Question: what to say to a friend who is divorcing?
Answer: I'm so sorry to hear that. ...  Whatever you're feeling is perfectly okay*. ...  I've been there. ...  Have you got people you can talk to? ...  I can recommend a counsellor if you'd like one, although I know it's not for everyone. ...  Here, have some food. ...  How's work? ...  Have you watched this boxset?