What to do if my family was loaning me 5k, so I deposited the check and paid off the debts but they stopped payment on the check?
I suggest that you have a face to face meeting with the bank's manger over what transpired with a family member to discuss the fact that the 401 k loan did not go through as planned. From there, work on a way to get the money into the bank with the assistance of the family member who stopped the payment of the check (loan) to you.