I had it for about a month now. It was too firm for me during the first week. But even so, the back aches that I had were gone after the first night! It did soften up overtime to feel more like a pillow top. It’s not too plushy (like the pillow tops I’m used to) but it feels soo comfortable. I also don’t have night sweats anymore. For comparison, I stayed at the The Paris Hotel in Vegas for a few nights but I still really missed my bed. It’s the best mattress I’ve ever slept on.