Edit -
I ended up keeping the bed because my husband liked it. I just planned to go forward and buy a new bed in the next few years since this one was cheaper. I do have to say...this bed did soften up significantly since we got it. It took months, but its now pretty comfortable. It wasnt what I was looking for, but it is much better than it was. Im updating my review to 4 stars.


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I am extremely disappointed in this purchase and am likely returning it. 

Based on the reviews I thought this would be the best option - a medium firmness pillow top. All the reviews agree the bed is soft but not too soft and has some firmness there, which is exactly what I was looking for. But, I feel like I am sleeping on the floor. This is 100 not for side sleepers. Nearing the end of my sleep I find myself tossing and turning. 

I refuse to buy a mattress pad for a brand new bed. So my husband and I need to figure out what were going to buy next.