I wish I could give this bed 5 stars like everyone else - Someone has to convince me that those reviews are real owners of this bed. I would agree with the looks, however, this bed will not stay together - the headboard and footer do not attach and lock - the bed is always coming separated from the frame. Can anyone tell me what is wrong? I am a good follower of instructions and have put together many complicated furniture together - this one boggles my mind- Wayfair needs to investigate these reviews or find a solution - DO NOT BUY! I will change my review if they finds the solution.