I purchased this for my master bedroom and am very pleased with my choice. The gray is soft almost a dark taupe. I love the pale blue and yellow ( very pale) in this duvet. It lays about 8 to 10 inches over the side of my queen size bed. The accent pillows are a very nice touch. I'm going to say it is soft but not to an extreme. This is not a complaint just an observation. I washed it first and yes it wrinkles but again not a complaint just trying to give a thorough review. I'm very pleased with my purchase and looking forward to finishing off my guest bedroom.

Pros: Durable, true to the photo
Cons: None