The pattern is lovely and as shown, but to me the grey one is a very warm tone and a bit more like greyish-taupe.  Since that shade doesn't work with my decor and I wanted a cool shade of grey, I returned the throw.  I didn't take it out of the package, so I can't comment on the softness or thickness.   I wanted it to be lightweight and it is.  The secondary color is white.  According to the dimensions on the package, it is the long 70" type of throw (many are only 60").