Like everyone else, we think this is a beautiful headboard.  I'm so glad I was warned in the reviews to attach the wings first or I would have really been upset; the instructions are definitely backwards.  My only drawback to the headboard is that the color has a navy hue to it which clashes with my black comforter set; I wish someone had mentioned that. I  feel like the description is misleading in that regards and would return the headboard but the cost would be too great.  Also, I was told there aren't bolts included to attach the headboard to our frame; indeed there are four extra bolts along with nuts and washers to do so.  Ordering without seeing is somewhat of a gamble and this is one I wish I hadn't taken.