to daring to dream a show of hope inspiration and practical advice for living the life of your dreams i'm susie spidey and in my coaching practice i find that more and more people are searching for a deeper meaning in life they're asking questions like who am i and what am i meant to do in this life many people have achieved success in their careers in business but still feel unfulfilled well  going to be talking with an international spiritual teacher who knew at the very young age her purpose in life but she struggled with understanding how to fulfill that purpose she has dedicated her life to service and the spiritual awakening of humanity so stay tuned so you too can receive some inspiration and light moment on your life's purpose and begin to live the life that you were meant to live our guest today is mira by day the international spiritual teacher author and founder of the nearby davey foundation committed to transforming world consciousness mira by travels throughout the s and south africa offering spiritual teachings workshops guided meditation and a transmission of divine light known as dar shine mira by welcome thank inspiration to me and really searching and going deeper to to find my true purpose so mirrored by i'd love for you to share with our audience before we get into the work that you're doing now i'd love for you to share a little bit about your background in your own awakening to your purpose and why sure i'd be happy to do so says he i was sharing with you a little bit earlier that i had spent a year in silence when i was about eighteen years old learning training to listen only to the inner voice the still small voice within and to shut out the voices of the ego the mind and the personality and other people's judgments and opinions and learning to follow only what i was guided to do and that actually led me to india and in one thousand nine hundred two in india i lay down on a rock and i said i devote my life to you divine light and please i want to become one with you i want to see you experience you and have you live through me live my life through me and i surrender my life to you and at that point i guess my personality and my individuality merged into the divine consciousness and my life became the divine life and it's been in the most magical adventure that has taken me to teaching people all over the world spirituality and doing healing work with people to help them to awaken to their soul to their inner lights to their life purpose to their gifts and to heal their body mind and spirit and it's been an incredible journey so so backing up just a bit so my  understanding from from hearing other stories and hearing you talk about your story you you knew who are you had an awakening as a young child and had a sense of your purpose yes when i was about three years old i was fully conscious of my purpose and i think i was born knowing my purpose and i was waiting even at about seven years old i wanted to start teaching and i really felt the adults around me wouldn't listen so i felt a little bit shut down and alienated from the world because i wasn't being respected as a teacher at seven years old so i had to wait i remember waiting and wishing my life would hurry up and grow up so i could move and i began teaching at twenty two so you struggled during your growing years during your teams of trying to fit in tremendously so i was a very normal teenager trying to fit in trying to be like everybody else that i had to shut a lot of my gifts down to be acceptable and part of the you know peer group sure and then they they started bursting right out of me gifts from the time that i went to college they just strike fourth and and i had to follow in honor the gifts because they were stronger than anything else and so what and how do you to take those steps to to release and allow the divine to really flow through you moving through the darkness and into the light went into a very deep depression when i realized that i was that out all my energy was on the outer world and trying to be like everybody else and fit in and then i recognize that there was such a deep longing inside of me to connect to this higher power to connect to this infinite source of love to connect to the center of voice and to connect to this this reality that lived underneath everything else and once i discovered that i wasn't really sure what it was but what gave me the permission to do it was that i was so tired of suffering and being in the separation and being in the in the in the negativity that an individual finds oneself when we cut off or we that's a great question susie primarily every single human being comes here to learn to love themselves that's our primary purpose secondary purpose is what you were born to do what is your dharma what is your birthright what is your duty what is your soul individually and uniquely sculpted and caused to be in this world in this life and every single soul has in coded within its knowledge its purpose and the purpose is known when we come into contact with who we truly are and the only way we can come into contact with who we truly are is to stop looking outside of ourselves and to begin to move with to find that which is already there the knowledge of our purpose it's not hard to find it's just hard to retrain ourselves to go from looking for it on the outside through material possessions on the to finding it from the inside because it's so deeply connected to our happiness and all fulfillment why do so many people walk that access because i myself have searched for many years for my purpose and i traveled to