really proud of as a parent personally you know i was very active going to chinese school with taekwondo with drum and dance group with his dancing and that's a lot for four year old so even though we're really active i'm really busy and then we do our own  chosen work i'm proud that we still are in a really strong family unit and when we might be traveling in the car that we talk about it for my things like what did you do today and what was your most favorite things tell me something that you learned from the school and we want to know what what he's learning in school and and if we can help him in any way we want to support that he wanted to do some taekwondo also we got him in taekwondo he really enjoys that so well when i see him showing interest in this particular subject then i do what i can to make sure that he learning and being active in his education and just instilling in him now when he's little that he's going to go to harvard you know that going to college is not only option he's just making sure that happens just the fact that he knows that he has two parents that love him and care for him and  nighter chinese and so we'll just keep teaching him different things says as they can form for him and i think for us education doesn't mean just give you know being in a classroom but it's in every part of  things that we do it's taking a walk in nature talking about the things that we see and talking about people so it's on to me on a classroom parenting has a dramatic impact on the child's education parents are key you know contributing to the education developing the habits of the study  your family and conversations that happen with kids so i think the more enthusiastic and interested we are in what they're doing at school it helps them be more interested i'm from mexico city so i speak spanish and languages harbor important to me but for me for the kids he's not you have to learn the language but it's more if you learnt a lot which you cannot make so much more friends so it's also putting it in context for them what it means what that learning is going to do to them and like my least i i mean i love what are all you know i'm excited to learn and i'm excited to see the kids learning to you think the school plays an enormous hall in our lives as parents i mean for one thing our kids for their waking hours are there most of their waking hours on the fiscal year so you know you're in trusting your child to the school and so i think you know it has to be a partnership and a collaborative effort in raising kids together all three of our kids are interested and if a passion we don't get complaints in the morning they're excited to go they're always there something all the time they're really good at keeping momentum moving and keeping goals and things that they're reaching for my kids are the most important thing in my life i mean that's what matters to me in life most my kids saw and they spend half of the day in the school so it is six really extremely important and how they say when when your kids are happy you're so we watch where they're interested in and then try to support that area of interest we encouraged me encourage them to explore and to try new things we're trying to leverage what they're really doing well and what what drives them to so i think we're trying to be the liber about it i think the other piece too is about they joy of learning and you know the importance of building good habits of the in a good job but without putting the pressure of trying to be perfect i think all of us have different skills and just trying to create that space for them to to say you know i mean if you enjoy art that's great if you don't enjoy you do the best that you can do a great job but if your passion is hard it is ok you have to follow your passion and something that we do is tell them you know hey by the way you know in these other contrary they look at it this way so we try to all soul allow them to see that there's more