This is a great mattress.  My husband and I have different preferences: He prefers a firmer mattress (which always seems to hurt my hips when side sleeping)…I prefer a softer choice, which tends to hurt his back. Not to sound like a fairy tale…but it’s not too soft and not too firm…it is just right!  We have bought several mattresses from Wayfair and they have never disappointed.  This may be the best one yet!