Better Sex in No Time: An Illustrated Guide for Busy Couples
Brand: Cleis Press
Categories: Books, Self-Help, Relationships



Dimensions: 7.5 x 0.6 x 9 inches
ISBN-13: 978-1627780711
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1627780718
Publisher: Cleis Press
Print length: 282 pages
Publication date: April 14, 2015
subtitle: Paperback – April 14, 2015
author: Visit Amazon's Josey Vogels Page search results Josey Vogels Jenny Block
review: Editorial Reviews Review "A wonderful, real-world book to help us rediscover intimacy and remind us that we do have time for fun, flirty adventures!"―Rose Caraway, author of The Sexy Librarian's Big Book of Erotica “Better Sex in No Time gives new meaning to the words 'hands-on and DIY.' If you want to make things hotter between the sheets, you’ll want to start with the heat that’s coming from between these pages. With a conversational, practical, how-to style and super sexy photos, Josey Vogels helps couples to remember that there’s always time for good sex."―Jenny Block, author of O Wow!: The Fifteen Orgasms Every Girl Should Have "This gem will help you bring back the heat. From Time to Play to Quick Tips, Better Sex in No Time: A Guide for Busy Couples is fun and cheeky and chock-full of good advice. A new book from Josey Vogels, the Canadian sexpert, especially for couples looking to bring back the pleasure and spice of their sex life. Buy it for the art. Stay for the good advice."―D. L. King, editor of Slave Girls and Under Her Thumb "Josey Vogels brings the simple and straightforward back to the good-sex-life-quest, reminding us that pleasure ought to be, well, pleasurable. You can't read Better Sex in No Time without coming away (so to speak) with at least a dozen 'Let's try this!' ideas."―Andrew Pyper, best-selling author of Lost Girls and The Guardians From the Back Cover A Fun and Sexy Guide for Long-Term Couples Packed with Tips, Tricks and Inspired Ideas How can every time feel like the first time? How do you create want and desire over and over again? One sexy thought, one kind gesture, one passionate kiss, one hot date at a time. Top sexpert Josey Vogels presents timed suggestions for flirting, sensual touch, intensified intercourse, and fulfilling long-held fantasies. You’ll never think of five minutes alone—or together—the same way again! With Josey’s hands-on guide to pleasure, we’ll all be having better sex in no time. What You'll Learn Inside: How to sexually connect to your partner in three minutes or less Massage techniques to make your partner melt How to create more romance by paying attention to the little things The importance of self-pleasure (and learning new private tricks!) Tantric practices for busy couples About the Author Josey Vogels is one of Canada's leading experts on sex and relationships, with two wildly popular blogs. She writes for The Huffington Post and Balance.My.Life.ca, and is regularly featured on radio and TV. She lives in Toronto.Jenny Block, author of Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage (2008 Lambda Literary Award) is a frequent contributor to a number of high-profile publications. Jenny holds both her B.A. and her M.A. in English from Virginia Commonwealth University and taught college composition for nearly ten years. She writes for a wide variety of publications and websites, including The Huffington Post, yourtango.com, American Way, Veranda, The Dallas Morning News, and the Dallas Voice. She has appeared on a variety of television and radio programs, including Nightline, Fox and Friends, The Glenn Beck Show, and Playboy Radio. She lives in Dallas, Texas.Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage was written up and/or reviewed both nationally and internationally in and on a variety of publications and sites, including Publishers Weekly, Library Journal, Glamour, Marie Claire, Curve, Observer UK, Maxi (Germany), Psychologies (UK), Playgirl, NPR's Morning Edition, The New York Times and more. Jenny Block, author of Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage (2008 Lambda Literary Award) is a frequent contributor to a number of high-profile publications. Jenny holds both her B.A. and her M.A. in English from Virginia Commonwealth University and taught college composition for nearly ten years. She writes for a wide variety of publications and websites, including The Huffington Post, yourtango.com, American Way, Veranda, The Dallas Morning News, and the Dallas Voice. She has appeared on a variety of television and radio programs, including Nightline, Fox and Friends, The Glenn Beck Show, and Playboy Radio. She lives in Dallas, Texas.Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage was written up and/or reviewed both nationally and internationally in and on a variety of publications and sites, including Publishers Weekly, Library Journal, Glamour, Marie Claire, Curve, Observer UK, Maxi (Germany), Psychologies (UK), Playgirl, NPR's Morning Edition, The New York Times and more.Betty Dodson, artist, author (Liberating Masturbation: A Meditation on Selflove, Sex for One, Orgasms for Two , and My Romantic Love Wars: A Sexual Memoir) and Ph.D. sexologist has been one of the principal voices for women's sexual pleasure and health for over three decades. She has authored numerous articles on the subject of women's sexual pleasure and orgasm and earned a Ph.D. in clinical sexology. She has been on a variety of TV shows, including The History Channel, The O'Reilly Factor, and The View.Betty was recently named one of the top ten sexual revolutionaries by Cosmopolitan magazine and number 43 of the 100 most important people in sex by Playboy magazine. She continues her private practice as a sex coach in New York City. Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved. Part 2: Foreplay The word “foreplay” has always been a bit of an issue for me because it implies that any activity categorized within it is merely a pit stop be“fore” you get to the Main Event, that is, intercourse---the real sex. Frankly, I don’t care if the stuff in this chapter happens ‘fore, after or somewhere ‘tween. I’d much prefer you focus on the latter part of the word---the “play” part. Because I think sex---all aspects of it---should ultimately be fun. When something is fun, you look forward to it, and, that’s right, you make time for it. Also, whether foreplay is used as a warm-up for intercourse or is an event all on its own, you’ll both look forward to it even more if you know what you’re doing in this department. Because, let’s be honest, if your guy gives lousy massage, you’re hardly going to clear your calendar for it, are you? And if her blow jobs are a little, well, blah, you might not be so enthusiastic about rushing home for one, right? So let’s solve two problems. Let’s find time for more foreplay in your life and let’s make your foreplay the best it can be! Start With the Basics Set the mood – Light some candles, pour a glass of wine, lock the bedroom door. Get comfy – You’ll enjoy whatever you’re doing a whole lot more if you’re both comfortable. Practice good hygiene – Make sure hands and nails are clean, and mouths and genitals are fresh. Ease into it – You’ll get a better response from your partner if you warm them up. Don’t just touch, feel – Touching is a monologue, feeling is a conversation. Every time you touch your partner, be conscious of the connection between you. Tease – Always leave your partner wanting more. Be unpredictable without being too scattered – Variety is welcome but not to the point of distraction. Be enthusiastic – Make your partner feel like there’s nowhere else you’d rather be. When in doubt, ask – It’ll save you driving around the block a few extra times. Don’t worry about the final destination – Ironically, the more you pay attention to the route, rather than where you’re going, the greater the chance you’ll get there. Read more