india and around the world and sought the answer outside and it wasn't until all i started to go inside that i understood that i have all the answers but i feel this many people block that access so why do we block our access to that divine information to know what our purpose really is it's not that we consciously block our access it's the way that it's set up in this third dimension there is something cold amnesia or delusion or ego and the ego in nature is like a buffer it's like a rubber suits  of the whole purpose of life from a spiritual perspective which is to awaken to who we are and so how can we awaken to who we are if we're born as who we are we're born as who we are but the minute we come into the conditioned mind which is conditioned by our family which is conditioned by our schools it's conditioned by a governments our culture our friends around us we start to shut down and move into the collective consciousness and we lose touch with who we really are and our divine imprint but when we start to remove the veils of delusion the veils of ego the veils of conditioning then we automatically move into the of the soul and then the soul is imprinted with its purpose it knows why it's come it knows what it has to do then stands the cause of everything it's only the mind and the ego that don't perceive the cause and most of humanity is trapped in the mind and th ego so we have to go beyond the personality beyond the ego and merge into the divine essence of the soul the life of the soul to really find out who we are and with that is born the awakening of our soul and our souls purpose which is to realize that it's divine to realize that it is love to love itself to give love to all life to give love to all beings to be of service to help to help others to wake up so it's a beautiful it's a beautiful thing when you realize that from a spiritual perspective and everyone has their part to play and everyone has come to do it in their own unique way and on a third dimensional level everybody has a specific gift a specific talent if they would utilize that gift and that talent then they bring their piece to the puzzle or to the tapestry making a beautiful puzzle or a beautiful tapestry woven by many threads of many colors and no one can imitate anybody else's purpose everyone has their own unique one waiting for them to discover it so from from sort of a humanity perspective we all have a similar mission or purpose  finding the divine within knowing love finding our way back to life understanding that the divine god is love but each of us has an individual purpose yes that's kind of been encoded it's been a coded into us and we already know what it is when we're born we come with it and if we don't live it and we don't explore it and we don't let it happen in the slide then when we leave this world it's like we create our own hell we're unhappy and miserable so to find our purpose is heaven we're who we are we're being our birthright to expressing our essence were expressing the purpose for which we've come and that makes life so fulfilling and so rewarding and then our life is beautiful and wonderful and magical and we enjoy every minute of it and that's our purpose is to enjoy it it's right is to enjoy the journey and to enjoy the journey of life are not supposed to be suffering the suffering and the struggling only happens when we're separated from our purpose and we're separated from our reason to be we're separated from our meaning we're separated from who we are truly or only and that's that's what creates the suffering so near by does our purpose change over time no our purpose doesn't change over time we're born with it we're born with our purpose and it's on a soul level and it's implanted ingrained within us you could say it's within the d n a a because it's activated within the soul's light within the hot or the seat of the soul which resides in the heart of the heart chakra and that purpose which is ingrained in us is brought into being when we discover who we are and that can only come when we discover who we are while we're busy being who were not we can go through multiple lives in one life we can have many different ranges of personalities experiences countries we live in people we're in relationship with and so forth and that doesn't necessarily collide with our purpose as such it can be a part of our outer purpose but are real in the purpose there is only one right and when that's born it may only  occur for the latter period of someone's life it may occur for their entire life sometimes people find it in childhood and live it their entire life and sometimes people leave this world and they never lived it and that's you know that's hopefully not what happens we don't want to waste that gift yes thank you you're welcome that was a good question so once once we are able to understand that we all have access to our purpose it's within and it still seems to be such a struggle for many people so what are some tools that people can use what can people do to begin to allow the information to emerge and begin to tap then to that inner knowing the first thing that we need to do is we need to become aware that our listening has to be chewing it inside to the inner voice we need to learn to listen to our intuition that our knowing our guidance second of all we need to become aware that there are spiritual practices forgiveness prayers mantras meditation breath work spiritual exercises like yoga what you gong that find chuen us to the language of the soul and to the knowledge of our spirit and that get us prepared to be in communion with