We personally love this bed. It is low profile so if questioning height just go for another bed. Assembly was easy for my boyfriend, took less than an hour. Mattress slats seem sturdy, no issues so far. We just used our existing mattress. Love the headboard height and softness of the fabric. Gold is not shiny, more matte which we like. Even room under the bed for extra storage. Can't wait to decorate the rest of the room!