one year the united states there are about half a million divorces and about a million men and women look for lifelong happiness with each other that meant that they're not it means many thousands of children who need the perhaps that means that the basic reasons for these divorces proceed of the marriages why did this johnny couple wind up in court why did it have to happen this way for them whose fault was it homemaking i look after the books and records tell male supremacy now professor it doesn't go with your salary wouldn't it be nice if we could just wander up a road like this with never a care oh yes darling the sunday we've got to stop and think things out sure but i'm off a longer right now well come on typewriter i never run away from you not really i sometimes you do i think i've caught the way you talk or feel but when i try to put the words on paper they don't ring true i realize that i don't know you well enough to recreate you you will  have all the faith in the world in you why did you have a good time wonderful have got to change at first i thought it was only a summer romance ken would soon be going back to his regular teaching job in the east but i was wrong i like him all right but i feel more comfortable with joe we know the same step like the same books he could have gotten gauged to so many nice boys in town that used to shower  attention put him on a pedestal i guess they were too easy to get sometimes i think he just wants to get away from home but that's when they all weekend for something beyond her reach she has to know as much or more than anybody else no wonder they gave her a job in the dean's office when she graduated she was a star in her own little world she could breathe life into the dallas routine she made things go the way she wanted them to the girl who loved her she was owed turning in help because i was sure she wouldn't give it up for anything in the world and she seemed to be made for a career jump around so i look a mess you never looked better and i to show you some of can friends are coming in from the today i'm going to be proud don't you think we make a charming c intellectuals you mean no no you're imagining that when you'll get used to them it'll take time to get elevated to her level is that what you mean i can now can you sit there and he says a period on account of course you do any but you can't expect me to give up randi they're my kind of people i'd hope that we'd be like oh i don't want to be like her but what's the matter was fine and a dog and i think you better take me home if that's what you want sure look darling hasn't this gone a little too far it certainly has but you can't expect me to be on a different from what i am don't you expect to change even a little after all i'm giving up everything in the world for you but what if i don't right can you don't seem to realise yourself how good you are no wonder peter but i've never had anything published you're being unfair why because i want you to be famous again you don't realize how exciting a writer's life can be there's no greatest thrill in the it and i love you but i'm not going to let you change you're not going to change me either i've got to feel free to be myself even after we're married well that goes for me too he was in one of those moods again and late as you but he was very popular and nobody minded of course he liked to hold his class outdoors when the weather was nice he called it folk that one thirty one was more than that really much more it read a lot and traveled widely and with a brilliant lecture but he was too easy going there was no discipline at all he was so informal and s impersonal i didn't think he could belong to anyone  used to invite me up to his room once in a while i could never figure his game enjoy things much more than he enjoyed making something of themselves he liked talk about the folklore of the country people the dogs singers and the musical instruments he took pleasure in knew their use and ideas and especially he liked the feeling of the university world around him in never was called on to make any practical decision he could go on thinking and dreaming and doing is deeply early one morning we've got a chance to be happy let's not throw it away are you sure i don't want to be sure of anything except that you love me but i  today are you going to feel nice again you'll see that you're being an angel about everything and will never disagree about anything you know never and you will forget my birthday june twenty second and from it you won't take me good looking healthy clever a beautiful bride she thinks she's in love with can intelligent gifted and certainly old enough to get married to noise on mind it thinks he's in love with sophisticated and understand his complexities at the same time she likes his romantic moodiness but she wants him to be a steady provider to be like so maternal brown days but is not prepared to give up his freedom to really she likes the idea of going to live with him in a new community but she wants to be able or to be like her own neighbors she likes almost everything she knows about him but lots of what she knows is in her own the nation is willing to promise the world but is probably on able to give even himself what a lovely picture this bride and groom make they might have found each other but instead they have renamed strangers ages a dream in the other's mind they don't want to accept each other as they really are they would rather change each other to satisfy their own ambitions