certificate with the circuit court that he's now completed the parent class so now he's allowed visitation however she's already removed children two months prior done it's the state of georgia so really and while i was sitting in tough please the court good morning your honor if you come back i'd like to start talking about the scene or reviewing these types of cases which are not as you're very well aware of the trial court's determination of what's in the best interests of minor children should not be and this case from what i've read of the other cases it's quite difference how emerge right to try to courts to not view the benefits children may experience as result of the move as direct or indirect if only direct benefits that children when deciding the improvement in the quality of life for the children the first accurate factor looks at the likelihood of the proposed move in here and seeing the general quality of life for both the custodial parents and the children the benefits to back as an individual to baptism mother of two children into her two children are clear that can physically distance herself from very frankly terrorized her for years that is terrified of barry and the again after his own children joined him and his hopes that their mother got hit by a truck indicted for painful death and brought into current eighteen sabbats hearts three orders of protection did not stop barry to misdemeanor convictions for violations of bor protection did not stop period the threat of a felony conviction did not stop barry being locked up in jail for six months and being put on house arrest to put him on top but after he was released he did it referenced in a phone call the movie the grudge to one of the him you think i'm crazy you might be right but i'm smart which makes me a dangerous kind of crazy and i agree with that very much of this message because he didn't just hear and that he basically one of paul's campaign to terrorize anyone who helped spat out claims that it was nothing more than situational depression and he was drinking a little too much for a while barry's of the doctor who diagnosed him with borderline personality disorder was wrong barry says he doesn't need any medication to manage his psychiatric problem institutionalisation a single one of his suicide attempts his diagnosis a person of borderline personality disorder nor any drugs he was previously prescribed he also admitted that he lied and told this to kind of friends he had no issues with alcohol and you just have a couple drinks a week the trash in her opinion you know it's the firies failure to recognize his shortcomings and his tunnel vision blaming everything on alcohol as well as his lack of candor to his psychiatry's is a concern and it machines that if the things very different not enough to make a reasonable person need to get away from him you need to cross state lines to get away from him to feel safe it's hard to imagine what barry would have to do in order to make a reasonable physical distance from him true as counselors mention very can go back to terrorizing her beyond phone in email by she sure feels a heck of a lot safer being states away and living in a house with her dad instead of living in and trying to alone with the two in his brief consequence the creepy case was supporting the energy of that domestic abuse isn't enough to support the greens you know removal petition but that case is different from this case because the court specifically points out there's no pattern of abuse and also the father in their case had not missed a single visitation which as i discussed in a moment is much much different than very bad function better as a mother to her children when she's away from bury that's the next thing that counts and sense doesn't exist that was struggling at work often calling in sick as his release from prison near she was emotionally falling apart that's what she testified to because she had an extremely challenging and draining job working with children with severe emotional and behavioral disorders which she felt certain she was about to lose a healthier happier back is a clear benefit to her children there's also financial benefits helps provide things that they need her stepmother also lives in the home and the children enjoy a close relationship with bill that bad dogs have relatives in illinois but none of these relatives can provide anything close to the financial and emotional support that bats father offers as well as when i discussed the safety of living in a house with other people as pets testified her father the back of her discipline provides trials here you can just help her out and give her a break so she can regroup and work on rebuilding her life with her children that testified that there's better employment opportunities in georgia because jobs which require an advanced degree in illinois only require a certificate in georgia which she obtain she did leave her job in illinois where she was earning forty thousand dollars but she qualified for jobs in georgia where she can earn sixty to seventy thousand dollars i want to mention the guthrie cakes which cites it's  similar to this case the father had a dismal employment record and he provided inadequate financial support to mother or mother had more realistic employment opportunities in the removeable state and mother's family would be able to provide her support in assistance if the move was the children's school in georgia offers additional curricular programs which back testified to such as including the seven habits of defective kids that testified that children participate in many extracurricular activities there and when they're scheduled at the children's school which makes it easier for them to be involved in more things that testify that dealing with her son's take disorder has greatly reduced since she moved to georgia and laney testified that lane told the geneal that her life would be ruined if she had to move back to illinois she told the jail her dad says inappropriate things about mom and she thinks they're her mom and she also told the jail she was tired barely talking about her mother and then surely members very pushing back during her keys leaning would benefit from you plans on running a book about that after this in the process of doing so the court looked at the motives of the custodial parents and of buried and found of both of those motives for inventing faith that brought the children gifts from very well he was in prison  kids was basically nonexistent until he discovered bad plans to take them out of state the fourth factor is a reasonable and realistic visitation schedule the court is visitation rights on may thirtieth two thousand and eight an order was entered granting him visitation five times a week on august twenty first two thousand a an order was entered granted new supervised visitation two times per week then from december twenty times we've heard some testimony that's because very didn't take a parenting class while that's very simple now very claims that any schedule the court would stat would be unreasonable that testifies not t have forty eight hours a month with the children she testified that their kids lawyer starts in august that they are in for one week break in one to eight grades so that's a total of six weeks during the school year where she wanted them to have visitation with barry she also testified that if barry could have overnights she'd be in agreement with some extended visitation over the summer so very visited with the children for six weeks during the school year and six weeks in the summer he would see the children for eighty four days a year which is eight times more than the ten days that you saw in two years prior to this whole removal and very can argue based on his horrible record i'm visiting with his children that the because it's restricted it was previously decided that he needed a supervisor he was on house arrest at the time also during the period home december twenty second two thousand times the court in the g a suggested that they were uncomfortable either proposing or ordering a visitation schedule with no further knowledge of barry's mental health condition and they wanted more records both the core and the g l suggested that we hold the remov with the children i think that just putting in this one words guy is not the one thing that tipped the court's decision over the action is reading removal hearing basically the same as the telephone except you have some video away from forty thousand dollars a year job she didn't qualify for employment this council referred to in the state of georgia there's no testimony of this in the record as you well to get a job with the job market was late with the availability of the fact that it's a new spouse of a potential new spouse lives out of state which is why the remo of punishment and rehabilitation are you to be afforded this should be afforded mr dorfman as well now given the restrictions there i have if this been the cause of the problem i don't know that there's actually testimony to record that that's been this specific problem being appointed since