Just got it and love it.  We will have to put a piece of plywood down as we want a lower bed and higher headboard.  I knew this ahead of time, so am not disappointed.  If I wanted a box spring, this would not be necessary.  I am 52 and put it together myself in about one hour.  I suggest taking out all the pieces, thinking logically, and following the directions.  I think the main problem people are having is that the larger bolts are intended if you only have the headboard.  I did not need them as I got the whole bed.  I ordered at 4 pm and it arrived the next day at 12 pm.  I have been raving about Joss and Main because of their customer service.  This is my second order and am very happy.