we go to community right down the street who doesn't recognize us as a family or should we make the trek twenty miles to the university of chicago emergency room in conditions like tell us on the road until our family and other people on the road and that should not be something that we have to decide i mean that chemo and they start going over you know what the what the side effects are what she needs to look out for in the next week a new doctor came in you know my i was waiting to hear what he had to say because we know that if something goes wrong with me or not feel comfortable going our local hospital or new vienna we will make that trek up to the university of chicago because they value and recognize our marriage down here they don't and you know that is just one of many issues on the business issue is an issue but i mean our kids like they are just the most amazing kids i've ever met i know people that's what happened so for those that are on the fence like that would be my message to them that you know if you had to go with your gut i mean that's what they say like oh you know about you know your guiding going with your gut like i wish that people would go with that guy and they will see i found the lyin week here in indiana and we'll keep tabs on amy amy thanks for calling in and you know i you know it was good to talk to nikki and hear that you know she's moving along with the treatments and you know