Also had “comforters “ my whole life. But they aren’t  machine washable, at least if you don’t want them messed up afterwards. They look lumpy and / or threads coming out. So I wanted to try something different. I knew that these type of bedspreads were thinner and layed nicer. But I didn’t want the “old lady” look. I’m very pleased with this one!!! Lays nice and flat and heavier than others. Haven’t washed it yet so I don’t know what will happen. Fingers crossed! Fits my queen bed perfectly!! Very happy with my purchase!