although they both may be correct he may not seem so wonderful for him nor he so grand for her to an outsider who's considering them as people not as dreams for it's hard to see clearly through a haze of emotion hard to accept the fact that a person will not change just because you love him and want him to change different kinds of people can find happiness together but only when they have the courage to look at each other honestly and can really accept the personality personality is fashioned in part by the environment in which you develop by temperament by physique and by intelligence such things determine how a person will act what he wants and what he doesn't want what he's afraid of and what makes them happy and people constantly give us clues to their personality moments of tension can often provide insight into the unchangeable core of a personality love watching my cattle the situation may tell us something about well no cars i guess that means you fellows are going to have to take a lot jim i think we passed the station about two miles back why don't you check again john why don't you check across the hill there might be something there and i'll wait here with a car and we'll all meet here on the situation seems to be well in hand mike is a cool head and the ability to give clear simple orders he knows how to save themselves might we say and his friends don't seem to mind the executive management in fact it gives them a feeling of security mike knows what he's doing and i think he's that kind of a person isn't home where it's not said maggots just so i don't like blind couldn't i drive over in the car and i a job i've got a couple of pretty girls here i want to go to the game sure this girl seems to like max way of doing things it's strong decisive but many girls would feel pushed around by such treatment my money my guess is going to be boss while he's at the office or at home they don't like bosses he's the kind of person to avoid your can't have his strength without the rest of loan we've seen or been here before you know it's a girl this time she doesn't seem to like the situation at all follows like the challenge of pleasing people who seem hard to please girls like irene usually find didn't try to flee george's perseverance most of us would have given up a long time ago but then we have the advantage of not being in l and he doesn't mind having to cope with irene's personality she's a good girl for him after all it takes all kinds running out of gas might be a moment of tension to some of  others it could be a moment of torture now why couldn't i have thought of that might you see all you got to do is to take it easy and everything comes out all right poor tom but how does a girl react to such helplessness if he's one kind of girl maternal feelings maybe touch tom always means so well but if she's another kind of girl maybe we should take a bus up town and get a bite to eat there view of board with the plan i knew i should have taken into the mov well back here and all stand again will be a boy or a girl when i was getting pretty obvious that we can get a reaction according to the next week or indeed might as well do it right perfect picture only in the stress but it's a lady who knows something about human nature and it doesn't think worrying is fun remember this started out as a moment of tension is sometimes why fellows like bill don't leave them alone you're so much nicer than most girls i know for instance the women just can't take the truth but isn't affected women just don't as practical as men  very respectable tension is a feeling there are different ways of reacting to it some people get anxious or get frightened or start fighting while still others like gerald here at the wheel but joe is a man of action too and pretty tense at this point talkative i guess we might as well go where we want to do it will be nice and quiet in the mountains but then we haven't made any reservations then it might be a little crowded with this kind of weather fishing will find a room glad you decided to go fishing there i'll get a long take me along all right there general won that argument without ever entering the debate or getting angry or even seriously worrying about his fishing plans he's that kind of a man some of these couples are going to find happiness together not perfection but a relatively happy life those of the couples who knows something about each other now and know themselves fairly well it's not necessary to find a person exactly like yourself but it is important to accept the other person as he or she really is as he or she looks to the outside world by the time people are ready for marriage they grow now have a definite personality definite values definite ways of behaving they're not likely to change just because someone else wants to reform them that's the way they are remember it takes all  and you have the right to choose among them when you marry you must live with a person not