The bed was incredibly easy to set up. It took my husband and I less than 30 minutes to put it together. The directions were easy to follow and all of the pieces come inside the headboard under the Velcro. Watch the video clip on how to set it up also. It is very helpful. The bed arrived quickly and without a single scratch on any of the pieces. It is pretty sturdy and I like that you have the option to put the headboard up higher if you have a pillow top mattress. The grey is very dark grey with a pattern that almost look like blue jean. It looks really modern and clean. I love this bed especially for the price!