we have no support system in in in the new one it was currently resides she twenty five years old she has a degree from community college she wants to go back to school end to do all that stuff to work full time or go part time to school on with the daycare responsibilities and all that type stuff that is about him doing pursuing those goals which all those things as a single parent it's impossible you do need a network of those family and people to help you out in this particular in that particular situation and innovations that we have with the internet facebook and all that type of stuff we have soldiers in iraq and iran that are watching the birth of their babies home the internet so i think as a child just over the innovator technological communication mcdonalds job close dollar an hour job with a few hundred dollars and spend two hundred dollars a day care it's a walk so i don't think she really attempted while this was going on to do that she did a good record look into some schools that type of this some thought to increase conscientious deliberation he decided against my client on whom i'm submitting that while i may be thoughtful he missed the boat as far as the family connections and the school system the network and all that type of different in terms of which i perfected become the most important in this case the factors that are more support and might not a number one is a reasonable and realistic visitation schedule that can be created i evidence all support the fact that there is no reasonable visitation schedule that can be put in a place in this case to allow the removal in fact mr griffith i cross examination emitted that the twelve hour roughly if if any case is going to be removed i mean isn't isn't that going to be a difficult proposition in terms of visitation not going to be the same as every other weekend and maybe a night during the week which is not possible it obviously in most rural cases if not all in all it's up to the few that have been to wisconsin indiana missouri would not have the same visitation schedule that doesn't get by the fact that is this reasonable is it realistic and more it's and the psychological theory that children especially in these five if they don't see they don't feel regularly they can't associate that they're scared there without the proper person being present in that the exact problem in a case like this the child who's at quite a young is ella and we look at the best interests and is there a visitation schedule that's reasonable and realist realistic in a reasonable to proffer in to get to the best interest of the child because the ability to have that parent child relationship is almost completely disintegrated by the move and i think it's also important and it was under go removal situation when you're really in play in these cases that have been reported we have situations where the not removing parent can either go see the child when they're out of state or the child's going to be coming back once a month for these extended  psychologically possible it's terms of that factor the next aspect that i believe is most important terms of the analysis by judge robert and under the manifest we get the standard is the general quality of life and  day care until such time as ms griffith obtains a point so it's not as if she's going to spend every single penny that she receives and come back on day care that's going to be determined by the court upon her actually obtaining that  it also ignores the fact that under her theory of going back to school and work under this evidence she be spending at least thirty seven hours not including travel time per week away from al so now who is raising  that were made without objection that i would say the district of columbia the state of mississippi has the worst health care system outside the district of columbia mississippi is the worst educational system this is true in the region that she lives a professional person she was a schoolteacher she had decided no life practically all of her life you know a reason she wanted to move to north carolina was because she wanted to get married but she had had a real roots in illinois she had a profession in illinois and