that so that we can become more and more  selves naturally we have to lose the conditioning that we have given ourselves or that we have been born into the judgments we have to stop judging ourselves the criticism stop criticizing ourself turning o thoughts from negative to positive turning our words from negative to positive turning our actions from negative actions to life supporting life giving loving actions that are healthy choices for ourselves and healthy signs we notice that all of life is the teacher and we watch the signs that life brings us we decipher the science because we all are one hundred percent telepathic sizzix we just block it right we're  intuitive we're all knowing where ready have our purpose ingrained within us as soon as we start to make an ethic towards it it automatically takes ten steps towards us and reveals itself to us our soul our divine nature it's wanting for us to come home it's so interesting because our natural state is to be in and to express and to show love and be positive and be happy and joyful right yes but we often feel that that is such a struggle it's so difficult for some people to let go of the negative thinking to let go of the judgments why why is that so difficult because the negative thinking and the judgments of voices inside of our heads and we take that to be real instead of realizing that they're false they're just a radio's on and it's noisy and you don't want to hear it you turn it  off you don't you're not forced to listen to it you're not powerless over a radio station you just turn the volume down or you click off so in the same way you click off your negative thoughts and your negative judgments or your fear and you don't let your fear overpower you you just realize it's a station it's a show and you can tune it out to nip down turn it off and fill fill yourself with loving positive thoughts immediately as soon as it  you don't let it overpower you you choose the positive action and you do what you chose to do anywhere not letting the fear slow you down or stop you at all if we we we live fear control less so why do we choose to be so weak that's the human nature we have so much power with an ass we have infinite invincible power within us let's choose that instead it's make different healthy choices because ultimately we're responsible we're one hundred percent responsible for our lives right and so many people believe that they're weak because that's who they were born to be they were born to be they were were you know dealt a certain hand in life and that's their lot in life and that's what they're here to fill now isn't that just a belief system exactly and a belief system is something that is easy to change the mind is a computer programmed it's a hard drive it gets programmed with various programs that we've picked up from other people right and we believe them we've made them our truth and our reality and we live by them when we can choose not to do that we can choose to say this is an old program and i'm going to upgrade it with a new healthy program and we recondition the mind that's part of spiritual practice is to be aware of everything you think everything you say and everything you do and to reprogram it with healthy more conscious more positive more healthy and hansei more life giving choices that's what it means to be awake conscious and on a spiritual path if we want to choose to be asleep if you want to choose to suffer if you want to choose to be in negativity then that's ok but we need to be aware that that's a choice we've made ultimately at some level maybe not consciously but unconsciously and when we're given different choices we go oh yeah i don't even think about that that's a great idea i'd love to make a different choice  education spiritual education and spiritual awareness like your show is a healthy part of awakening people's consciousness well one thing that i like to tell my clients is that once you start listening to th and you start trusting your gut little voice inside your head it since ation you have in your body this is what you're supposed to do it's like the universe dropping breadcrumbs yes and every step you take another breadcrumb will fall yes the more your trust to the more the voice grows and gets louder the less you trust it in the more you doubt it the voice gets quieter and softer the eventually goes away and buries itself because the voice is responsive to you with the you allow it a way that you disallow it so if you keep trusting and you keep holding the quality of faith as a priority in your spiritual life living by faith living by trust trusting your knowing trusting your gut trusting your intuition following your feelings following your heart live in your heart lead you and guide you not your head not your mind not your thoughts but your hot and your feelings and your intuition and your in a voice things will go right things will go beautifully and more and more synchronicities will come into your life more and more magical things that you wouldn't have even for possible because life has infinite possibilities and we get to have anything we want  long as we realize that the universe is a gigantic restaurant and what you order is what you get when you order with the waiter that's what you get to be clear about what you ask for don't give a mixed message that's so important  at's such great advice for everyone that we've got to be really clear about our thoughts and be really clear about what we want in life rather than being guided by what we think others expect of us yes or what others want for us  when we're being who we really