Ok. Was pretty easy to put together, me and my dad put it together and it took about 3 hours. Feels soft. However, the small plastic pieces that hold the slat kit onto the bed are made of thin plastic. if you sit down on the bed too hard/sudden, they will break and you have to hot glue them or leave it broken or leave the bed tilted. Not happy about that, but Wayfair had great customer service(like, legit the best I've experienced) and they sent me replacement pieces for the broken pieces, even after a couple months after we ordered and received the bed. Thank you, Wayfair!