The headboard is not even visible. Actual bed does not look like the pictures. An 8” mattress is recommended, and I used a 13” mattress, but even so, the headboard is just not substantial. I purchased the king and only have standard pillows on the bed, and even they cover the headboard. If it were not such a difficult to return large item, I would return it. But instead, will live with with a disappointing purchase for now. Would not recommend, especially if you’re drawn to this bed because of its pretty headboard.