Context: Perhaps my new goal is to pick up and one with my life . I just do n\'t know yet . But I am about to lend out the book so here are some memorable quotes for me:"David was catnip and kryptonite to me . " - page 23"But did I have a responsibility to have a family ? Oh lord - responsibility .
Question: What must I do to have a family and am I required to do that ?
Option 0: I hate children and do n't like being near them .
Option 1: None of the above choices .
Option 2: I want to adopt kittens .
Option 3: I feel a sort of societal pressure to start a family .
Answer: 3