are we're in touch with our in a feeling we're to in touch with what we want what we don't want what we need what we don't need what's right for us what's not right for us and we have to find that initially we need somebody else to tell us all of those things because we've lost the ability within our self that when we rediscover our connection to our feelings and our connection to our true self which is who we are then automatically life changes and we're not influenced by others expectations or needs or desires we're empathic or compassionate but we do what's right for us and that makes us healthiest and ultimately the choices we make for ourself are always going to be the choices that other people would have made for us because it's every human being wants their daughter their spouse that their parent to be happy nobody wants someone to make a choice that's going to make the man happy it's only the negativity that may think that it's right but not in the not in the work that you do and how people may might be able to to have contact with you yes so i come to boston twice a year and fall and spring and the rest of the year i'm traveling around mainly in california south carolina and the hawaiian islands also to other countries internationally and all of those schedules are available on my website which is nearby davey dot org and the programs that i offer  transmission's of the divine light and songs which are teachings and meditation group some talks with spiritual teachings as well as group peelings and individual healings which are specifically done through prayer and the transmission of the divine life and the power of forgiveness and that we're working with individuals and groups is basically to heal the physical body of all or any pain or illness and to relieve any kind of emotional or mental suffering or pain in the mind or in the emotions and to bring people back to a quality of lightness of enlightenment of awakening of perfect health of being pain free of finding th purpose of learning spiritual practices and spiritual tools like the forgiveness prayers the munchers guided meditation silent meditations breath work practices and so forth and so on and self awareness s reflection changing patterns of thoughts reprogramming the mind learning to listen to the feelings cleansing the emotional and mental and spiritual bodies through spiritual purification practices and a whole range of things through retreats and workshops and events that people can attend at any point publicly or through a private session and anyone is able to come in around to be able to receive help on any level with whatever they need to work with individually and we've had huge results with people releasing lifelong pain and illness just i've seen i've literally with this thousands of miracles through this work and through the gift of the divine grace and the divine light to help transform people's lives it is definitely the highest vibration and frequency of divine love and the divine light it will help to it will really help people when they need the help so can you tell us just a little bit darshan the transition yaz divine light yeah the transmission of the divine light is it's the it's the stream of god's power and grace that moves into the individual's through a concentrated lights that is transmitted into each person through the the point of the third eye into the spine and that's what happens in the darshan in the group transmission's the light is is specifically used to cleanse and purify the physical emotional mental bodies and then it's used to fill everybody with the divine light and then helps people to manifest their projects and their goals to heal their relationships and to fulfill their life's purpose so you really serve as a conduit i am a conduit of the divine life yes i surrendered my life to be used by the divine light and the divine will to help humanity in in whatever way that is needed yass so i have devoted my life back in one thousand nine hundred two and have traveled all over the world helping groups of people in many countries although now i am based in  and have been living in california for seven years and in the united states for eleven i am really always going to go where i'm cold by the people that need the help and of course when i'm not traveling we're working through prayer on world peace and on groups around the world can you tell us just a bit about your foundation and the work you're doing my foundation is dedicated specifically to raising well consciousness in the collective consciousness of humanity through the transmission of the divine light through spreading the forgiveness prayers through activating people's awakening spiritual realisation or awakening activating the inner light of the soul and through healing  healing of humanity and through bringing humanity back home to the light where they belong yeah so that's the dedication and it does it happens primarily through the group programs and also we have some humanitarian efforts where we work with aids relief work an orphanage is in south africa as well as consciousness based education schools in south africa and in africa to help bring meditation to people and bring v knowledge to people as well as bringing consciousness raising techniques like breath work meditation and prayer to people on a on a mass scale yes yes well we thank you wonderful work you do thank you for your  thank you so much for today it was wonderful i enjoyed it thank you for your wisdom thank you and i hope that the light blesses and benefits all of the viewers and listeners through the show today t