premise: all the time and  yeah that's what i wish i had  but in our family i'm the one who who cooks and i i really enjoy it it's gotten a little more difficult with kids but i really do enjoy cooking and we um we have them over for dinner back and forth quite a lot and before i had my second child we sort of had a contest going where you know he would
hypothesis: I sometimes cook together with my children but they don't get as enthusiastic as I did.