I absolutely LOVE this comforter, it’s probably our favorite ever and Im 49, he’s 59!  I always run cold, husband always runs hot!  It’s heavy enough for me to feel some weight and warmth but, not so heavy that it weighs me down and doesn’t make him sweat!  The underside has a really soft lining that keeps me warm and him cool!  It’s stylish, but not overly so and adds a nice touch of style to the bedroom without being overbearing!  It arrived really quickly, and that’s saying a LOT since I live in Alaska!  He actually told me to order another one or two, because we will never find one that we like as much again!