the high if the board is perfect.  Exactly what I wanted.  not too high but doesnt sit low on the same level as the pillows.  youre able to buy nice big pillow and still have the headboard showcased.  that was important to me because what is the point of having a headboard if you cant see it ?  I have the one in grey.  Its not a solid grey, which doesn't bother me too much; it has a textured pattern to it with slight streaking.  doesnt look bad at all though.  I imagine if it were a solid grey it would fall flat so in the end i kind of appreciate it.  the folds in each buttonback is soo pretty and not too dramatic but just enough.  very appropriate for a master bedroom or a mature young girl