I adore this comforter! It definitely doesn’t photograph well, as it is so much prettier in person. I don’t find the fabric to be rough at all. It is pretty wrinkled, hopefully a steamer will polish the look a bit. I can’t wait to accessorize with a throw and pillows. 
I’m not sure if it sleeps hot or not. We got a new mattress and used the comforter for the first time, the first night we slept on the new matters. We did wake up hot, but unsure of the culprit.