Very girlie! I did not notice how girlie it actually was until I received it. It is not the pink shown on the website. It has slight tones of lilac/purple. It also arrived with a hole on the backside. The slots for connecting to the metal frame do not match up, so I could only use one bolt on each side however, it is still very sturdy! The bolts do stick out more than I would want them too and I am afraid they will rip my box spring.
Update: Careful with the diamonds! If they get caught on something they will pull out and its a pain to try and get them back in. They will not be as tight as they were.