We have had our new bed for about three weeks now. While it is the most plush mattress T&N offers, it is a lot firmer than the mattress we were replacing. We are both still on the fence as to whether or not we like the mattress because it is so firm. One pro is my husband is typically a hot sleeper and he has stayed nice and cool with this mattress. I have considered purchasing the topper for our new mattress (we had the T&N topper for our last mattress and loved it), but I was hoping I wouldn't have to do this when I spent so much on a quality mattress.