My bed arrived very quickly!  My daughters put it together in about 60-90 minutes? Maybe not that long.  I like it!  I compromised and picked the gray headboard and I really like it!!  My mattress is 14” and the perfect height. Unfortunately I haven’t been able to sleep on it yet as our power has been out and I’m staying at my daughters who has power. I live in Sacramento and we had rain and wind on Sunday, reason for power outage.