Question: relationship with a man who has a child?
Answer: HE HAS KIDS. ...  THE KIDS HAVE A MOM. ...  A GREAT DEAL OF YOUR LIFE WILL BE OUTSIDE OF YOUR CONTROL. ...  BALANCE IS HARD. ...  YOU SHOULDN'T MEET THE KIDS UNTIL YOU KNOW YOU'RE NOT GOING ANYWHERE. ...  THE KIDS NEED TO BE READY TO MEET YOU TOO. ...  HAVE THOSE TOUGH CONVERSATIONS ABOUT THE FUTURE EARLY ON. ...  IT WILL BE HARDER THAN YOU THINK.