I'm not a person who would usually spend $165 on a pillow, but as an indulgence that will impact everyday of your life and make you more comfortable, this pillow is worth it. I'm disabled and often have a lot of trouble falling asleep, so I decided it's worth investing in anything that will help me sleep restfully. This pillow is mushy is a really wonderful way. It cradles my head and neck in a way that is so comfortable I wonder how I ever dealt with the cheap pillows I've always used. I've had this Caspar pillow for a few nights ( I wanted to be sure how I felt about it before I shared a review) and I still love it. I chose the King size because I toss and turn so much. I love that it's so generously sized compared to a Standard sized pillow. The next time I'm mattress shopping, I will definitely look at a Casper mattress. Yes, it's expensive, but my mom always says you get what you pay for.