premise: and i'm going to i'm going to be the primary caretaker and you know and then then take care of the children because we don't want to put them in day care and this and that i think most Americans would feel funny about that and maybe sort of feel like he isn't that success that he could have been
hypothesis: Since I want to take care of the children, I am going to become the primary caregiver, even though most Americans feel uncomfortable and say that you e isn't successful.